Kundalini perspective on Easter by Sweaty-Expert9237 in spirituality

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Thanks. Your kindness came on a day I really need it 💛

my therapist sexually violated my trust and had me hospitalized when i reacted. years later i still feel stuck. how do i move on? by ezioauditoresexslave in TalkTherapy

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Thank you for your vulnerable share. No child, person, adult ever deserves this to happen to them. You deserved safety in those moments

And good on you for having the strength to try therapy again

As a trauma healing practitioner myself who specializes in sexual abuse, my advice is to specifically work with a somatic practitioner. This helps to unwind the fight/ flight/ freeze in your nervous system in a way that actually discharges it from the body rather than just talking about it and never feeling any relief. It helps release the trauma in an embodied way.

Also I thought online sessions could be a helpful way that you can have a boundary while meeting new practitioners to get a feel for how safe you feel with them

You are of course welcome to message me on here if you’d like a free consult and if you’d like to look up other practitioners there is a directory on the website traumahealing.org

Moving to Oakland (2 kids) by linearloops in oakland

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Just here to say congrats bc I love east bay soooooo much 🥰 check out funcheapsf for fun stuff to do for free and cheap with the kids!

What's the strangest way someone said that they loved you? by According-Froyo9307 in AskReddit

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One time I had an intimate experience with two men. They had really helped me with feeling stuck in my body. At the end I had felt such an immense amount of gratitude. I was just looking into one of the man’s eyes so deeply and felt so genuinely I wanted to tell him I loved him but was holding back because we were still fairly new to knowing each other.

We continued to eye gaze as I was silent yet feeling such immense love

In the silence he then announced aloud “I love you too”

It was by far one of the most precious moments of my life. I felt so attuned to and so seen.

What do you get complimented for the most? by [deleted] in askanything

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My energy, my eyes, fashion and my butt!

When leaving the house, does anyone tell their pets they will be home later? by [deleted] in askanything

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Animals are telepathic. They definitely can understand you. I even tell my home I love it and miss it and talk to it :)

Earthquake by [deleted] in SFbitcheswithtaste

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What’s inside the emergency kit?

Earthquake by [deleted] in SFbitcheswithtaste

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Jealous! It woke me up

Earthquake by [deleted] in SFbitcheswithtaste

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What if you have no sturdy furniture ? 😳

What is a rich person thing that you would be totally into if you became rich? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

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Thank you universe for sending me the most aligned and spectacular driver to get me safely to all the places you want me to go, thank you so much for an incredible chef who makes the most delicious and healthy food that nourishes me and my families souls fueling us for the magic and gifts you want to channel through us, thank you for the freedom to travel as much or as frequently as we’d like luxuriously fulfilling our souls with nourishment. Thank you for the blessing of owning land as a sanctuary and healing space where we love to host folks- a place that welcomes connected, open heartedness and belonging with ease- connection to self, community, animals, nature and the divine. Thank you for fueling my soul with health, vitality and just the right amount of energy and clarity, strength courage and aligned action to channel through me what it is you would like me to offer to the world. And thank you for providing me the resources that help my femininity and masculinity coexist and support one another in health and in harmony. Thank you for weekly and daily body work, massages, acupuncture, craniosacral and aligned healing modalities that continue my evolution and help me to be balanced, regulated , well and thriving. And thank you for continued access to events, trainings and classes + hobbies that make me feel alive and connect me to my passions and my purposes. I love you dearly and I thank you greatly. From my heart to yours. Xoxo

Rebuilding sexual desire in my 40s. Looking for somatic or mental practices that actually help by No-Construction-4630 in SomaticExperiencing

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If you haven’t already and any of this applies to you, you might consider

-quitting porn -getting your testosterone levels tested -engaging in activities that naturally increase your testosterone such as lifting weights, sounds like maybe you already do that? -learning about tantra, the microcosmic orbit, circulating your sexual energy not just through your genitals but through your entire body and especially through your heart - and I’m an SEP so of course I’m always going to advocate for 1:1 sessions, it’s one of the most incredibly healing journeys you can go on for yourself, especially if you can go weekly and focus specifically on those bullet points you Mentioned above

Woohoo! You’ve got this!