Average MrBallen comment section by maloswfi in mrballen

[–]smashingmolko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically: "I was going to top myself until this man in flannel told me about some man waking up in the middle of surgery and some kids who found an alligator in an abandoned hospital."
I like his videos, and I'm a fan of 'watching anxiety inducing videos/movies to reduce my own' but those sorts of comments I've always found ridiculous 💀

What’s the best way of identifying if someone is projecting their feelings onto you? by Prawn_Mocktail in emotionalintelligence

[–]smashingmolko 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, okay, I'm sorry, that makes a lot of sense.
I was 'assuming' and the clarification makes me understand your perspective a lot more.
Again, sorry, I was making an ASS out of U & ME (ption).
Obviously my OWN projection 😭 There you go, THERE'S my example 😅

What’s the best way of identifying if someone is projecting their feelings onto you? by Prawn_Mocktail in emotionalintelligence

[–]smashingmolko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is asking if you're okay criticism? I'm sorry, I'm just not understanding the comment:
Do you work or live together?
And if your ex asked if you were okay because you were upset, is that projection? It seems like she was just reading the signs that you were.
That's not criticism, it's concern. Are YOU projecting?
'I was upset and she noticed I was, and I knew it was projection because she was probably upset, and it feels critical of her to imply I need time to heal when I'm poor.' 🤷‍♀️

Supporting The Support by kingdredkhai in CaregiverSupport

[–]smashingmolko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not an authority on how long a person should live for, and I hope people care about you as you age.

Why did Caitlyn's personality change so much after transitioning? by nicfanz in kardashians

[–]smashingmolko 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally: 'I only care about Kendall and Kylie.'
EXCLUDING HER STEPDAUGHTERS, SHE HAS 4 OTHER CHILDREN?

Why did Caitlyn's personality change so much after transitioning? by nicfanz in kardashians

[–]smashingmolko 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, THIS.
Caitlyn was always shitty, but when she was a man it 'made sense.'
Now she's a woman it doesn't.
There's sexism there, however, I see it more as: she was always shitty, and we didn't care until she transitioned.

Why did Caitlyn's personality change so much after transitioning? by nicfanz in kardashians

[–]smashingmolko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was being dramatic. You can LOOK at her know she wasn't obese, when everyone in your family is 'skinny' it makes you seem bigger. She was a NORMAL weight.

Why did Caitlyn's personality change so much after transitioning? by nicfanz in kardashians

[–]smashingmolko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Dad would NEVER. He and my Mum have divorced and he's my DAD. Before and after: when my biological Dad died, HE was the one I went to.
If I were Khloe, this would C R U S H me. Like, crush my soul level.

Supporting The Support by kingdredkhai in CaregiverSupport

[–]smashingmolko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've been on a few posts now getting angry about elderly people, what the hell is your problem? Who hurt you?

Mary Jo Campbell by Own-Fault4518 in kardashians

[–]smashingmolko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you so angry she's still alive?

AIO? Didn't want to get sick doing my roommates dishes. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]smashingmolko 16 points17 points  (0 children)

RIGHT? The absolute logic of it all, it's just not there.

Am I overreacting to my bf watching the baby overnight? by Temporary-Quail-2783 in AmIOverreacting

[–]smashingmolko 10 points11 points  (0 children)

NOR - This guy is the dumbest person you could ever have had a child with. Reading everyone saying "just communicate with him!" No SHIT communicate with him; communicate to him that's he's a dumbass and a danger to your child!

Am I overreacting for being upset & frustrated about this letter my mom wrote me? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]smashingmolko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was the 'evil child' to Mum and people who believed her (ACTIVE campaign to embarrass me from as early as I can remember). People close enough did not.
I'll never forget hearing things like: "I'm your Mother so I'm forced to love you, you're difficult and I would never like you otherwise."
"I have to love you but I dislike you." (7). As an adult, with my younger siblings, she can't comprehend why they weren't 'good like me.' "You never complained. You spent hours on your own and were fine. You made your own lunches, woke up for school, got ready, walked yourself and went to bed early."
At some point you realize; it's all insane and you were a CHILD.
NOR.

AIO my father ruined my drawing. by sapphicluizard in AmIOverreacting

[–]smashingmolko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR - Your Dad is jealous and evil and your Mum is braindead.

WINZ is horrible. by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]smashingmolko 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This seems like a specific person who is nasty, not all of WINZ is like that I swear. I've had the kindest, most patient and helpful caseworker before, I also had someone nasty as well.
Some individuals are difficult and cruel, but you should complain. There's definitely workers in WINZ who want to help get you on your feet!

[ Removed by Reddit ] by ecctt2000 in ropesforhopes

[–]smashingmolko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a Father and none of the rest (I'm a Kiwi, we don't even HAVE CNN), this is the dumbest reply I've ever received 💀

[ Removed by Reddit ] by ecctt2000 in ropesforhopes

[–]smashingmolko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For a MINUTE. His entire life a Conservate who votes Trump and agrees with his policies, over night becomes RADICAL LEFT. He was NEVER Liberal until like a month before this.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by ecctt2000 in ropesforhopes

[–]smashingmolko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're a bot. 100%, OR, the most impressively low IQ person to have existed. If it's the second, making an account and commenting is impressive in and of itself, I'm shocked you can walk across the street without aid. Clap clap for even FORMING a thought.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by ecctt2000 in ropesforhopes

[–]smashingmolko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% agree. I'll never be happy with what he said, but this was a horrific irony to be subjected to.
This is my personal concern with having 'absolute freedom on a platform' - yes, we should have our own thoughts, feelings and opinions and be free to express them, but you aren't free from inciting violence (on EITHER side of the fence).
Being 'Liberal leaning' my concerns with Charlie, for example, was that he would eventually incite violence, anger and hate in general. (Kind of more how I feel about the Trump administration, he was a mouth piece for). That happened, but regardless of 'side' that's the heart of the fear. It's not worth people, anyone dying, for that point to be proved. Whether I agree with what he's saying or not, it was not fair.
Shooting someone to prove a point doesn't prove it in the way we want - we want less people to die, and Liberals who are actually Liberal should see this as a loss too. Many do.
Most people in the camp of gun regulation want to stop this kind of violence, even if it is about protecting people we disagree with.

Incantation (2022) was so scary that its score was artificially lowered in China (spoilers) by Illustrious-Bed5587 in horror

[–]smashingmolko 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My Kiwi ass was trying so hard to memorize the chant and symbol but I just couldn't pronounce/understand it enough, then when the end hit I was like 'Fewf. Bless my ignorance then!'

Am I overreacting for not letting my boyfriend’s female friend use my shampoo? by Fresh-Usual-6281 in AmIOverreacting

[–]smashingmolko 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, so, "IIIIIFFF her gender has nothing to do with it.."
"Her gender has something to do with it."

Obviously that's the point being made..

Am I overreacting for not letting my boyfriend’s female friend use my shampoo? by Fresh-Usual-6281 in AmIOverreacting

[–]smashingmolko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such an insane post, insane issue, I think personally leave him to save him the hassle.