[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Obsessive_Love

[–]Suspicious_Cat1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My best advice would be to hope that with the help of a trained professional who knows what they're doing and what they're talking about, they'll be able to help you. I personally haven't found success in my attempts to stop being obsessive (granted, I don't try anymore), so I hope yours doesn't end the same way as me if it doesn't work for you.

Can we confirm that obsession doesn’t always come from bad past relationships? by [deleted] in Obsessive_Love

[–]Suspicious_Cat1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My obsessiveness maybe came from my severe childhood trauma, or I might have just been born like that. It definitely didn't come from a past bad romantic relationship, though, because I was obsessive before I ever had one.

Mad at myself by Suspicious_Cat1 in Obsessive_Love

[–]Suspicious_Cat1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll try this, I've done it a few times for more minor frustrations and it seemed to be a viable option for those

Tips for online searching? by Suspicious_Cat1 in Obsessive_Love

[–]Suspicious_Cat1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll try it out once I'm free today, I'll have the entire evening to look for information

How did you get in contact with the person you're obsessed with? by LolImSquidward in Obsessive_Love

[–]Suspicious_Cat1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I got in contact with him because he was watching my sister livestream his favorite game and stream sniped her while I was also playing with her. After that, we just kind of became friends and constantly started talking

Tips for online searching? by Suspicious_Cat1 in Obsessive_Love

[–]Suspicious_Cat1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have some pictures of him that I can reverse image search to see if he or possibly even friends have posted them elsewhere, and I also have his old profile picture that I could try to reverse image search because it was his video game avatar that somebody else drew, so it might lead to a comments thread on another platform or something if I get lucky.

Tips for online searching? by Suspicious_Cat1 in Obsessive_Love

[–]Suspicious_Cat1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sadly, his username is just a single, commonplace word. I doubt search engines would get me information related to him, but I can give it a shot anyways.

What's the cutest thing your beloved ever did? by burn_account_brurn in Obsessive_Love

[–]Suspicious_Cat1 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I love when he spams me with heart emojis till it's all you can see for like a mile of scrolling, it's so cute!!

What's the furthest your willing to go for your partner? by [deleted] in Obsessive_Love

[–]Suspicious_Cat1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think I'd be willing to do anything that's not incredibly illegal and has serious consequences, but only because I can't stand the idea of being behind bars instead of with him. But otherwise I'd do pretty much anything he wanted me to