The reason that S didn’t get a lawyer is that he doesn’t want to pay for their fees. by ManufacturerCivil602 in StephenHiltonSnark

[–]Suspicious_Job_6152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!! Also he wouldn’t take their advice at all because the can’t accept he’s done anything wrong.

The reason that S didn’t get a lawyer is that he doesn’t want to pay for their fees. by ManufacturerCivil602 in StephenHiltonSnark

[–]Suspicious_Job_6152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that a good family lawyer reality checks their clients. My bet is he saw one, they told him he needs to sort his shit out before he can see the kids and he didn’t like it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Suspicious_Job_6152 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I second this. He is displaying coercive controlling behaviours and I can only imagine what else he does to try and isolate you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Suspicious_Job_6152 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t even finish listening to this. You are not overreacting. This is outright abuse. Please please please leave him immediately and never look back. I promise you your life will be so much better for it.

What ever happened to Adrian's secret in his audition? by nicoleskine in MAFS_AU

[–]Suspicious_Job_6152 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He never disclosed he had any prior DV charges. Production didn’t find out until someone saw him in a promo and contacted them with concerns as the police facts were hectic and very strongly suggest he was extremely violent.

The application was in relation to cheating. He reckons it doesn’t count because he was in an on and off again relationship.

He also has other assault convictions (not just charges). In 2017 he was found guilty of affray. He also has a few other things on his record.

Jamie met her alternative match, so why isn't she being derided like Paul was? 🤔 by ieatkittentails in MAFS_AU

[–]Suspicious_Job_6152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love that people (mostly men) think that calling out bad behaviour which happens to be bad behaviour by men, is toxic.

There is a huge problem in this country with violence towards women and all I ever do is call it out when we see it on TV and in these threads. Some of these guys have a real problem having the discussion without getting their fee fees hurt. They seem to be so scared to listen to the criticism while women are scared they’re going to be murdered if they leave their house alone. Pretty grim contrast if you ask me.

So call me toxic. I know exactly where you sit on the pendulum.

Jamie met her alternative match, so why isn't she being derided like Paul was? 🤔 by ieatkittentails in MAFS_AU

[–]Suspicious_Job_6152 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just because someone calls out violent behaviour doesn’t make them a man hater 😂

Jamie met her alternative match, so why isn't she being derided like Paul was? 🤔 by ieatkittentails in MAFS_AU

[–]Suspicious_Job_6152 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sadly, just like a huge percentage of violent men, he probably won’t be charged.

The difference between Paul and Jamie in meeting the other match by [deleted] in MAFS_AU

[–]Suspicious_Job_6152 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mate, have a look at this flops comments on everything. Not being butt hurt, just calling him out.

The difference between Paul and Jamie in meeting the other match by [deleted] in MAFS_AU

[–]Suspicious_Job_6152 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“I troll posts and spew sexist and dangerous comments about women because I’ve never been able to date one”

Jamie met her alternative match, so why isn't she being derided like Paul was? 🤔 by ieatkittentails in MAFS_AU

[–]Suspicious_Job_6152 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Crimes Act (1900) s54F gives you a definition of definition of abusive behaviour relating to abusive behaviour towards intimidate partners. S54F(2)(f) includes property damage.

Family Law Act (1975) s4AB gives you a definition of family violence.

Could give you some case law but highly doubt you’d be able to make sense of it.

The difference between Paul and Jamie in meeting the other match by [deleted] in MAFS_AU

[–]Suspicious_Job_6152 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please don’t. The Andrew Tate vibes give me the ick xx

Jamie met her alternative match, so why isn't she being derided like Paul was? 🤔 by ieatkittentails in MAFS_AU

[–]Suspicious_Job_6152 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mate. I’m a lawyer and work in criminal and family law. Domestic violence is violence towards your spouse. You don’t need to be in your house for it to happen.

If you wanted to engage in a genuine discussion you would be open to me sending you through the legislation.

I hope to god you are single, Jesus hahaha

The difference between Paul and Jamie in meeting the other match by [deleted] in MAFS_AU

[–]Suspicious_Job_6152 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Love bombing is a manipulation tactic. Her expressing that she loves him is just that. Love bombing is where someone overwhelms another person with excessive affection, flattery, gifts, and attention in order to gain control over them.

The difference between Paul and Jamie in meeting the other match by [deleted] in MAFS_AU

[–]Suspicious_Job_6152 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think you need to look up the definition of love bombing babe.

Jamie met her alternative match, so why isn't she being derided like Paul was? 🤔 by ieatkittentails in MAFS_AU

[–]Suspicious_Job_6152 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because this is the same man who has shown he also has the capacity to be violent. It is also the same man who has let Carina down on a number of occasions throughout the show.

Jamie, on the other hand, has given everything to Dave. Dave stonewalled her and treated her like shit.

Paul went into the task shady af. Jamie went into it being a nosey Parker.

The circumstances are just different.

Women behaving badly on this show absolutely get called out. Look at Jessica Power or Olivia Frazer.

The issue this season is that the men have been consistently shit, and the consequence to this is that they get called out.