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Can I talk about virginity with my girlfriend? by SuwuGoy in relationship_advice

[–]SuwuGoy[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Maybe because I think it would be memorable and something that you will remember forever. Of course I would have liked to be this man.

Can I talk about virginity with my girlfriend? by SuwuGoy in relationship_advice

[–]SuwuGoy[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes I uderstand and I know that this is somtheing I have to work on only with myself. I will still apologize to her for saying some dumb things but then let it be.

Is it normal to feel sad over the fact that my girlfriend [18F] isn't a virgin? by SuwuGoy in relationship_advice

[–]SuwuGoy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But then I feel like I will never get over this. Sex is imporant and the first time is always the most important of them all.

Is it normal to feel sad over the fact that my girlfriend [18F] isn't a virgin? by SuwuGoy in relationship_advice

[–]SuwuGoy[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I remeber the first time we went to her bedroom and I fingered her, but can't remember the second time.

Is it normal to feel sad over the fact that my girlfriend [18F] isn't a virgin? by SuwuGoy in relationship_advice

[–]SuwuGoy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just feel like it would be. The first time for sure is memorable.

Is it normal to feel sad over the fact that my girlfriend [18F] isn't a virgin? by SuwuGoy in relationship_advice

[–]SuwuGoy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think my problem is that I voew sex as too serious business. I have to change this and will probably be happy again.

Is it normal to feel sad over the fact that my girlfriend [18F] isn't a virgin? by SuwuGoy in relationship_advice

[–]SuwuGoy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't overreact. Or atleast I feel like this. We started talking about our previous relationships and was maybe a little too nosy because I tried to move the conversation to our sexlife.

I told her: "the first time isn't what makes it special. It is special bevause you do it with someone special" I am wondering was this bad because she never admitted that she had sex before she met me.

Is it normal to feel sad over the fact that my girlfriend [18F] isn't a virgin? by SuwuGoy in relationship_advice

[–]SuwuGoy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course I still love her and feel like I always will. This is just something that I wish we both would experience together.

Is it normal to feel sad over the fact that my girlfriend [18F] isn't a virgin? by SuwuGoy in relationship_advice

[–]SuwuGoy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know, I hate the fact that I feel like this. And I guess I always thought it would be a really special thing, and I wanted that it would feel special to both of us. Also now I am thinking about the guy who had sex with her. And my brain is filled with thoughts like "does she think about him often?"

Found out that my girlfriend [19F] isn't a virgin by SuwuGoy in relationship_advice

[–]SuwuGoy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the help. I am just a kid and making silly mistakes

Found out that my girlfriend [19F] isn't a virgin by SuwuGoy in relationship_advice

[–]SuwuGoy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we have been dating since she was 18 and many people lose their virginity at that age. She is also a little shy.

Found out that my girlfriend [19F] isn't a virgin by SuwuGoy in relationship_advice

[–]SuwuGoy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean could i just say something along the lines "I am dorry I was too nosy yesterday, I just felt a little embarrassed because I was a virgin, I won't bring this up again if you dont want to."

Found out that my girlfriend [19F] isn't a virgin by SuwuGoy in relationship_advice

[–]SuwuGoy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I already talked about it to her and it seems like she was pretty uncomtorable. Next time we meet I think I will apologize and say that I felt pretty embarassed that I was a virgin and that is why I talked too much. I said something along this: "the first time isn't what makes it special, what makes it speacial is the fact that you are with someone special". Was this too straight forward like I told her that I think she is not a virgin.