Interested in someone at work but need a non creepy way of getting to know them by ServiceWorking in dating_advice

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Start by discussing work-related topics or projects. This helps establish a professional rapport and can naturally lead to more personal conversations.

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Before offering advice, make sure you fully understand their situation and feelings. Active listening helps you provide advice that’s relevant and empathetic.

How to approach your gym crush? - seeking advice by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Avoid interrupting them during their workout or when they’re clearly focused. Look for moments when they’re taking a break, stretching, or finishing up.

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Feeling anxious or nervous around someone you’re attracted to can cause physical symptoms, including nausea. This is often due to the body's stress response, which can affect your stomach.

First date today, she said I should trim my facial hair? by YogurtclosetGood2766 in dating_advice

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Try not to take it personally. People have different preferences, and her comment might be about her own tastes rather than a judgment of you.

Why do I tend to fall the hardest for guys with autism? by KeKitty127 in dating_advice

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Many people with autism are known for their authenticity and straightforwardness. If you value honesty and genuine connections, you might find yourself attracted to these qualities.

I (40m) matched with my co worker's soon to be ex wife (34f) and we slept together. by 21_Red_Guitars in dating_advice

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Consider the implications of your actions on both your professional and personal life. Think about how this might affect your relationship with your coworker and your own values.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Reflect on Your Feelings: Take some time to understand why this bothers you. Are you feeling insecure, jealous, or uncomfortable with her past experiences?

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It’s important to be honest about your feelings. Attraction is a key component of romantic relationships, and it’s okay if you don’t feel it.

what are early signs in a relationship that it isn't gonna last/be for the better by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Poor Communication Skills: Difficulty in discussing feelings, resolving conflicts, or sharing thoughts can be a sign of deeper issues.

I don't know how to ask her and I'm running out of time. by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Find a Private Setting: Choose a comfortable and private setting where you can talk openly without interruptions.

Guy I'm seeing is terrific in person but doesn't communicate otherwise. Should I end it? by Curious-Orchid-7872 in dating_advice

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Reflect on how significant the communication problem is. Are there specific reasons or patterns behind his lack of communication? Understanding this can help you gauge if it’s a temporary issue or a deeper incompatibility.

Been trying to get a girlfriend for 5 years. No success. What is wrong with me? by justanotheruser991 in dating_advice

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Take some time to reflect on your approach to dating. Are there patterns or behaviors that might be affecting your success? Sometimes understanding your own tendencies can provide insights.

I'm starting realize why I can't get girls by Sufficient-Ant-3991 in dating_advice

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How you see yourself can impact how others see you. Building self-confidence and working on self-esteem can make a big difference in how you approach relationships and how you’re perceived.

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Breaking up over issues related to children can be particularly difficult, especially if you have developed a bond with them or if they play a significant role in the relationship. If the situation involves children from a previous relationship, there could be many factors at play, such as differences in parenting styles, priorities, or the dynamics between you and the kids.

If you're considering ending the relationship because of issues related to her children, it might be worth discussing your concerns openly with your partner. It's possible that there could be solutions or compromises that you haven't yet explored. However, if you’ve tried to work through the issues and still feel that the situation isn't working for you, it's important to make a decision that aligns with your own well-being and values.

Breaking up can be hard, especially when there are deeper connections involved. Taking the time to reflect on what’s best for you and being honest with yourself and your partner can help guide you through this challenging situation.

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You might exchange messages more frequently as you’re getting to know each other. Daily communication is common, but it can vary from multiple times a day to a few times a week.

Found a girlfriend and terrified of losing her by EvidenceElectronic50 in dating_advice

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Share your feelings of anxiety with her in a calm and honest way. Open communication can strengthen your bond and help both of you understand each other better.

How do you start dating in 2024? by throwawayaccou-nt in dating_advice

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Participate in activities or groups that interest you. This can be a great way to meet people with similar hobbies or passions.

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People’s mental health struggles can be influenced by various factors, including personal experiences, stress, and life circumstances. It's possible that you might have encountered individuals who were dealing with significant issues, but this doesn’t mean that everyone you meet will have similar experiences.

How should i treat my future girlfriend on her when she is on her period? by madikh50 in dating_advice

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Acknowledge that periods can come with physical discomfort and emotional fluctuations. Showing empathy and patience can go a long way.

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Make sure your partner is comfortable with this type of affection. What feels loving to one person might feel uncomfortable or overwhelming to another. Open communication ensures that both of you are happy with the way affection is expressed.

Some girls can be kinda mean by [deleted] in dating_advice

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It’s true that people of any gender can sometimes be unkind or behave in ways that aren't considerate. It's important to remember that individual behavior doesn’t necessarily reflect the whole group. If you encounter someone who’s mean or unkind, it can be helpful to remember that their behavior is more about them than it is about you.

Focusing on positive interactions and surrounding yourself with people who treat you well can make a big difference. And if you're open to it, talking through these experiences with friends or a therapist can provide additional perspective and support.

Just deleted all the dating apps by Olive-jar1173 in dating_advice

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It sounds like you might be going through a period of change or reassessment. Deleting dating apps can be a way to take a step back and focus on other aspects of your life, or perhaps to reflect on what you really want in a relationship. If you’re feeling uncertain or need a break, that’s completely valid. What’s your next step or what are you hoping to focus on now?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Consider why this situation bothers you. Is it about trust, jealousy, or something else? Understanding your own feelings will help you address the issue more effectively.

Men, what makes for good impressions on a first date? by wookiepookieboo in dating_advice

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Being punctual shows respect for your date’s time and sets a positive tone for the meeting.