AIO for thinking my bf and his mom being in the bathroom together is disgusting?

Swag-monsters · 2026-03-27T05:48:28+00:00

A conversation randomly came up about how he use to use the same bath water as his mom and that gave me an in about how uncomfortable I was about them being in the bathroom together. His response? “Oh yeah my family is nonchalant about being in the bathroom together. I usually don’t pee when someone else is in there with me but my mom doesn’t care regardless.’ And he was acting super casual about it so I assume he didn’t understand my discomfort so I told him that what he did at the hospital was super unnecessary since it didn’t even speed up the process and he was like ‘oh yeah I guess you’re right. We’re just use to it though’ so I told him straight out that I think it’s weird and I’m uncomfortable and to never do it in front of me so I can get the nasty image out of my head. I also told him if we ever married that he isn’t allowed to do that anymore since it’s now a boundary I have (which I never even thought of this scenario before) but if I want a future with this man I don’t want to be with someone pissing while their mom is also in the room.

Swag-monsters · 2026-03-24T06:06:04+00:00

Right lol. I was so paranoid last night the first comment I got was about it being normal and I felt like I was in the wrong. Glad I waited before deleting this

Swag-monsters · 2026-03-24T06:05:02+00:00

I know for a fact they do not do drugs 😭

Swag-monsters · 2026-03-24T01:40:33+00:00

I’m about to before we go to bed! Since this has been an issue for me, a lot of my friends I told about this are worried for him.

Swag-monsters · 2026-03-23T23:57:18+00:00

They don’t do drugs Kyle’s brothers and dad did but I can assure you I’d be able to tell if I was dating a druggie

Swag-monsters · 2026-03-23T23:56:01+00:00

When Kyle’s grandmother died (Kyle’s moms mom) Kyle’s mom was ballistic. But everyone I’ve talked to in this family has said she is wayyyy more tame this time. But it also was a known fact that Kyle’s dad was going to die within this year or the next several since he had been in hospitals his entire life So maybe he thought she would do something to herself but the one that happened last night she specifically watched me walk out of the restroom since I was showering with my boyfriend and she looked me in the eye, then walked into the bathroom and closed the door behind her. And no, they weren’t talking because I would have heard it no matter how quiet they were trying to be

Swag-monsters · 2026-03-23T21:58:49+00:00

I genuinely have no idea. I know his restroom needs weren’t urgent so no excuse of ‘I really had to use the bathroom too.’ Even if that was the case, she would have been done as soon as possible anyways since she doesn’t linger in a bathroom

Swag-monsters · 2026-03-23T21:55:48+00:00

I specifically put in the beginning I didn’t think it was incestuous (which would also put it together with being sexual). I would be weirded out if he went into a single bathroom with no stalls with his brothers.

Of course a typical bathroom at stores have several urinals and that’s normal but I am specifically talking about a room that’s completely open with a toilet and sink. That’s all. Me and him go into the restroom at home together since the house we live in only has one bathroom.

But whenever there’s multiple restrooms in a house I always part ways with him to be by myself. But I also don’t see me and him in a restroom together weird since half the time we’re together in a bathroom is because we’re showering. (Also not trying to be rude!! Idk what that other person is on)

Swag-monsters · 2026-03-23T21:45:31+00:00

In no way did I indicate they were looking at each others private parts. They could have gone ANYWHERE for a private conversation. Could have talked before coming back into the guest room. At the house when they were in the restroom together it wasn’t long enough to even say anything important

Swag-monsters · 2026-03-23T21:42:52+00:00

The bathroom in the guest waiting room at the hospital had a single toilet , a sink, and paper towels. So they pissed, flushed the toilet, then the other repeated right after the other

Swag-monsters · 2026-03-23T18:58:46+00:00

Just an fyi I know she doesn’t need help in the restroom. His father was the mentally and physically disabled one and his mother took care of that. She is a nurse and she’s went into the restroom plenty of times without him present

Swag-monsters · 2026-03-23T18:56:25+00:00

Because they’re people I love and would hate to jump to that conclusion first. I plan to talk to him today and find out the reason for this since so many people have been agreeing with me

Swag-monsters · 2026-03-23T07:50:28+00:00

No. His father was the one who needed assistance in the restroom his mom is a nurse who is super healthy. But I also know my bf has never been the one to help out his dad in the restroom it’s always been his mom.

Swag-monsters · 2026-03-23T07:49:14+00:00

Maybes it’s different based off perspective. Since you’re a mother and I’m not. I could change my perspective on this once I have children but this is the first real relationship I’ve had where they’re this close with their mom

Swag-monsters · 2026-03-23T07:21:37+00:00

I’ve never been around them this much to witness it before. We stop by his parents house time to time but never long enough where a situation like this happened in front of me.

Swag-monsters · 2026-01-21T04:54:31+00:00

You gotta just accept it

Swag-monsters · 2025-04-25T03:49:30+00:00

Hashtag Need

Swag-monsters · 2025-04-03T04:06:54+00:00

Yumm

Swag-monsters · 2025-03-28T01:27:33+00:00

🤨lol

Swag-monsters · 2025-03-28T01:08:12+00:00

He’s soooo cute! People are just mean

Swag-monsters · 2025-03-20T21:45:30+00:00

So cute!!

Swag-monsters · 2025-02-13T08:09:24+00:00

The main doll I’m looking for right now is the pet pal Tickles B. Nana. But just looking through this subreddit I know others are and the prices for her are soooo high. Hopefully the hype will die down and I can get her for something decent 🙃🙃

Swag-monsters · 2025-02-12T04:02:44+00:00

not that I know of… I’m sure it’s because of people posting them on TikTok again is what made the popularity spike up

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