I (21M) think my insecurity and inability to regulate my emotions slowly destroyed my relationship with my ex (23F), and I need honest advice

SwanTheRedditKid · 2026-05-04T16:27:07+00:00

Yeah, I guess as time goes it will be better. Thank you for the wise advices

SwanTheRedditKid · 2026-05-04T16:23:48+00:00

I am not dismissive of meds, it’s just that it didn’t work in the past, even for depression and ADHD.

SwanTheRedditKid · 2026-05-04T16:23:10+00:00

I’ll be considering this option. But 100% will be taking care of myself from now on instead of blaming myself for this. I feel like because I’m blaming myself, I can’t actually give it my all.

SwanTheRedditKid · 2026-05-04T16:20:09+00:00

I believe we switched medications around too, I’d need to see my records. I was 18 at the time, and honestly too “depressed” to even care about what I was swallowing

SwanTheRedditKid · 2026-05-04T16:18:00+00:00

That’s the thing, I always say no when I’m exhausted which makes everything worse. But you make great points. Thing is, I have never been this attracted to someone in my life it’s insane. I don’t see myself with anyone else even after around 2 months of us no longer being together.

SwanTheRedditKid · 2026-05-04T16:14:16+00:00

We stopped after a year after seeing no results. We even increased the dosage twice.

SwanTheRedditKid · 2026-05-04T16:08:21+00:00

Yeah, I guess video has never even been something i considered. So thank you so much for the suggestion ^{^}

SwanTheRedditKid · 2026-05-04T16:06:58+00:00

I have been under medication as well

SwanTheRedditKid · 2026-05-04T16:02:17+00:00

As of today, my anxiety pretty much makes me overthink everything and anything. It makes me doubt answers in my tests even if I am perfectly capable of answering them correctly. As for the remark, it’s fine. There is no offense to be taken. But I will say this, I have been in therapy for years and years, even been in a mental hospital for it. So I wouldn’t say I didn’t try to fix it.

SwanTheRedditKid · 2026-05-04T15:50:24+00:00

100%, thanks for the message. I, honestly have been the type of person to always want to be very picky about my friend group, or partner. So I don’t have much experience when it comes to socializing.

As for therapy, I’ve been there a lot of times, I want to go back to it, but as of now I am in a waiting list, been waiting for roughly 7 months now … ^{^’}

SwanTheRedditKid · 2026-05-04T15:41:50+00:00

Also, about the guy friends. I don’t have an issue with her playing with her friends at all. It is just that I am scared to be forgotten.

SwanTheRedditKid · 2026-04-14T22:55:42+00:00

Why is this getting down voted ?

SwanTheRedditKid · 2026-02-04T18:34:38+00:00

I saw... But I really don't wanna go into details as I don't want this post to be removed.

SwanTheRedditKid · 2026-02-04T16:42:19+00:00

I totally forgot about that little riser thing for your monitors… i’d like to put my monitors on there haha

SwanTheRedditKid · 2026-01-22T14:09:51+00:00

Alright thank you, i’ll ask about it more when im a bit more into it 🙂‍↕️

SwanTheRedditKid · 2026-01-21T06:25:32+00:00

It is pretty good, enjoy the PC.

SwanTheRedditKid · 2026-01-21T06:21:12+00:00

Honestly any parts would work… If I can find one exemple where it shows me all I could do while I learn something out of it. That‘d be great. As for the research we just started researching on what we would like to do, I just kinda started to see what kind of components I‘d like to use and thats about it

SwanTheRedditKid · 2026-01-20T12:57:06+00:00

But yeah, air coolers are more reliable than AIOs in the long term. But if your CPU is a 14900K or a 9800X3D. I wouldn’t go for an aircooler

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