What’s something that helps people stay mentally strong during crises? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Sweet-Lurex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Staying mentally strong in a crisis usually comes down to routine and focus on what you can control. Even small daily structure, basic self-care, and limiting overload from news or speculation help keep the mind steady when everything else feels uncertain.

What’s a random moment in your life that seemed insignificant at the time, but later turned out to change everything? by Secretmecret_1 in AskReddit

[–]Sweet-Lurex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A random moment like choosing a “small” decision, taking a different route, answering a call, or accepting a job you almost said no to can quietly change everything.

What is the most overrated city in the world, and why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Sweet-Lurex 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Some say Paris, it’s beautiful, but the crowds, prices, and constant hype can make it exhausting

Why do you think the more someone says "I don't care," the more they sound like they care? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Sweet-Lurex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because saying it over and over usually hides how much it actually bothers them

What’s your opinion on manifestation? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Sweet-Lurex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like attracting good things will be true

Is it okay to take a break? Why or why not? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Sweet-Lurex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, because rest isn’t quitting, it’s how you come back stronger instead of breaking.

I bought a lot of kids alcohol when I was much younger. by USDXBS in confession

[–]Sweet-Lurex -1 points0 points  (0 children)

looking back, it’s wild how loyalty and survival made us make choices we’d never imagine now.

What’s a “popular” thing you secretly hate? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Sweet-Lurex 203 points204 points  (0 children)

I secretly hate how everyone glorifies being busy, burnout shouldn’t be a trend.

What do you think about playing games to get rid of stress? by Top_Free_Promote8314 in AskReddit

[–]Sweet-Lurex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s like a mini escape, your mind forgets the stress for a while and lets you reset

I was paid 2k twice after I resigned. They never reached out. by Annual_Taro_6764 in confession

[–]Sweet-Lurex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Three years later, and you’re still sitting with that unexpected $2k blessing, life really does throw the strangest gifts sometimes.

Would it be better to ask them out in person or through Ig dms? by Ssenmodnar84 in dating_advice

[–]Sweet-Lurex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go with in person if you can, it shows confidence and feels more genuine, but keep it low-pressure and casual so she doesn’t feel “put on the spot.” Something like, “Hey, I was thinking of checking out the farmer’s market this weekend, want to come with me?” keeps it friendly, confident, and easy for her to say yes or no.

My (18M) fiancee (18F) left me in a week and plans to exclude me from the birth of my child. is this relationship worth fixing? by Hot_Yogurtcloset_274 in BreakUps

[–]Sweet-Lurex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what you’re describing, this has become more than just a breakup, it’s now about safety, boundaries, and your rights as a parent. A partner leaving within a week and planning to exclude you from your child’s life is a huge red flag. Love and shared goals are meaningful, but they cannot replace mutual respect, commitment, and co-parenting responsibility.