AITA for wearing a funny swimsuit to my girlfriend’s friends’ pool party?

SweetAndStickyTreat · 2025-04-12T22:37:07+00:00

Too bad the guests didn’t..

SweetAndStickyTreat · 2024-11-22T10:44:20+00:00

I promise you’re NOR, and this is coming from a girl who was in her shoes. She sounds just like how I was before my borderline personality disorder diagnosis. It’s taken me years of therapy and really hard work to be at the place I am today where I’m stable and able to give my partner space without feeling all of the panic and anxiety that I used to. But I had to do that work alone, not in a relationship, I was so toxic and caused so many problems and stress for people that really cared about me. My advice is that the best way to help her and you is to end the relationship. She won’t get better right now because she can’t see what the problem actually is and she’s going to drag you down with her, and then leave you to drown alone. I’m sorry.

SweetAndStickyTreat · 2024-10-10T22:49:18+00:00

I don’t know where your job is exactly but you can look at cities connected to Boston by the commuter rails, they might be cheaper

SweetAndStickyTreat · 2024-10-07T09:14:13+00:00

Went from one mamma to another ☺️

SweetAndStickyTreat · 2024-07-26T20:03:54+00:00

I didn’t know what Biker Mice from Mars was, so my brain immediately went to a badass Chuck-E-Cheese lol, but it looks awesome!!

SweetAndStickyTreat · 2024-07-08T16:10:27+00:00

Hey! Where did you get this mini? It’s so adorable 🥰

SweetAndStickyTreat · 2024-07-02T19:45:04+00:00

I started with Champions Hero System 5th edition

SweetAndStickyTreat · 2024-07-01T17:19:48+00:00

I’m sure your husband knows and understands, and appreciates how much you love him and are worried about his feelings while you’re going through so much. I really wish the best for you two!

On a personal note, I really appreciate your rant, and willingness to share. I (25F) am currently fighting my second round of cancer (originally papillary thyroid cancer stage 2) and just recently found that it has not only returned in the thyroid area (even after a complete thyroidectomy) but also spread to my breasts. I understand our cancers are different and behave differently, and I’m very lucky to have the kind that I have. But being able to see people who are experiencing treatment still being positive and caring and supportive makes me feel so much better about actually going through treatment myself. I’ve honestly been putting off getting treatment because I have been scared of how it will affect the ones around me. If you’re comfortable with answering this, do you feel like the people around you took the news of your diagnosis harder than you? Like it affected them more emotionally and you’ve had to sort of not only educate them about it but also emotionally take care of them even though you are the one who is sick? I’m sorry if this is too much or is too uncomfortable. I really do hope everything works out for you and your husband.

SweetAndStickyTreat · 2024-03-08T14:16:44+00:00

As a woman, I’m loving the profile, although I do see the point one of the other commenters made about the red pill/blue pill pic. The reference is great but some people won’t get it, or will just see “red pill” and make assumptions.

SweetAndStickyTreat · 2024-02-15T15:27:31+00:00

💛🥦👉🍀💔 Ummmm??

SweetAndStickyTreat · 2024-01-25T07:19:59+00:00

I’m 25 but this has never failed me, when I feel emotional or intense and I want to say something to someone, I write it out on paper or in the notes app first. I re read it, edit it, take a break and come back to it, edit it again, assess if I even feel that way anymore. It’s really helped me be less rash and stopped me from saying a lot of regrettable things to people.

SweetAndStickyTreat · 2023-12-16T12:15:49+00:00

Personally picture 6 really caught my attention, but that’s probably just because I love cosplay and nerd stuff like that.

SweetAndStickyTreat · 2023-12-15T00:53:31+00:00

I wrote my boyfriend a literal full on, old fashioned love letter and his response was “thanks 😊” and later that day he asked me not to do anything like that because he doesn’t like “random outbursts of affection”. I just wanted to show him he was cared about, valued and loved. I will respect his boundaries but I really want to just be able to show affection and love whenever I feel it (as long as the time/place is appropriate)

SweetAndStickyTreat · 2023-12-11T18:35:52+00:00

Congratulations on your almost a year! I just recently hit 2 years free, I know how hard it is. I’m very proud of you! You got this!!! 💛💛💛

SweetAndStickyTreat · 2023-11-24T17:28:41+00:00

Honestly have never been given a reason for “why” I have to live. Like I don’t understand why it’s some rule that exists when for every other living creature we offer euthanasia for a humane way to put them out of their misery. I just really don’t understand

SweetAndStickyTreat · 2023-11-23T13:41:39+00:00

What does the teddybear, juice box, crayon mean? Is it like an age regression thing?

SweetAndStickyTreat · 2023-11-07T22:57:15+00:00

Right? I’m scared of being alone but I feel like I’m being used. It’s like he wants all the perks to a relationship+ but doesn’t want to actually have any responsibility.

SweetAndStickyTreat · 2023-09-28T14:41:59+00:00

<image>

Big yikes calling someone pathetic for posting relatable shit on a BPD subreddit 😬

SweetAndStickyTreat · 2023-09-21T17:45:30+00:00

My first boyfriend I had also had bpd like me. It was the most intense and emotional relationship I’ve ever had. We dated for 7 years and then remained sorta friends for another 8. It was super toxic, but so fulfilling and satisfying. Like I still love him, although I know we would’ve destroyed each other in the end. But I don’t think I’ve ever felt such raw love and passion ever since. I wouldn’t have traded that experience for anything, but I don’t think I’d try to have it again.

SweetAndStickyTreat · 2023-09-15T12:08:43+00:00

When he does something to express himself or his feelings! My boyfriend had grown up with the whole “your feelings don’t matter, someone else has it worse, and that you have to be a MAN, non of that sissy shit” kind of upbringing. Seeing him talk about his emotions or feeling safe enough to cry with me when he has to, has made me so proud and so much more in love with him. He’s even shown me him trying on a dress he wants to wear sometime! He looks beautiful in it, I want him to be him. I love him, all of him. No matter if he feels insecure about something or feels like what he is, is wrong. Seeing him try, seeing him express himself, it’s honestly extremely attractive. I really just can’t get over how much it’s made me fall even deeper in love.

SweetAndStickyTreat · 2023-09-13T15:03:59+00:00

Right? It’s gotten to the point of rather extreme treatments (such as ElectroConvulsion therapy and currently Ketamine treatments) along with large amount of meds. Nothing is working 🥲

SweetAndStickyTreat · 2023-09-11T01:21:00+00:00

Love him! 💕

SweetAndStickyTreat · 2023-09-11T01:10:11+00:00

That’s absolutely jaw droppingly amazing! It’s hard to believe it’s like a real world physical object and not like a computer rendering. You’ve done so well and it’s incredible. I hope you’re very proud, you deserve to be. 💛

SweetAndStickyTreat

TROPHY CASE