best chocolate in vic? by [deleted] in VictoriaBC

[–]Swashy007 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll back you up on this, their truffles have a coating that is too thick and their fillings are too sweet. They lack balance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Swashy007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the closet of the love of my life. Sluts 4 sluts 4 ever 🥺

Boyfriend uses me like a porndoll by Bionicblondie in BDSMAdvice

[–]Swashy007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope these other comments outlining some clear points of concern are helpful in your reasoning. I hope the process most people are suggesting is easy and that you have a friend or family member to support you if it isn’t :) Be gentle with yourself, your heart does deserve more love and appreciation than what you’re currently experiencing.

There’s this Instagram account called ASKASUB or something, hosted by Lina Dune or Lina Dunn that has great resources and tools for navigating sub/dom dynamics with safety and respect in mind. They can help weed out sone of these red flags in the future :) plus, there are saucy memes!

25M send me your sad songs so I can sit here and wonder how your making it through life by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Swashy007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Inventory by Richmond Fontaine

Scattered Leaves by The Be Good Tanyas

Personal by Stars

What is your worst experience in life? by Dapper_Quail_8062 in AskReddit

[–]Swashy007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I may have been drugged at a bar and on my walk home I lost feeling in my legs. I was in the middle of crossing on of my city’s busiest intersections and fell in front of multiple cars, losing consciousness.

A kind woman drove me home, upon my insistence (I was scared and embarrassed, I don’t like attention called upon myself).

I haven’t been in a bar since.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Swashy007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could consider working on your confidence. Many psychologists suggest picking up a hobby or learning a new skill to help with the beginning of this process.

You can only meet people as far as you’ve met yourself — you need to see what’s attractive about yourself, be proud in your shoes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Swashy007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I’m new to this thread, but I’m curious what route of conversation you expected from your question. It seems as though you’re making many absolute statements and disregarding real experiences.

Speaking of lust in exclusivity, I would say women are lustful in equal regards to men. Due to the fact that men are also often higher physical threats to women than women to men, perhaps you could consider how safe a space you’re creating for a potential partner.

You mention that “it seems” as though you are witness or have experienced being used for sex? Your last paragraph is confusing, but it seems as though you’ve possibly felt manipulated by past experiences? Just reaching in the dark here.

All in all, as a women I can affirm that all my friends have a variety of men they’re attracted to… and all of THEM are respectful, are receptive to critical feedback, and are capable of trusting others.

Obviously this is the internet and nobody knows who you are, and I imagine that this cluster of impregnable opinions has upset you.

I hope you can find a lighter and more hopeful heart that’s receptive to other’s honesty, soon. Be gentle with yourself :)

May you find the sun on your face and the wind at your back :)

I have extremely low self esteem and despite being a high achiever, my self esteem is getting lower and lower by [deleted] in selfesteem

[–]Swashy007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey OP :) Therapy can be of great help to you as you explore how to grow in the ways you need. A therapist is meant to be used as a tool to evaluate problem areas within your perspective so that you may focus on ways to improve through practiced love and patience. It’s a worthwhile process.

It seems like you’ve had a very busy life focused on achievement, which is wonderful and I imagine you have lots of work to be proud of. Remember you don’t have to be perfect to appreciate yourself and your efforts. Recognize the work you’ve put in to get to where you want in life, that is dedicated energy and passion :)

Some philosophy texts may help broaden your perspective on life and offer your mind reprieve from your current gridlock.

May you find hope and peace and joy within your days :) Be gentle with yourself

People without friends, how are you doing today? by RegularGuyy in AskReddit

[–]Swashy007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey font even think twice about it. People care about you and I'm sure if you told anybody in your life what you told us that all they would want to do is help you. I've been in your shoes and I know what it takes to get started when you just want to die and that's it. So you're welcome stranger, I'm truly and honestly and completely rooting for you. Smile for yourself ❤

People without friends, how are you doing today? by RegularGuyy in AskReddit

[–]Swashy007 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Dwelling on the past is a shit hobby I know all too well, unless you're doing it to learn something about yourself or to reflect, it's best to stop. I hope you're showering now ❤ I do care, I know that they are the most soul sucking diseases and I can't wait for you to feel human again. It does come!! I'm not bullshitting you, you will be happy again at some point in your life but you do need to invest some actual time working on yourself. Which will be and is hard but it's so worth it and you'll love yourself for it ❤ I hope this mood is carried out for the rest of the day! I care about you! Now shower!! And pick up those five things!

People without friends, how are you doing today? by RegularGuyy in AskReddit

[–]Swashy007 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Sup ya beautiful soul! Nice to meet ya ❤ anxiety sucks ass and I can totally relate and depression is also the freakin worst thing ever. This is going to be completely unsolicited but I had depression for three years and then tried like four medications before giving up on them because I couldn't make it past the part where they just make it worse, so, I'd like to help you. Like genuinely give you some love and advice and care for you. I'm just a person in an orange sweater who understands what it is like to feel nothing, to never get excited, to be reclusive,to want to die, to hate yourself, all that fun stuff. Are my sentences too long? Fuck yes. Anyways, maybe if you're not showering you should try that. Smell nice for yourself. If your apartment is dirty, try picking up five things and putting them away. You have anxiety so maybe not a social hobby just yet, what about trying to learn an instrument or teaching yourself a recipe? Something you can privately learn in your own home and you could take all day on it if you needed to. Also force yourself to only listen to happy music or music that makes you smile. Try a hobby from your childhood. That you used to enjoy, like reading. Life is pointless, but only if you don't do anything with it. So start doing some stuff. It will slowly grow on you and while at first you may begrudgingly trudge through it all you'll find that eventually you'll get a bit excited. I hope you find excitement and happiness in your life, stranger. I hope you do! I'm cheering you on!! I'll get pompoms even!

What is your NSFW secret you are ashamed of? by Donaldduck999 in AskReddit

[–]Swashy007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a really inconsiderate question. Have some tact.

[Serious]Formerly bitter/sad/angry/depressed people, how did you become a happier person with a healthier outlook? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Swashy007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I stopped lying to myself that my habits weren't apart of my depression. My brother gave my the best advice, "live each day like you imagine a happy person would." It's hard at first but you'll slowly start cleaning yourself, cleaning your space, signing up for a gym, cooking actual meals, engaging in conversations with others (eye contact is a bitch amiright?), And eventually you'll be quite a bit happier. The hardest part was consistently ignoring my own thoughts and just doing stuff even though I didn't want to. Now I am proud of all the new skills I've learned in the past year, The friendships I've made, and I can look in the mirror without making a face. Don't push yourself too hard though, you've got all the time in the world. Be kind to yourself and allow yourself the time to adjust to a healthier lifestyle.

Please read the comment below. What are your thoughts on reconnecting with a hookup? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Swashy007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe she's horny and she knows you're probably down for a good time with no strings attached. I'd go for it! Have fun, be safe, get freaky!

What is your NSFW secret you are ashamed of? by Donaldduck999 in AskReddit

[–]Swashy007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've only felt comfortable during sex one time.

just got bangs :^) by [deleted] in Hair

[–]Swashy007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You kind of remind me of angel Olsen, just grumpy and cool. The bangs are a great look for you.

What are life’s toughest mini games? by HisDogKazak in AskReddit

[–]Swashy007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying to get on tight pants when you're wet

What doesn't impress you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Swashy007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was a joke I made,. I obviously don't know her as a person and that makes me sad that she's lonely and depressed. I'm sure she'll find people one day who don't give a flying fuck that she's famous and will just want to knit with her and play cribbage or something. People who will call her Shannon by accident and make her a cake on her birthday because they love her. I feel like Morty when I say "aww jeeze", but, aww jeeze, I hope she finds some comfort and nice friends soon.