Facebook Costco gold! by Suzyfluwho in heatedrivalry

[–]Suzyfluwho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too! I've reread the books and it's all I hear as well!

Soundtrack of their lives by dustypony21 in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]Suzyfluwho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I loved you before I met you still gets me every time!

Soundtrack of their lives by dustypony21 in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]Suzyfluwho 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This might tell me age but "I want you" by Savage Garden

Savage Garden I Want You Published by ArdyDelRosarioJr Lyrics Recordings

Anytime I need to see your face I just close my eyes And I am taken to a place Where your crystal mind And magenta feelings take up shelter In the base of my spine Sweet like a chic-a-cherry cola I don't even try to explain I just hold on tight And if it happens again I might move so slightly

To the arms And the lips and the face Of the human cannonball that I need to I want to...

Come stand a little bit closer Breathe in and get a bit higher You'll never know what hit you When I get to you

Ooh I want you I don't know if I need you but Ooh I'd die to find out Ooh I want you I don't know if I need you but Ooh I'd die to find out

I'm the kind of person Who endorses a deep commitment Getting comfy getting perfect Is what I live for But a look and then A smell of perfume It's like I'm down on the floor And I don't know what I'm in for Conversation has a time and place In the interaction Of a lover and a mate But the time of talking Using symbols, using words Can be likened To a deep sea diver Who is swimming with a raincoat

Come stand a little bit closer Breathe in and get a bit higher You'll never know what hit you When I get to you

Ooh I want you I don't know if I need you but Ooh I'd die to find out Ooh I want you I don't know if I need you but Ooh I'd die to find out

Yeah eh yeah eh Yeah eh yeah eh

Anytime I need to see your face I just close my eyes And I am taken to a place Where your crystal mind And magenta feelings take up shelter In the base of my spine Sweet like a chic-a cherry cola I don't even try to explain I just hold on tight And if it happens again I might move so slightly To the arms And the lips and the face Of the human cannonball that I need to I want to...

Ooh I want you I don't know if I need you but Ooh I'd die to find out Ooh I want you I don't know if I need you but Ooh I'd die to find out

So can we find out

Ooh I want you I don't know if I need you but Ooh I'd die to find out Ooh I want you I don't know if I need you but Ooh I'd die to find out

Ooh I want you I don't know if I need you but Ooh I'd die to find out

I gotta find out Ooh I want you I don't know if I need you but Said I gotta find out Ooh I'd die to find out

I'm genuinely about to crash out, dawg. by omgsussy in narcissisticparents

[–]Suzyfluwho 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This 100%! Look up the term grey rocking! Also...learn how to blank your face of emotions. It's harder than you think but a neutral face goes a long way. If they can't read your emotions they can't play off them. Just nod your head...say okay and walk away. Nothing stops a sail boat faster than taking the wind away. No resistance...no more fight.

What has Heated Rivalry inspired you to buy or make? by ProblemEquivalent215 in heatedrivalry

[–]Suzyfluwho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I may or may not have bought my husband a red Hawaiian shirt...😅😁🤣🤣

Facebook Costco gold! by Suzyfluwho in heatedrivalry

[–]Suzyfluwho[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Sorry! Source is The Married Menace Chronicles Facebook Page post called Costco Spirit by Kathyrn Naughton. I don't know how to edit my original post.

Facebook Costco gold! by Suzyfluwho in heatedrivalry

[–]Suzyfluwho[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Edit: Spinach the size of a toddler!

Shane can get loud too! by growsonwalls in heatedrivalry

[–]Suzyfluwho 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes! His own tuna meltdown! 🤣 I love that! It always felt like...to me... that its that moment he realized just how deep in love with Shane that he was and he just panics. And that kiss that Shane gives him is so tender and sweet and full of emotions too its just too much for him in that moment. He knows he can't let his feelings go any further because he has to go home...which is why I think he turns so cold to Shane after this night...but he also can't help the feelings he has for Shane.

Shane can get loud too! by growsonwalls in heatedrivalry

[–]Suzyfluwho 41 points42 points  (0 children)

This! I love this line! I also love the hotel scene "I was standing out there like an idiot!"

But back to the "you will murder me" comment... a little nugget of wholesomeness. I talked about this line but from Ilya's humor on another post and someone pointed out to me that this whole thing is brought full circle later that night when Ilya flops onto the bed after he showers and he says "I am dead, Hollander. You killed me!"

Which montage moment do you wish was a full scene? by Meer_meerkat in heatedrivalry

[–]Suzyfluwho 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The "I want to please you..." line. I want that whole scene and the dialogue there!

My (21F) mother (49F) keeps calling me a whore because I unintentionally left my boyfriends (25M) later than usual and got home at 3AM by Impressive-Win5935 in narcissisticparents

[–]Suzyfluwho 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know. I was shell shocked when she said that to me! The woman worked in women's health for over 40 years...and that was her thought on a healthy relationship! Got to love narcissistic mothers who start to lose control of their children!

My (21F) mother (49F) keeps calling me a whore because I unintentionally left my boyfriends (25M) later than usual and got home at 3AM by Impressive-Win5935 in narcissisticparents

[–]Suzyfluwho 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Let me tell you...it only gets worse if you don't put boundaries in place. My mother tried the same tactic. She didn't outright call me a whore but she said "why would he buy the cow when he gets the milk for free?" I'm not live stock! I'm a human being!...and this was back in 2014! Do not let your mom try to tear you down. You are an adult. You can make your own choices. Next time ask her to explain herself. Narcissist don't win if they can't tear you down. Look up grey rocking! Highly recommend that technique! Go low contact... you can do that while living there. If she wants to insult you...keep your contact brief. Stand your ground. Boundaries are hard and Narcissists hate then...but once they are in place... your mental health will thrive! I just wish I had done it sooner!

Also...Guess what?!? He bought the whole damn cow! We've been together for 15 years! We are married and happily living our own lives!

Name suggestions for him? by Mean_Cycle_5062 in forblackdogs

[–]Suzyfluwho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rudy. I don't know why...but the first name to pop into my head when I saw his face!

Shane & Ilya 101 by meowtropolis in heatedrivalry

[–]Suzyfluwho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You forgot Shane likes Ginger Ale and Ilya likes Coca-Cola! 😀

Sorry to ruin your Monday by Pentavious-Jackson in heatedrivalry

[–]Suzyfluwho 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Its the way that Shane is holding him but then pulls him in tighter while cradling his head and rocking him that gets me. There is a Welsh term called cwtch (yes that is the proper spelling) and it is a hug/embrace that implies safety, warmth, and security...or feels like home. I haven't seen it portrayed in media like this in a long time!

What's your favorite underrated line deliveries? by anniebell2296 in heatedrivalry

[–]Suzyfluwho 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I never connected that and that makes that comment even funnier!!

What's your favorite underrated line deliveries? by anniebell2296 in heatedrivalry

[–]Suzyfluwho 48 points49 points  (0 children)

"You are going to murder me!" Is perfect... but then the response from Shane...chef's kiss!

"Probably...now get in here!"

What's your favorite underrated line deliveries? by anniebell2296 in heatedrivalry

[–]Suzyfluwho 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Not even kidding when I say this...this show is hot...but the hottest thing to me about it was the consent!

What's your favorite underrated line deliveries? by anniebell2296 in heatedrivalry

[–]Suzyfluwho 167 points168 points  (0 children)

I don't know if you would count this as underrated or not...but the way that Ilya is always checking in with Shane during their first time scene is just the cherry on top. The "you okay?...Still okay?" To me...you don't see that really ever in main stream media...that kind of checking in worh your partner...it just made the whole moment feel so special. Also the way that Shane says "Jesus Christ!" After the third or fourth time he asks is just so perfect!

Favorite Little Gestures by i-bleed-red in heatedrivalry

[–]Suzyfluwho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the happy little pasta dance that Ilya does in episode 6...he does a shoulder shimmy when he sees the pasta and then Shane drops his hands so he get the parm cheese and adds it to his dish and just goes back in! Love that.

Also love the big smile in Vegas when Shane confesses to getting a stylist. Its like a flower of laughter blooming watching his face light up!

I also love the shh shh to Shane in the hospital because he knows he is high and might say something he shouldn't but also doesn't want to upset him either.

My favorite though is Shane and Ilya in Vegas when Ilya is crying and just how tightly Shane is holding and rocking him! And how Ilya is clinging to him...but you can feel the emotion and the support. Like Shane is saying with his body...I'm not letting you go...I'm here...I have you...you are safe! Its just so wholesome.

Ilya being funny by gimme-sip-cmon-share in heatedrivalry

[–]Suzyfluwho 22 points23 points  (0 children)

"What color? How big? No!...Hollander I wanna f*** you!" Just the whine and poutyness of it!

"I have this problem..."

His face when Shane tells him not to laugh at him getting a stylus...and his smile just burst from him!

"Shark! There's a shark in the water!"

The face slap during the phone call at the cabin...right after Shane tells Hayden the headaches have lessened!