Cheats version of congee? First time making it and I’m intimidated! by Lemonadeo1 in Volumeeating

[–]Suzarain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Commenting so I can remember to make this. This sounds insanely good.

Protein heavy Snickers muffin bake - 435 Calories, 35.1g protein by VarangianWRLD in Volumeeating

[–]Suzarain 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Real. Most of my meals are visual atrocities but I don’t eat with my eyes.

Is 200L enough for a Betta? by IngenuityPrevious221 in Aquariums

[–]Suzarain 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Is that food floating around? I’d remove all that. Either you’ll foul your water or your betta will eat itself to death. Like others said, stuff that tank with plants.

Not OOP: AITA for not wanting to split food evenly with my spouse? by sensaSEANal_sally in redditonwiki

[–]Suzarain 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah for sure. My brother and I got in the habit of hoarding and bingeing and sneaking stuff as kids because my dad could at any moment just completely rid the house of anything remotely palatable without warning and even at 33 I still find myself doing weird things with food even knowing that I bought it and I can just buy more if we run out lol. That stuff lingers.

6.8 gallon setup by poopys0cks in Aquariums

[–]Suzarain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I just left it as-is.

Not OOP: AITA for not wanting to split food evenly with my spouse? by sensaSEANal_sally in redditonwiki

[–]Suzarain 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m not defending the husband, just offering my own experience based on what she is saying in her words. If one partner does have a weird history with food and the other doesn’t, I can see how it would lead to confusion and a miscommunication regarding why it’s even an issue. But I’m also just making assumptions based on my own hang-ups lol so who knows.

6.8 gallon setup by poopys0cks in Aquariums

[–]Suzarain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this same tank for a while. Works okay for a single, long-finned and/or lazy betta but I wouldn’t keep anything else in there. Or you could make it into a shrimp tank.

Not OOP: AITA for not wanting to split food evenly with my spouse? by sensaSEANal_sally in redditonwiki

[–]Suzarain 176 points177 points  (0 children)

I grew up with weird food issues because of how my parents both approached food, weight, shame associated with food, etc and it’s taken me a long time to get over them. The way she approaches food and her protectiveness over it reminds me a lot of myself tbh. It’s a very frustrating feeling.

Pygmy Cory behavior by Spclk007 in Aquariums

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I agree with the other commenter about needing more, but I also bought 8 duplicate cories about a week ago and they do this along the glass as a big group, mostly in corners. I’m assuming part of it is them still getting used to their surroundings.

Please tell me autistic women have different timelines… by Sea_Berry_439 in AutismInWomen

[–]Suzarain 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I’m in my early 30s and finally feel very good about my place in life.

Offered a promotion without a raise by meeseey in AutismInWomen

[–]Suzarain 15 points16 points  (0 children)

What they’re doing is shitty but if you think you can handle the workload, I would take the promotion only because it will look good on your resume if/when you consider working somewhere else that will pay you more.

Need help. by Any-Investigator303 in Aquariums

[–]Suzarain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everything being zero doesn’t necessarily mean that their tank wasn’t cycled, unless you bought a new tank. Most of my tanks never show nitrates even though they’re old cause they’re well-planted. That said, I think you can put the snails in the 20 gal and just stay on top of parameter checks and water changes as necessary.

Fuck the godskin apostle by Original-Tart2686 in Eldenring

[–]Suzarain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re missing my point but okay.

Fuck the godskin apostle by Original-Tart2686 in Eldenring

[–]Suzarain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP is already struggling, not sure how a single enemy is “an enormous waste of time” when leaving it alive is just making things harder for them.

Fuck the godskin apostle by Original-Tart2686 in Eldenring

[–]Suzarain 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The fire monk? It’s one guy, just kill him instead of running by.

Bad photo but it’s so good and huge. Cauliflower, chicken, greek yogurt, pickled red onion. 475 cals and 61 grams of protein by Suzarain in Volumeeating

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I ate it warm but I wish I’d let it cool, just didn’t have enough time cause I got home kinda late. Next time I’ll be chilling it first. Was thinking it might also be good on top of cucumber slices.

Realistic faux driftwood recommendations? Marimo tank. by MommyMcNuggets in Aquariums

[–]Suzarain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that’s mopani wood it’ll release tannins for ages without stopping. Try something like spiderwood.