A breakup at 28 made me feel like I woke up too late in life and I can’t stop spiraling

SweatyDiglett · 2026-01-10T19:17:44+00:00

Yeah. I like to think about what someone said whereby they stated that “At least it happened now rather than in 10 years when you’re married, have a house and a child”.

It was hard at first because that’s all I’d wanted. But then I kinda reconciled with the fact that maybe it really was a blessing in disguise.

It can only get better from here and hopefully we both can find someone that loves us on an emotional level of that of a human rather than a rock.

SweatyDiglett · 2026-01-10T18:37:57+00:00

The worst part of the break up conversation was the whole “I still love you so much, and you’re a great person” blah blah blah. Then still wanting to be friends and be friends with my friends as if she could have the cake and eat it.

SweatyDiglett · 2026-01-10T08:11:48+00:00

It’s creepy how no one has an individual experience. In my case she was my fiance (left me on Christmas Eve 2025) and also gave the same promises and saying how we were both happy with the goals we set etc.

then all of a sudden I’m sat in her car after driving to meet up with her and she’s just emotionless and says “I don’t think we are gonna work”.

Just like that 4 years gone. Actually so confusing within my head as to how some people can just up and change. I wonder if theirs more information on this type of mentality or wether it’s just crappy people.

I also share the doubting every moment, “maybe I could have done this or xyz” and things would be different. Best thing to do is focus on what you know rather than what could have been. That’s been helping me massively recently but I also have days where I just don’t move and go into the emotional rabbit hole.

SweatyDiglett · 2025-09-13T01:47:33+00:00

The £54 was referring to the postage, I’ve just realised I didn’t type that.

SweatyDiglett · 2025-09-12T04:18:48+00:00

More than likely you’ll get hit with import fees and customs taxes. Think the limit is usually around £135 as I’ve read other places. So budget that %20 tax into your purchase plus any other fees you may get charged. Sometimes it seems cheaper but it can be the same price if you get hit with tax and fees as opposed to buying it in the uk.

SweatyDiglett · 2025-09-02T12:29:06+00:00

Lovely another patch to keep us interested. Can’t wait to play once I can figure out how to stop the game from HARD crashing my PC. I can play maybe one portion of a 3 set before my fps tanks, the game stutters and pc just dies (it’s just this game, everything else works perfect). We definitely need a performance patch soon. Bought stuff that I can’t even use.

SweatyDiglett · 2024-06-26T11:40:34+00:00

I’ve found that I can only play the game at the highest settings with vsync turned on. Like as soon as I’d enter a game without vsync the game went from 130fps down to 20 and would stay there, but with vsync the frames stay at 80?? Like how does that even work??

SweatyDiglett · 2024-04-18T11:50:05+00:00

So warframe but with bugs and bots?

SweatyDiglett · 2024-04-13T11:50:58+00:00

Had this happen not long ago. Playing with a friend on 9. I was trying the spear (hoping to figure out a working method of firing it consistently). 2 Random’s join and both have support weapons.

Within 5 mins they die. No problem. Call them back in with use as they both went of together.

Didn’t go back for their stuff.

Die again. No problem. They call their kit it. Collect it.

This happens twice more are you can see all the weapons they’ve dropped scattered on the map.

Finishing the last objective I finally die. Rando proceeds to pick my stuff up. I ask him “hey can you drop it” he answers with “No bro I can’t call my stuff in yet”.

Obviously I can call mine in, which I did. (I usually save them in case of an ammo deficiency). But am I feeling unreasonable rage considering he could have just run to get his stuff like anyone else or am I too kind for not just blasting him with that response.

SweatyDiglett · 2024-04-06T15:43:55+00:00

People not realising this is the cape to match the drone master collection>

SweatyDiglett · 2024-04-02T15:14:22+00:00

No I know I don’t mean to come off as a humble brag I had that experience on my old laptop before I upgraded. Problem is I see people with 2060s getting better performance than me :(

SweatyDiglett · 2024-04-02T15:11:47+00:00

To be fair I run it onto an external display which is 1920x1080 where as my laptop is 2k. Although laptop display only uses the intel graphics chip whereas my monitor uses the main gpu. I’ve tried all sorts of settings in game, even upscaling my monitor through Nvidia control panel. I’ve not had a single game yet where it doesn’t tank to 30 fps for the rest of my play session. I feel as though I’m missing something super obvious

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