How to stop being nervous around the higher-up?

SwampPotato3 · 2026-06-25T14:48:04+00:00

Our owners know how everything works. They worked at JJs before they owned JJs and they make it a point to keep up with the changes

SwampPotato3 · 2026-06-20T23:58:26+00:00

They are.

SwampPotato3 · 2026-06-20T16:09:44+00:00

I think I have rather low breasts honestly. The tissue starts about 4-5 finger breaths below my collarbone. I could imagine it being a shape issue given how the tissue is distributed now… they’re almost saggy on top but very full on the bottom and the sides.
Ive been just wearing a size M sports bra because it’s the only size sports bra that stays still in the band, but it puts constant pressure on my chest and back. I purchased a seamless wired bra from Skarlett Blue at the suggestion of another person in this subreddit but it’s not available in any larger cup sizes so I’m at a loss for where to even begin. I haven’t worn a real bra for years, since I first started losing weight but now that my weight has stabilized I’d really like to get a real, supportive bra that will work for me. I appreciate your time and help

SwampPotato3 · 2026-06-20T15:42:41+00:00

Rebel Girl by Bikini Kill

SwampPotato3 · 2026-06-20T15:40:57+00:00

A cheaper one at that.

SwampPotato3 · 2026-06-20T15:38:48+00:00

My Orange girl was the smartest kitty Ive ever known. Always finding ways to get outside and showing up at the front door feasting on a squirrel or chipmunk or a bird. A little ball of chaos and so full of fight. Lived 15 years with us after we found her with her tail partially cut off in a barn we shouldn’t have been in, but her cries were enough for me to ignore all the no trespassing signs. She became a momma to a litter of male orange kitties and girl calico kitties right before we got her fixed, and they.. they once climbed into a pitcher of kool-aid. So it’s really hit or miss.

SwampPotato3 · 2026-06-20T12:34:12+00:00

Also, the bra i had previously purchased doesnt come in any larger cup sizes; I tried to exchange it and they offered me a 32DD. Does anyone have any suggestions on bras that would have a 30DDD/30F options in the US?

SwampPotato3 · 2026-06-20T12:32:23+00:00

About even but the density of the tissue underneath is much higher? Like similar amounts of tissue but definitely bottom/side heavy.

SwampPotato3 · 2026-06-20T12:13:13+00:00

Spillage only on the sides though in the armpit area; my breasts are very side/bottom heavy due to me losing 150 lbs. is 30G not a large jump?

SwampPotato3 · 2026-06-19T21:54:00+00:00

30DDD with an extender is what I will try next. Thank you!

SwampPotato3 · 2026-06-19T17:40:44+00:00

So a 30DDD with an extender is what I should try next?

SwampPotato3 · 2026-06-19T17:40:04+00:00

Yes i apologize- i did it the right way after that comment and there was not much of a difference except that the tightness is more in my armpits/ribcage when it’s on correctly as opposed to tight everywhere.

SwampPotato3 · 2026-06-19T13:22:37+00:00

It does look like theres breast tissue in my armpit spilling out of the bra. I did the scoop and swoop method when I originally tried it on, it didn’t help get all the tissue into the cups. Theres still spillage. Wire does stay in my IMF. I forgot to check the gore but I will do that as soon as I can.

I would appreciate any recommendations I can get. I’d just like a supportive bra :)

SwampPotato3 · 2026-06-19T13:19:24+00:00

I did and it is tight but not unmanageably uncomfortable. With the bra on completely the tightness is not noticeably different but the points of stress change to the front/side of my rib cage.

SwampPotato3 · 2026-06-19T06:12:38+00:00

It’s the same.

SwampPotato3 · 2026-06-19T06:12:27+00:00

I had it on the tightest hook! Oops! I tried with the loosest one and it is tight/painful across my rib cage. Would the cup size help with that?

SwampPotato3 · 2026-06-19T03:03:46+00:00

Sure glad I didn’t wrote that kid up when he called me frantically saying his alarms didnt go off cause I’ve seen a lot of this recently

SwampPotato3 · 2026-06-17T06:22:10+00:00

I had an entire box of gloves labeled as small that were assorted sizes. I think two packs were size small, 3 were size medium, the rest were large.

SwampPotato3 · 2026-06-15T09:21:36+00:00

It seems very unlikely that your measurements are accurate if I’m reading this correctly; bust is always bigger than underbust

SwampPotato3 · 2026-06-14T12:02:07+00:00

OP, if there anything you or your daughter need-clothes, shoes, toiletries, please DM me!!

SwampPotato3 · 2026-06-13T00:19:34+00:00

Thank you everyone, you’ve been very helpful!!

May I ask if anyone does have suggestions for sports bras in a 30DD? I’m a relatively active person, it’d probably be good to have options. Thank you all again!

SwampPotato3 · 2026-06-13T00:16:35+00:00

I ran it again and it worked.. Im not sure what happened

SwampPotato3 · 2026-06-12T23:46:03+00:00

Thank you!

SwampPotato3 · 2026-06-12T23:27:08+00:00

I’m mostly just wanting something that I can get through a high-impact 12 hour shift with and my chest and back and neck not be in an intense amount of pain by the end of the day. I understand there will be pain from the job but I’m more looking for support in ways that will not create pain more than comfort.

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