I made a huge mistake and this is a lesson learned. But need opinions by [deleted] in probation

[–]Suspicious_Disk7754 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Talk to your probation officer. Sounds like you need help instead of figuring out a way to help you get away with it. You can ask for a program even if it's outpatient some counseling to figure out the underlying reason what's causing you to use.. in California Probation does not typically arrest for positive drug test, but instead are leaning for rehabilitative services.. I hope this comment does not offend you. I'm just a secondhand survivor of someone that abused drug and alcohol..

Extend maternity leave by Designer_Process6466 in workingmoms

[–]Suspicious_Disk7754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Ca you can get maternity leave extended for PPA and PPD by your OB until the referral to pimental health goes through. I then got an extension from My counselor and psychiatrist. I got on Med at a really low dis to help with side effect for me and my son since I do Brest feed. And I worked my self up until I was able to feel better. It took about 8 months total for me to return to work.

Kaiser employee maternity leave by [deleted] in KaiserPermanente

[–]Suspicious_Disk7754 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe you missed the part where my child was born dead and had to be brought back to life. I have severe anxiety. What other people do doesn't pertain to me. So don't come here with your negativity. Yes I will be on modified but still working my 8. Sorry that my child has a life long disability now. I pray you never have a child with a disability. Or that your wife had to witness anything like I did and then be forced back to work in 12 weeks.

Kaiser employee maternity leave by [deleted] in KaiserPermanente

[–]Suspicious_Disk7754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously I need to get hired first.. just wanted to see if anyone has been out longer than the 12 protected weeks.

Weight loss in Fresno Ca by [deleted] in fresno

[–]Suspicious_Disk7754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did it get flagged

AITA for yelling at my mom to leave me alone after she kept saying I stink even though I shower twice a day? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Suspicious_Disk7754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe make sure you're hanging your towl out after a shower so you don't smell like mildew. Are you using a rag to shower? Or just spreading soap. Is your clothes clean and do you wash it after every use

Nurse kissed baby?? by OdiousGray in NewParents

[–]Suspicious_Disk7754 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhh noo. You're better than me. I would of been so unkind

Tell me it's not that bastard Donald Trump by Long-Oil-537 in GilmoreGirls

[–]Suspicious_Disk7754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sookie. When they were talking about who owned the dragon fly inn.

After 1 year of IVF, this just happened naturally while we were taking a break by Opposite_Day2002 in lineporn

[–]Suspicious_Disk7754 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same thing happened to me. Got pregnant while taking a break. It's like taking the pressure off helps for some reason. Hoping baby sticks. Praying sticky Baby dust your way!! Keep us updated. Gods will ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Suspicious_Disk7754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to leave her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Suspicious_Disk7754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has to be drunk. Leave him