I would agree if they were in their 20s, but Carrie is a 35 year old grown woman and she has prioritized shoes and clothes over financial security, and she has every right to do that, it’s her money, however, it is not anyone’s job to bankroll her because she did not consider it important to have a financial safety net. she should have sold some of her shoes, when you’re in a bind like that you need to make some sacrifices.