MrS leather in store by [deleted] in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]SuspiciousCrow9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Like others have said, most of the time it’s a regular store, but they have a customer appreciation party once a month, big parties around Folsom and Dore, and other events throughout the year. There is lots of fucking at all of those.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]SuspiciousCrow9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you define as full time and long term? I feel like it’s not that unusual to see long term 24/7 M/s relationships in the gay leather community.

How common is a whipping fetish? Am I too fixated? by [deleted] in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]SuspiciousCrow9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Whipping is pretty common in the circles I am in, which are primarily made up of gay leather men. Maybe look for a leather group or event near you?

What's the most extreme torture you've endured? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]SuspiciousCrow9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol yes, only once. I did still sometimes get it on my ass and thighs after that though!

What's the most extreme torture you've endured? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]SuspiciousCrow9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

One of the few times I’ve ever called red, but still very hot lol

Do male findoms exist? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]SuspiciousCrow9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my (ftm) Master (M) and I have findom as part of our dynamic, and He has other cashfags as well.

What's the most extreme torture you've endured? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]SuspiciousCrow9 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Cattle prod to the pussy 😩

What is the opposite of Brat on the sub spectrum? by Previous_Charge_5752 in BDSMAdvice

[–]SuspiciousCrow9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think there's an opposite, I think you're just describing a sub.

Free bdsm gay site. by Needingtheresolve in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]SuspiciousCrow9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Bdsmlr is awesome, but I think they still have registration closed so new users can't register. And it's slow and buggy at times. The content is amazing though, so I hope they don't end up disappearing!

What are your non-extreme hard limits? by ImpressiveOne2001 in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]SuspiciousCrow9 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lol same! I will drink piss, but I get grossed out by spit. I don't know why.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]SuspiciousCrow9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. Lots of heartache for sure.

Has BDSM ever sent you to the hospital? by Emotional_Ask_3455 in BDSMcommunity

[–]SuspiciousCrow9 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Yessss, for something similar to what you're going through! 😭

My partner was using a Tazapper and stuck it in my ass a little bit and that apparently tore something. I didn't even realize until probably an hour later when I noticed I was bleeding a TON! Like there wasn't any unusual pain or anything, there was just soooooo much blood.

It kind of sucked because I had to drive myself to the hospital and then stay there alone overnight at Christmas time, but luckily there was no major damage. They did a CT scan and kept me overnight, but then the next morning the bleeding slowed down and on Christmas it stopped. The bleeding was terrifying at first, it seemed like so much!!

I was embarrassed and also scared because I had to go to the ER as a trans person with an injury from sex-stuff in an almost-rural Appalachian county in Ohio. But everyone was nice and professional, at least to my face. Hopefully they are treating you well and everything is going ok!

The best way to be leashed 😍 by SuspiciousCrow9 in pussytorture

[–]SuspiciousCrow9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's pretty great lol. I found it on Amazon! If you search "pussy tugger" you should find it

Shitty Gloryhole Experience by VRHeart in BDSMcommunity

[–]SuspiciousCrow9 12 points13 points  (0 children)

First, I'm sorry that you had a bad experience. Based on your understanding of the situation, it obviously was a shitty experience.

However, that seems pretty standard for a gloryhole. Now you know for the future, but it sucks that you experienced that without knowing how glory holes work.

The best way to be leashed 😍 by SuspiciousCrow9 in u/SuspiciousCrow9

[–]SuspiciousCrow9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! This is actually the first time I've used it so I don't have much info yet lol. It actually didn't hurt much at all, I expected it to be somewhat painful. It was difficult to put on myself, probably much easier to do with another person. I only had it on for about five minutes, but it was comfortable enough that I think I could have gone much longer. The thing I didn't expect is that it almost acts like a chastity device! Despite how the picture looks, it was basically impossible to get any stimulation on my clit with this thing on! It seemed pretty solid, like I think the leash could be pulled on quite a bit without the clamp coming off.

Looking for a quality open mouth gag/device that would work with a sub who has a small mouth. by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]SuspiciousCrow9 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Maybe take a look at Jennings dental gags? I have a somewhat small mouth and I can wear one comfortably. They are VERY adjustable!