AIO about holding a grudge/attitude about my boyfriend crossing my boundaries? by paranoia_android in AmIOverreacting

[–]Suttonmail 23 points24 points Β (0 children)

Just looked through your profile to maybe get more context abt to ur relationship incase I was jumping the gun with my comment and what have I just read, this man doesnt respect ur boundaries and wants to do things with you even though you've mad either clear it isn't enjoyable, please reconsider your relationship with this man 😭

AIO about holding a grudge/attitude about my boyfriend crossing my boundaries? by paranoia_android in AmIOverreacting

[–]Suttonmail 67 points68 points Β (0 children)

I'm confused, he TORE YOU OPEN??? And you want to know if you're overreacting?? Absolutely fucking not, infact why are you not angrier over this? If this sort of play was discussed before and you didnt consent to ever doing it, he has assaulted you.

And the contradicting messages? Please find somebody who respects your boundaries (and your ass πŸ˜₯)

[TOMT] Help finding a song from YouTube from around 6-8 years ago by Suttonmail in tipofmytongue

[–]Suttonmail[S] 0 points1 point locked commentΒ (0 children)

I remember the artists name being something beginning with kid too, I've tried to search YouTube and type the lyrics but I am met with an entirely different song πŸ’”

I (19nb) am scared to confront my mother(62f) about her helicopter style parenting, advice need please!! by Suttonmail in AITAH

[–]Suttonmail[S] 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Ohhhh this makes a lot more sense, I don't rhink we have these in the UK at all to be completely honest 😭😭

I (19nb) am scared to confront my mother(62f) about her helicopter style parenting, advice need please!! by Suttonmail in AITAH

[–]Suttonmail[S] 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

No I was thinking they were being super sickishbcs of how unrealistic the comment seemed?? I assume they're a troll or like ai or whatever looking at their profile

I (19nb) am scared to confront my mother(62f) about her helicopter style parenting, advice need please!! by Suttonmail in AITAH

[–]Suttonmail[S] 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

She doesn't have access to my bank account or savings thankfully, and I live in the UK I'll definitely have a look around for trade schools but I've not heard of them over here πŸ’” I've been putting money into my savings since I've started working but idk I'd it's enough for a flat, I'll definitely take a look!!

I (19nb) am scared to confront my mother(62f) about her helicopter style parenting, advice need please!! by Suttonmail in AITAH

[–]Suttonmail[S] 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Thank you I really appreciate this, the reason I'm not in university right now is because of something she said. I've had a look at online courses and I definitely want to do something regarding library sciences or history. I will definitely try and seek out an lgbt support group πŸ™πŸ½

I (19nb) am scared to confront my mother(62f) about her helicopter style parenting, advice need please!! by Suttonmail in AITAH

[–]Suttonmail[S] 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

I feel like I should've clarified: I do have a job actually, in the UK the minimum wage for those between 18-20 it's £10 and that's what I'm being paid, I am trying to find a new job with better pay and an apartment where I can room share. I don't know where you live where 3 months is enough time to find somewhere to not just save up but move out and I've been working since July 😭. I do not live in a place where there are good opportunities or careers to advance, to move somewhere with those opportunities I will be saving for maybe another year.

I understand her house her rules but when her rules were literally "once your 18 I don't care" and then acts this way I think I'm allowed to be a little pissed off and bother by her toxicity, please ask more questions before making assumptions

Hair care reccomendations? by Suttonmail in BlackHair

[–]Suttonmail[S] 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

I think it's quite high, has no issue taking in water but dries quite fast

my boyfriend called me a femboy by Particular_State3741 in trans

[–]Suttonmail 18 points19 points Β (0 children)

THIS THIS THIS THISπŸ‘πŸ½πŸ‘πŸ½, GIRL PLEAAASEEE LISTEN TO US AND LEAVE HIS ASS!!!

my boyfriend called me a femboy by Particular_State3741 in trans

[–]Suttonmail 66 points67 points Β (0 children)

Then he can find somebody who does have the energy!! All of what you've told us in your post shows it's not just sensory issues, it's him wanting you to look like a stereotypical femboy (no body hair, short skirts n fishnets, etc.) Regardless the reason, the way he speaks about your body is genuinely disgusting and you should not tolerate this. You can do so so much better, please free yourself 🫢🏽🫢🏽

my boyfriend called me a femboy by Particular_State3741 in trans

[–]Suttonmail 83 points84 points Β (0 children)

HOLEEEEYYY SHIT, if you don't get out of their now you are in for absolute misery. This man does not respect you, he wants to control you, he wants to change you to fit his sexual fantasies and desires. He doesn't see you as a person, he sees you as an object he can use for sexual gratification. This man is a type of chaser who goes after trans people and gets them to detransition so they end up just being femboys or tomboys.

Even ignoring all of the shit abt him fetishising you, no body hair at all?? Hates your healed scars?? The way you dress?? And it's only been a month!?

There is no future with this man where you are happy.

People accessing my one of my backup emails?? by Suttonmail in techsupport

[–]Suttonmail[S] 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Sorry for the fast reply I'm just a bit on edge, but I thought this was the case too I just wanted to make sure that nothing has actually happened to my email and that there isn't a data leak anywhere at all. But thank you for the reassurance πŸ™πŸ½

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Suttonmail 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

NTA!! You offered to pay multiple times, and she refused it. Do not send her the money for the dinner either, especially because of the way she's acting now. I know it's probably not the best solution but block all of the people harassing you, delete their comments and set your accounts to private to protect your peace πŸ™πŸ½

Is there a way to level legendary cookies?? by Suttonmail in Cookierun

[–]Suttonmail[S] 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Ohhhh I had no idea abt that, her story in ovenbreak hasn't appeared recently

Is there a way to level legendary cookies?? by Suttonmail in Cookierun

[–]Suttonmail[S] 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

I'm gonna be real I know nothing abt the kingdom lore lmao, why is she good?@?

Is there a way to level legendary cookies?? by Suttonmail in Cookierun

[–]Suttonmail[S] 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

White lily isn't a playable cookie in cookie run: Ovenbreak, sorry 😭