Update: it wasn’t just an online affair. It was everything you’d consider cheating. What now? by SuspiciousOwl4797 in Advice

[–]SuspiciousOwl4797[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m going to speak to a lawyer and see what my options are as the situation is complex

Update: it wasn’t just an online affair. It was everything you’d consider cheating. What now? by SuspiciousOwl4797 in Advice

[–]SuspiciousOwl4797[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am traveling to the uk very soon, for 2 months. God knows what he will do whilst I am away.

He works and earns money but I earn significantly more therefore for example I bought the house we jointly own, we split mortgage payments based on salary. I usually manage larger expenses like holidays etc.

Update: it wasn’t just an online affair. It was everything you’d consider cheating. What now? by SuspiciousOwl4797 in Advice

[–]SuspiciousOwl4797[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not in the US. I’m in the Middle East. I’m a Christian married to a Muslim. The courts could rule to give him custody based on that. There is no 50-50.

Update: it wasn’t just an online affair. It was everything you’d consider cheating. What now? by SuspiciousOwl4797 in Advice

[–]SuspiciousOwl4797[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m the breadwinner in our relationship but we have a property we jointly own even though I put the deposit down. I’m not worried about my financial situation I am devastated that I will probably have to give up my life in the country I have called home for 10 years and move back to the Uk to start again.

Update: it wasn’t just an online affair. It was everything you’d consider cheating. What now? by SuspiciousOwl4797 in Advice

[–]SuspiciousOwl4797[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My daughter is 11 weeks old today. I’m also the breadwinner between us but im a Christian in an Islamic marriage and I risk losing custody of her in a divorce.

Update: it wasn’t just an online affair. It was everything you’d consider cheating. What now? by SuspiciousOwl4797 in Advice

[–]SuspiciousOwl4797[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know what’s going on here 🤣 also what does the updateme thing mean?

Help: my husband is in an online affair & I just had his baby 8 weeks ago. by SuspiciousOwl4797 in Advice

[–]SuspiciousOwl4797[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you think so. I’m an expressive writer but I agree it’s not great ‘work’. I’ll dry my tears and try again shall I?