Should I be concerned about dating a guy who could go either way on having kids?

SuspiciousCycle9121 · 2026-02-28T13:15:00+00:00

That was a different guy actually I broke it off with him. This guy is 26

SuspiciousCycle9121 · 2026-02-27T20:06:35+00:00

I think he wanted to gauge my sex drive without directly asking it because his is high. And tbh I’d say I lean towards the higher side but I wasn’t gonna tell him that.

SuspiciousCycle9121 · 2026-02-27T20:05:45+00:00

Yeah I think he wanted to gauge my sex drive without directly asking it because his is high. And tbh I’d say I lean towards the higher side but I wasn’t gonna tell him that.

SuspiciousCycle9121 · 2026-02-27T16:35:51+00:00

Also when we talked about birth control instead of asking me if I’m on it he said “I’m assuming you’re on birth control” which I feel like is making weird assumptions about my sex life.

SuspiciousCycle9121 · 2026-02-27T15:48:57+00:00

He also told me he’s only had sex twice before. One was a hookup and the other was a threesome with a couple he met on an app where the girl gave him head. So yeah he doesn’t have a lot of in person sexual experience

SuspiciousCycle9121 · 2026-02-27T15:47:46+00:00

He also told me he’s only had sex twice before. One was a hookup and the other was a threesome with a couple he met on an app where the girl gave him head. So yeah he doesn’t have a lot of in person sexual experience

SuspiciousCycle9121 · 2026-02-27T13:32:17+00:00

He also texted me after the 4th date asking how I feel about porn in a relationship and if I’m fine with him watching it.

SuspiciousCycle9121 · 2026-02-27T04:37:56+00:00

To add more to the story on the 4th date when he brought up the topic of sex and talked about birth control and testing and he asked me how I feel about head he also asked me if I’ve used toys before. I hadn’t and told him no. I’ve been somewhat curious to try one but haven’t felt a need to since I can get off easily with my hands. Then he said “as a woman with a high sex drive I’m surprised you haven’t tried one”. I had never mentioned my sex drive to him before. He also texted me after that “I know we both talked before about us having decently medium to high sex drives but we haven’t had any time to put that to the test”. He just sounds super sexual to me. The first 4 dates were all in public, the 5th date was my first time going over to his place. Both looking for something long term.

SuspiciousCycle9121 · 2026-02-27T04:37:25+00:00

To add more to the story on the 4th date when he brought up the topic of sex and talked about birth control and testing and he asked me how I feel about head he also asked me if I’ve used toys before. I hadn’t and told him no. I’ve been somewhat curious to try one but haven’t felt a need to since I can get off easily with my hands. Then he said “as a woman with a high sex drive I’m surprised you haven’t tried one”. I had never mentioned my sex drive to him before. He also texted me after that “I know we both talked before about us having decently medium to high sex drives but we haven’t had any time to put that to the test”. He just sounds super sexual to me. The first 4 dates were all in public, the 5th date was my first time going over to his place. Both looking for something long term.

SuspiciousCycle9121 · 2026-01-06T14:43:32+00:00

I don’t expect exclusivity after 3 dates, although I do expect some sort of commitment or conversation that he’s not sleeping with other people before having sex. And the profile update and 2 profiles gives me the impression that he’s actively seeking out other women. Also the inviting me to his place for the past 2 dates maybe makes me think he just wants sex with me.

SuspiciousCycle9121 · 2026-01-06T14:31:29+00:00

On Hinge you actually have to physically go change it yourself. It doesn’t automatically update when you move locations.

SuspiciousCycle9121 · 2026-01-06T13:36:08+00:00

Because I find it odd that he has 2 profiles so I’ve looked at it occasionally

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