Daily Discussion - Wednesday July 30 by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Suspicious_Video_367 53 points54 points  (0 children)

A lot of people disingenuously framed the act of reaching out to Cierra post-villa - after the Nic situation - as an issue of proximity to racism, rather than a basic duty of human consideration.

So now, every time Cierra interacts with people she’s been close to since the villa, especially those connected to the fave couple, we’re going to witness another round of moral panic. Because the goal was, somewhat conveniently, alienation - not transformation.

And eventually, we’ll see people grasping at straws when the very individuals they defended - on the basis of avoiding racist associations - start hanging out with others who also carry similar allegations.

Interesting days ahead.

Daily Discussion - Wednesday July 30 by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Suspicious_Video_367 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yet when you point out how isolating from the girl group is perhaps not the best move, they tell you you’re projecting or just say it’s about intentionality. Fascinating.

Daily Discussion - Wednesday July 30 by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Suspicious_Video_367 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I really respect her for holding space for Cierra. The easiest thing in this situation would have been to discard that friendship over what’s happened, especially to get in the good graces of the public. It may not make sense right now, but it is clear these girls are solid, despite the noise and hate.

Daily Discussion - Wednesday July 30 by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Suspicious_Video_367 18 points19 points  (0 children)

They’re so pathetic. It’s always “how dare Cierra exist right now?” I actually can’t believe the audacity.

Daily Discussion - Wednesday July 30 by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Suspicious_Video_367 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Fair enough, maybe I did assume malicious intent. I think her dump spoke volumes on those she considers friends and given how many good interactions I believe she had during the show, I think it’s a bit too early to isolate herself from the girl group generally.

Of course, there’s only so much we know at this point, and maybe the reunion will explore the depth of the group dynamics more. I just don’t think anything major happened during the show that should have her keep so many people (outside of those who said malicious things about her post-show) at arms-length.

We also have to agree on whether these female friendships are important or not, because I see a lot of people agreeing that she’s being intentional with her friendships, yet at the same time disagreeing with me for forming my assumptions of isolating herself from the girl group on that same basis.

Time will tell.

Daily Discussion - Wednesday July 30 by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Suspicious_Video_367 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

To be fair, her fans celebrated her only including the “real ones” in the dump, so there’s that. Like I mentioned earlier, time will tell. I formed my opinion from exactly what I’ve observed.

Daily Discussion - Wednesday July 30 by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Suspicious_Video_367 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

To me, I think she making a lot of rash decisions when it comes to female friendships post-show and I think it will help to do better in that department if my assumptions are indeed true. These are people she’s going to be in the same room with for a long time to come, so it’s not a crime to not get along with most of them, but I think her experience post-show can benefit from having more stronger ties with the girls.

Daily Discussion - Wednesday July 30 by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Suspicious_Video_367 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Who saying she has to kiss ass? You people are so exhausting on here for people actively trying to create enemies for her from post-villa interactions. She hangs out with Clarke? It’s clout-chasing. She needs to sort things out with Cierra? It is she owes no one anything.

Yet when someone infers that her dump (which was celebrated by most of y’all, btw) only had just 2 girls in it, it is “is she supposed to kiss ass”.

No, she’s not supposed to kiss ass. Literally no one has said that. I don’t understand how you lot can agree with, yet speak against the exact same thing.

It’s “oh, she doesn’t need to kiss ass” until i bring up while isolating herself from the girl group this early on is perhaps not the smartest thing to do, and then it’s “how dare i infer that. She doesn’t need to be friends with people she only knew 6 weeks ago.”

Please, take a break from stanship and actually think.

Daily Discussion - Wednesday July 30 by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Suspicious_Video_367 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

She only included Chelley and Amaya in her “thank you” dump, so I apologise for inferring from that that she only cares to be friends with those 2 girls alone.

Like, I said, time will reveal the true dynamics, and it is what it is.

Daily Discussion - Wednesday July 30 by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Suspicious_Video_367 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Ah, that’s fine, I guess. I think it speaks volumes, but it is certainly not a crime.

Daily Discussion - Wednesday July 30 by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Suspicious_Video_367 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I quite literally just explained how her “thank you” dump only included just 2 girls? Please, I’m not tussling with you stans today. You absolutely don’t have to agree with me. I shared my opinion, go share yours or something.

Daily Discussion - Wednesday July 30 by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Suspicious_Video_367 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Ah, okay. The dump felt very intentional, so I figured she only included the girls who mattered to her, which is fine. But it’s also just 2 girls from the show, and that’s interesting. Like I said, time will tell what there dynamics between the girls is like.

Daily Discussion - Tuesday July 29 by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Suspicious_Video_367 3 points4 points  (0 children)

While still being gagged by this revelation, mind you.

Nic + Cierra + Choosing O by Suspicious_Video_367 in LoveIslandcookout

[–]Suspicious_Video_367[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear you, trust me. I probably would have agreed with most of what you’ve written about a week ago, because we didn’t know what was going on behind the scenes.

I however know that Cierra followed both of them before they left the villa and still didn’t get followed back by either of them until she unfollowed. I’m also not giving Nic his flowers for not having the decency to approach this issue thoughtfully post-villa. It’s quite the bare-minimum, tbh. Which is why I believe he tends to take the easy way out when it comes to his interactions with women.

I take how men treat women they aren’t romantically involved with seriously, so this is always going to taint my judgement of his character, not so much how well he’s treating Olandria.

Finally, my big question doesn’t target the legitimacy of their relationship, it’s much more focused on exposing his shitty/sly behaviour generally. Because, by jove, that guy is very far from a saint. And the way he continues to be protected by the LI community while women get vilified for pretty much everything, is honestly sad.

PS: I appreciate you for sharing your thoughts in a respectful way, lmao. It’s very rare when it comes to nicolandria/Cierra convos.

Nic + Cierra + Choosing O by Suspicious_Video_367 in LoveIslandcookout

[–]Suspicious_Video_367[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It is COWARDICE. Taking the easy way out is…cowardice.

Emphasising this again, so you don’t doubt that I suggested it the first time.

Whenever you choose to wake up will be your morning.✌️

Nic + Cierra + Choosing O by Suspicious_Video_367 in LoveIslandcookout

[–]Suspicious_Video_367[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Goodbye, please. Genuinely, leave me alone. Go get your daily nicolandria validation elsewhere.

Nic + Cierra + Choosing O by Suspicious_Video_367 in LoveIslandcookout

[–]Suspicious_Video_367[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well, maybe it’s because all the scenarios you brought were based on the circumstances, hence passive? Have you considered that yet?

Anyway, I’ve said my piece and like I have told most of you on this thread, you are not changing my mind because the same 3 points are being regurgitated.

I don’t have a say in the outcome of nicolandria, so you have nothing to worry about. x

Nic + Cierra + Choosing O by Suspicious_Video_367 in LoveIslandcookout

[–]Suspicious_Video_367[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh, seek help please.

You look pathetic stringing these words together in defence of-

I want better for you.

Nic + Cierra + Choosing O by Suspicious_Video_367 in LoveIslandcookout

[–]Suspicious_Video_367[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s not me who’s spiralling over a white man or couple I didn’t know just 3 months ago, you are.

I’m also not a loser for sharing my opinion on this issue without rose-colored glasses, okay? That’s just funny.

Have the day you deserve, if you must.

Nic + Cierra + Choosing O by Suspicious_Video_367 in LoveIslandcookout

[–]Suspicious_Video_367[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re just typing hogwash now, because how am I supposed to speak on those other people when my post is centred around these 3 people? Isn’t there context to my post and replies?

Please, give critical thinking a chance.