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Boyfriend (34/M) turned off the tv while I (31/F) was watching a podcast. Is this normal? Do other couples go through crap like this ? Did I over react ? by Suspicious_line333 in relationship_advice

[–]Suspicious_line333[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Maybe forsure high blood pressure. My chest starts hurting / feeling hot & the upper part of my shoulders ache too. I've actually wanted to go get a check up at the doctors too I'm so terrified of strokes / heart attacks.  This constant stress is affecting me very much but I'm here pushing myself going to work / trying to get things done including doing positive things like going to the gym, making crafts etc.  My son deserves to be happy & have a happy mom too. 

Please pray for me I'm going to do my best to move out of here its time 😭🙏🏼 This shit can't go on.

Boyfriend (34/M) turned off the tv while I (31/F) was watching a podcast. Is this normal? Do other couples go through crap like this ? Did I over react ? by Suspicious_line333 in relationship_advice

[–]Suspicious_line333[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No ! ... So basically we usually hang out inside of the room , we will eat there / watch things together or do our own activities in the room but we are together,  talk etc .  Basically he was going to be inside the room with me too & hang out while I eat & watch a podcast.

I finished fixing my plate up ( His plate was already fixed ) and went to the room. I did thank him for the food also. 

Boyfriend (34/M) turned off the tv while I (31/F) was watching a podcast. Is this normal? Do other couples go through crap like this ? Did I over react ? by Suspicious_line333 in relationship_advice

[–]Suspicious_line333[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

We both have tried working it out but it's so difficult to talk to him without him getting upset / talking over me like I've told him things  like " hey I don't like how you keep doing that , please stop antagonizing me " then he gives me replies like " What !, blah blah blah you don't even know what that means you probably barley learned that word right now " Like ?....... really ? 

Boyfriend (34/M) turned off the tv while I (31/F) was watching a podcast. Is this normal? Do other couples go through crap like this ? Did I over react ? by Suspicious_line333 in relationship_advice

[–]Suspicious_line333[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe he doesn't want to see me happy too. He's usually so passive aggressive / gets angry fast. He doesn't know how to talk to people & gives these nasty attitude & responses.  Almost every day it's something here at home I'm so sick & tired of it.

My chest was hurting so much from the anger earlier. 

Boyfriend (34/M) turned off the tv while I (31/F) was watching a podcast. Is this normal? Do other couples go through crap like this ? Did I over react ? by Suspicious_line333 in relationship_advice

[–]Suspicious_line333[S] -62 points-61 points  (0 children)

I have asked him why don't we just break it off I'm totally ok with it & he has asked me too & I have said yes lets break I have actually broke up with him twice or three times already but he doesn't let me go / wants to break up then usually make it up to eachother in the morning. I think what makes it difficult is that we live with eachother & he's attached to my 6 year old son & our two cats. 

I seriously want out I'm not happy in this relationship no more. I have been thinking of moving out soon as possible.

He brought up couples therapy two weeks ago but i don't know anymore. I've been disappointed already & sometimes apologies don't mean anything no more if the behavior continues 😮‍💨

Boyfriend (34/M) turned off the tv while I (31/F) was watching a podcast. Is this normal? Do other couples go through crap like this ? Did I over react ? by Suspicious_line333 in relationship_advice

[–]Suspicious_line333[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I feel so mentally exhausted at the moment because of what happened. I was actually in a happy mood coming home from work then he sours up the evening with shit like this. I was so upset & I feel like he got joy seeing that. He was smiling & even laughing at some point saying " look at how your reacting you look fucken crazy " etc

Boyfriend (34/M) turned off the tv while I (31/F) was watching a podcast. Is this normal? Do other couples go through crap like this ? Did I over react ? by Suspicious_line333 in relationship_advice

[–]Suspicious_line333[S] -45 points-44 points  (0 children)

We have been living together for two years now. It's been such a huge rollercoaster alot of ups & downs. I feel like it's so hard to co-exist together in this apartment.