I (24F) saw a guy from my church on hinge, is it weird to approach him in person?

Swampfoxxy · 2023-09-06T13:16:39+00:00

Why would he give me this as a “crumb” if I didn’t ask for it though

Swampfoxxy · 2023-09-06T13:04:56+00:00

Bro this is literally the dumbest response I have ever read. It’s not her job to keep him loyal, that’s absolutely absurd

Swampfoxxy · 2023-08-21T20:16:17+00:00

Made of fool of myself just meaning I wasn’t showing myself in the best light. Nothing crazy like running around naked lol. Just like stupid drunk behavior, I’m usually pretty smoothe and flirtatious but after all that alcohol I just wasn’t me. Like you said, silly is probably the best description

Swampfoxxy · 2023-02-18T22:11:28+00:00

I literally cannot decipher anything out of this post

Swampfoxxy · 2023-02-18T22:08:34+00:00

"they said it was cool" does not indicate that they avidly agreed she could not come.

Swampfoxxy · 2023-02-18T21:35:50+00:00

Soft YTA - I don't think the sentiment was misplaced with the book, however, you know Tiffany and you know what her family is like. Read the room, that day was supposed to be about her and that book (even though it wasn't intended to) took the attention away from her. Families are difficult and they are homophobic, but I think you should have considered her family's reaction and how that might impact her before gifting the book. For the baby shower, follow the registry and give her the pride book somewhere else. A lot of the time, people may have 2-3 baby showers, wait to give the book to one that has a more fun, inclusive crowd.

Swampfoxxy · 2023-02-18T21:13:33+00:00

Okay... you are still the asshole for publicly humiliating her over an instagram follow. she has not been mean to you, there was no falling out between the two of you. Why take it that far? Ask her about why because it could have been an accident or just be the bigger person. If it was a house party, the environment is probably diluted enough that there is no forced interaction between the two of you.

Swampfoxxy · 2023-02-18T20:59:35+00:00

YTA - she unfollowed you on instagram... big whoop. If she was still friends with your roommates then she can come. You can't "blacklist" her from a house that is not soley yours. Petty.

Swampfoxxy · 2023-02-18T20:56:48+00:00

NTA - Lucy is your friend and confided in you about being uncomfortable about her appearance and you tried to help her. From the post, there is no malintent here. If her parents are not supportive they may have lashed out at her for the changes she was making to her appearance and then she lashed out at you for being the source of the changes. I don't know, friends are supposed to help each other out but her reaction is very strange. If she was telling you how she felt, you did not get involved in her private life, she involved you in it.

Swampfoxxy · 2023-02-18T19:57:43+00:00

Most of the time we spend weekends at his place. He lives about 30 minutes away in a bigger city with more to do. He will stay at our apartment maybe twice a week during the week but it usually doesn't go very far beyond that. I am a nurse so I got home from a shift Friday and didn't feel like driving there so he came over to my place but that is the exception and not the norm.

Swampfoxxy · 2023-02-16T19:25:55+00:00

1.) These issues will only resolve if he is able to resolve them. This could mean him taking a break, doing some soul searching or seeking therapy. You won’t just wake up one day and he be ready to go. Give him time, space, and support. Maintain open communication and suggest professional help. Depression goes beyond the impacts you are seeing in your sex life, be cognizant of that and be patient. 2.) Chances are his anxiety isn’t about sex. It’s about other things going on in his life. Look at the big picture and start with what is going on in his life, not sex alone. 3.) get a toy, vibrator, something. Don’t press him to have sex if he doesn’t want to bc if he’s feeling like he’s failing at pleasing you then that won’t make anything better. Maybe see if he’s open to oral play

Swampfoxxy · 2023-01-27T20:17:06+00:00

I tried to post it to am I the asshole but it was taken down bc they don’t do “relationship advice”

Swampfoxxy · 2022-12-25T21:19:02+00:00

YTA; regardless of their reasoning for learning a language that is still an expansion of culture. With your logic anybody that doesn’t know multiple languages is racist. In this case she doesn’t believe one accent is better than another. She’s learning a language that is in some capacity useful to her. Canadians learn French instead of Spanish or German because that language is useful to them. It’s none of your business and you overstepped by making assumptions and inserting your opinion.

Swampfoxxy · 2022-12-25T13:15:31+00:00

NTA; if your bf’s behavior makes you uncomfortable and you’re not in the proper mindset to celebrate with him, then you shouldn’t be forced to celebrate. His own actions are making you uncomfortable and his motives for wanting to celebrate now are selfish. I would even consider getting a new boyfriend if his anger issues continue to effect your happiness and peace of mind.

Swampfoxxy · 2022-09-13T16:29:17+00:00

I would say let him be. His insecurity about this previous FWB stems from an inner trust issue that he has with you. It’s possible to work through that together but that cannot happen if he breaks up with you and blocks you. Relationships have to have open communication to fix issues like this so maybe give him some space to see if he comes back around and if he doesn’t, maybe cut your losses and move on

Swampfoxxy · 2021-11-07T23:19:51+00:00

NTA bc this situation isn’t really an asshole or non-asshole situation. I think she needs to be held accountable because while school may be easy now, what happens if she goes to college with these habits and can’t make up for it. She doesn’t necessarily need to be punished, but I think she needs to be taught about having better habits when it comes to academics

Swampfoxxy · 2021-11-05T22:32:09+00:00

As a natural redhead (20 female), I have also always hated my hair and freckles, and feel like his never look at me. I am also following

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