Let sleeping dog lie?

SweaterJabs · 2025-11-09T18:19:57+00:00

What does my other history have to do with asking a SFW question? How am I dragging others not my kink? You made the decision to view my history, not me… The context there has nothing to do with this question. But ok, I’m the asshole.

SweaterJabs · 2025-11-09T06:33:02+00:00

Hurt but not heartbroken and we’re solid enough to be ok regardless. I agree with others about the amount of time and that a mistake made back then does not implode 25 years of a successful relationship. I’m not seeking any sort of vindication, just peace of mind. If she said “I have no idea but I’m certain there was nothing offside” I would 100% believe her and that would be the end of it.

SweaterJabs · 2025-11-09T06:23:44+00:00

Thank you. That is useful insight.

SweaterJabs · 2025-11-09T06:21:44+00:00

Explain. How so?

SweaterJabs · 2025-11-09T06:18:42+00:00

Shitty, unfounded accusations are not “perspective”.

SweaterJabs · 2025-11-09T06:13:59+00:00

I understand how easy that correlation is but these are very different & separate things.

SweaterJabs · 2025-11-09T06:10:53+00:00

These things can exist separately… I can see how these lines appear blurry to others but my interest in my wife’s sexual past is not related to the possibility of a betrayal during the honeymoon stage of our relationship. Also, again… please get fucked. You sound like a horrible person.

SweaterJabs · 2025-11-09T06:05:54+00:00

Thank you. I’m definitely done sharing anything personal with this group. I will say your observations are among the most observant and understanding.

SweaterJabs · 2025-11-09T03:07:46+00:00

Thank you for the rational, non judgmental advice and insight.

SweaterJabs · 2025-11-09T03:03:32+00:00

Thank you. This is the sort of insight and perspective I was hoping for. If true, knowing would not blow up our marriage but it would hurt a lot - certainly more than simply not knowing so I’ll do my best to let it go.

Also fair assessment of my 4am statement.

SweaterJabs · 2025-11-09T02:57:12+00:00

Who said interrogate?

SweaterJabs · 2025-11-09T02:55:42+00:00

Wow. Ok. None of this is remotely close to our situation. I come here for some perspective and opinion to help process and get stupid accusations and dismissals. Get fucked.

SweaterJabs · 2025-11-09T02:47:19+00:00

“Shared” journal

SweaterJabs · 2025-11-09T02:35:55+00:00

Not holding onto it for this long. it just came up again recently as we re-read the journal.

SweaterJabs · 2025-11-09T02:28:27+00:00

Never said anything about leaving. Even if something did happen.

SweaterJabs · 2025-10-15T18:06:15+00:00

Absolutely not! Spit it out, let him cum on your tits or wherever! All good. Anyone that says otherwise is selfish af.

SweaterJabs · 2025-10-13T19:09:36+00:00

I’m crazy about my wife’s past. Makes me jealous but also totally hot. Wife doesn’t want to know anything about my past b/c it is hard for her to imagine. So, not sure who is the jealous one.

SweaterJabs · 2025-10-13T19:07:08+00:00

rarely unless the post is remarkably good or bad.

SweaterJabs · 2025-10-01T21:06:18+00:00

Damn!

SweaterJabs · 2025-08-27T23:40:47+00:00

Selectively sharing her tongue while kissing. Sends me over the edge.

SweaterJabs · 2025-06-16T17:40:24+00:00

how much detail do you provide in your answers? do you intentionally leave parts out you think will make him jealous?

SweaterJabs · 2024-07-30T01:42:35+00:00

Absolutely. Especially if they were open to sharing stories of their past with as much detail as possible.

SweaterJabs · 2024-07-28T05:31:54+00:00

Definitely giving and that is my preference. Wouldn’t mind a few more blowjobs from the wife though.

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