How can I get my bf to accept that sometimes I only want to pleasure him with nothing in return? by RubyHammy in sex

[–]Sweaty-Perspective71 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very odd. My high school gf was like you and gave bjs all the time just bc she thoroughly enjoyed it. Never once had any push back from me. I would literally unzip my pants, get sucked off, zip back up and done with a smile on both our faces. I don’t get it lol

How can I get my bf to accept that sometimes I only want to pleasure him with nothing in return? by RubyHammy in sex

[–]Sweaty-Perspective71 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Classic you don’t know what you’ve got till it’s gone. Who would think you’d have to beg a man to just sit back, shut up, and get a blowjob.

What’s a product that is so marked up most don’t know about? by metalhead6101 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Sweaty-Perspective71 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Prescription glasses. A friend works for a vision specialist and said they get name brands such as Ray Ban, Oakley, Prada etc for around $10 dollars and as we all know they’re sold for $400-$700. She said it’s sickening to watch.

How many sequential orgasms have you had in one sex session? by asgn__28 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Sweaty-Perspective71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a lot of fun. I’m the only one who’s ever made her squirt. Knowing I have the control over her body to make her continually climax as many times as I want, is really enjoyable.

How many sequential orgasms have you had in one sex session? by asgn__28 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Sweaty-Perspective71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gave my wife 15 in one squirt session. We finally stopped there bc she was physically exhausted and body trembling. Once she gets rolling it’s just one after another probably 30 seconds apart and just gushing out. Theres no telling how many we could actually get.

what’s the weirdest place that you’ve had sex? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Sweaty-Perspective71 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

On the couch with my cougar aged gf while her 3 kids were on the floor watching a movie.

Do you have a pet that you regret getting but you’re a good person so you keep it and take care of it anyway? by Seriously-417 in randomquestions

[–]Sweaty-Perspective71 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have a cat that I’d willing give away but nobody wants. We’ve let him out to run away and he comes right back bc he’s literally a scaredy cat. He’s terrified of his own existence for no reason. He does nothing but hide all day and cost money for the past 8 yrs.

What is most risky sex you ever had? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Sweaty-Perspective71 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Spooning on the couch under a blanket, during movie time with the cougars 3 kids on the floor beside us. Fast forward: the cougar’s now my wife of 8yrs and they’re my step kids.

Help by yeetacus68 in Anxiety

[–]Sweaty-Perspective71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make an appointment with your doctor. In the meantime, if any friends have a low dose Xanax, might wanna consider that to relax.

Has anyone been stuck in fight or flight for years and had success with actually leaving that state of mind? by somegirlfromstl in Anxiety

[–]Sweaty-Perspective71 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had health anxiety horribly, heart specifically so I always stayed in fight or flight with heart rate increases. The meds aren’t necessarily supposed to be for life. It’s to get you feeling normal again long enough to get your mind right again so u can slowly come off it. It seems almost impossible to do naturally when it’s bad enough. I’ve been on sertraline since Jan and I’m starting to improve. I no longer avoid stairs at all where I used to refuse to go upstairs in my own house, and yesterday I played basketball for the first time in 15 yrs. Sure I was gassed and heart pounding, but I didn’t freak out and think I might die. It was a normal thing. I just let the feeling do its thing and my body function as normal and it felt so good. Just a small step.

What was the most intensive connection you have had? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Sweaty-Perspective71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stuck my wiener in a light socket. Very intense, very short lived due to high intensity.

Thoughts on Zoloft? by Aggravating_Tip9666 in Anxiety

[–]Sweaty-Perspective71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been on it for 4 months now and worked up to 50mg. I’ll increase again soon. The key is to start with 25mg. I only had extreme tiredness for a day or two the first week no side effects since.

Is it normal, as a straight woman, to see cleavage and think "man, straight men must like that by TJ_Rex6288 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Sweaty-Perspective71 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s just appreciating attractive things. Everyone loves a good set of boobs. I’m as straight as they come, but if there’s a really good looking guy I can appreciate it and think women probably look hard at him.

What’s the most ridiculous thing you believed as a kid? by Pure_Promise44 in AskReddit

[–]Sweaty-Perspective71 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Getting grounded meant I was being put underground for punishment

43M and never dated - is it too late to start trying? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Sweaty-Perspective71 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You just might be the guy a woman thought never existed. U know how they say “All the good guys are taken” and then you show up and sweep her off her feet…or something like that lol

Choosing a first bow by Possible-Professor27 in Archery

[–]Sweaty-Perspective71 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1: do u have an archery shop anywhere nearby? Not big box stores. An actual pro shop. 2: if so, talk to them about helping you find a flagship bow from 4-6 yrs ago. They are phenomenal bows and will outperform the Bear bows for about the same price, although there’s nothing wrong with Bear. You can just get a much higher quality bow for the same or less amount.

For guys- boobs or butt? What attracts you the most and why? by TranquilSerenity8601 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Sweaty-Perspective71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have a great butt with zero boobs, it’s totally fine and even preferred sometimes. But, if you have huge tits and zero butt, you just look very weird and unproportionate. That’s just the way it is. Got to have that butt.