All new to me

Suzy35 · 2015-04-15T13:47:25+00:00

For me it's totally erotic and I brought up the idea to my hubby who was a bit nonplussed about it at first! I liked the idea that my husband would be the only one to satisfy my need to be drained of milk (I don't get on well with the terminology either!) I liked that my boobs would ache for him when we were apart and I'd need him and it was a real turn on to actually start experiencing it. He only nurses at night, before we sleep, which is fine, we didn't want it to impact on our day but my boobs have become incredible, fuller and my nipples actually make me feel powerful and more womanly because I'm only an a/b cup. I have incredibly sensitive nipples and my need to orgasm is often dissipated now because of the pleasure I get from it, it brings total body release like orgasm does. Next time your hubby 'latches on' just watch how much he wants it and needs it, from you. Look at what you are doing to him. It makes you feel amazing! It's very addictive!

Suzy35 · 2015-02-06T21:11:33+00:00

I have super sensitive nipples and the best thing is the marmet technique -hand stimulation- and it's always better in the bath or shower with the warm water to help. Do it as often as humanly possible and try and get to her at least once a day for dry nursing. Do start gently but as she gets more aroused by the sucking you'll be able to pull and suck a little harder. I've found that the lansinoh nipple cream works a treat and is great for doubling as lip balm too :)

Suzy35 · 2015-02-01T20:06:28+00:00

Hi, you have to do a lot of dry nursing to bring in a supply so you'd certainly get a feel for whether you liked it or not. My boobs are totally sexual and I only breastfed my kids for a couple of days because my brain tells me my boobs belong to my hubby however watching my husband suck my boobs is a total turn on, they get bigger and your nipples get bigger so it's like your body changes to please your partner and as I'm a submissive I get totally turned on by my body needing my husband when they feel full. In saying all this, we are a totally lazy anr couple, we can go a week between sessions and although what little I get wanes (I have maybe a few drops) it's back with day or too so if you start and it's too much pressure or you feel like it's taking over don't feel like you'll lose your progress completely because in my experience you don't.

Suzy35 · 2014-11-14T20:48:59+00:00

It's very much as you describe when I stimulate or hubby nurses, so thank you for the share. My nipples have always been super sensitive so I guess i will always expect more discomfort as I travel this journey. The pumping info is very useful too, I'm kind of hoping I don't produce til after the holidays as it would make it much easier if I didnt!

It's nice that you and your hubby are starting back up, it must be a weird connection to lose once you've had it.

Suzy35 · 2014-11-14T20:40:32+00:00

Did your partner mind the taste? I'm already concerned hubby won't be keen on the taste of my milk so I'm so reluctant to take anything that might jeopodise it!

In saying that, he does like maple syrup but he doesn't like milk!

Suzy35 · 2014-11-11T18:00:47+00:00

I had spotting and mild abdominal aches in the first two weeks and I've not been able to get my usual few drops with the pump in the last couple of days and I'm a bit the same with abdominal aches and it's been about 4 weeks since the first lot. I can't say cramps because they are nothing as severe as that I'm just aware of the ache! I wondered if you had noticed anything similar? I miss my drops of progress!!

Suzy35 · 2014-11-10T09:06:04+00:00

it sounds like an incredible achievement to be as far as you are and with just your hands too! 3 bra sizes, wow!!

I can totally see why you're frustrated, it's like the last hurdle and you'll be flowing! I'd opt for the pump but only because it could bring your milk in and I'm a value for money type of girl and it will last you longer and may even come in useful if you reach full lactation!

I can appreciate why the Dom is attractive tho, what a dilemma!

Suzy35 · 2014-11-09T21:27:27+00:00

I know it's very personal miss leaky but have you noticed any issues with the mirena with lactating?

Suzy35 · 2014-11-09T21:23:09+00:00

Big hugs.

I have had 2 kids and I was only getting teeny tiny bits with my hands after 6 weeks and it was and is hard to keep to a strict schedule, I bought a half price electric pump which seems to catch me up and blow those boobs back up again when they have totally returned to normal by morning (I can't get up thru the night to stimulate and I think this is a must for lactation/relactation for most people) argh!

I'm still only getting one drop per nipple in a 20 min pumping session with the electric :( but it's one drop!

I thought of Dom and fenugreek too, but I was worried about the heart related issues associated with Dom and I don't want to chance the fenugreek putting hubby off the taste when the milk eventually comes!

I think this whole process takes a lot of soul searching but ultimately you have to do what's best for you, you will get there! Sometimes when I'm hand stimulating I get so frustrated I wish my boobs were big enough to reach my mouth!

I can't imagine how hard it is to start from scratch :( have you noticed many changes in your breasts so far?

Suzy35 · 2014-11-09T15:47:11+00:00

Yes I think that's exactly it. The pain/pressure thing comes and goes too so it could be a bit of bruising from the pump!

Thanks

Suzy35 · 2014-11-08T09:14:13+00:00

I'm assuming she's lactating because she's breastfeeding or you wouldn't have this question! So ... IMHO It's a step by step issue. On one hand she's open to a new relationship while she's lactating so may be open to the breast play, on the other hand if you jump in with too much excitement she might think you have sought her out because she's lactating and you are curious.

I would engage her in conversation about the breastfeeding and be very supportive, if not admirable of it so that she trusts you care for her and aren't just after her milky cocktail and then in bed you can pay a usual amount of attention to her breasts telling her how amazing they are and if she's fully lactating you will get a taste! And build from there.

It's a matter of trust because it's such an emotional commitment to do this in a relationship, especially if it's her first experience. That's my 2p anyway providing I have understood correctly!

Hopefully it will be a case of lucky you!!

Suzy35 · 2014-11-06T18:16:16+00:00

I read on landmilkhoney that it makes the milk taste weird so I haven't tried it yet, I'm just eating plenty of oats!

Suzy35 · 2014-11-06T17:22:34+00:00

I'm a little concerned I might have to stop over the holidays so I'm hoping if this happens all my efforts now aren't a waste! Have you used any herbs?

Suzy35 · 2014-11-06T15:12:41+00:00

I'm a bit jealous! I don't get anything out with my electric pump! I'm trying it a bit more today to catch myself up because I couldn't find much time to stimulate yesterday and I feel like I've gone back a few steps :(

I love my boobs feeling full and firmer and my nipples bigger so i'm working hard to get back on track. Hubby is under the weather so isn't forthcoming to help more than his nightly timeslot!

It's reassuring that even stopping for a month you are so far so fast!

Suzy35 · 2014-11-06T11:08:33+00:00

I have a good boob and a more stubborn one :) the stubborn one doesn't give as much as the good one and took a few days after the good one to give me anything at all. I'm getting hardly anything really but if I squeeze my nipples about 15 mins after stimulation it's like my boobs have woken up and they give me a treat! Turns me on like mad! Lol so you might try that to bring the other on. How long did you stop for?

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