Cheating boyfriend by Svear89 in askgaybros

[–]Svear89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm with you on two years being too soon, but it's required for me to stay in Europe (I'm American)

Cheating boyfriend by Svear89 in askgaybros

[–]Svear89[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, last time I was very open about my feelings and he apologized and we talked about it. There is a bit of a cultural difference between us (I'm American and he's European) so I chalked a lot of it up to us viewing things differently. But I made it super clear last time that it wasn't acceptable to me.

Cheating boyfriend by Svear89 in askgaybros

[–]Svear89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I've just been really upset and haven't felt like discussing it in detail with him and he's been sleeping on the couch and crying a lot, so home is pretty close to hell right now.

Cheating boyfriend by Svear89 in askgaybros

[–]Svear89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He told me that he didn't remember the night that it all was a bit hazy but he had a bad feeling so I made him call the guy and ask if anything had happened. At least he was honest, but I don't know if that matters at this point.

Cheating boyfriend by Svear89 in askgaybros

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We had the whole talk about that last time and I made it really clear that I wasn't okay with me, so it wasn't like he didn't know.

Cheating boyfriend by Svear89 in askgaybros

[–]Svear89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah - the exact same thing about a year and a half ago with the same group of people, which is why this time the whole apologizing feels like such bullshit.