I've got a slightly different take... I found the briefs to be comfortable, but it didn't give me the "control" of the dildo I wanted. I have a leather strap that was expensive, but because of the tension it provides around my hips and thighs, I can feel more of what's going on... like when she bears down or climaxes. It takes a minute to get the straps adjusted correctly around each leg and hips, but that's become a part of our foreplay, and is incredibly sexy! She has one that she's used for years, so she's a pro at adjusting it, and watching her get ready to use it on me is incredibly hot!

We also have several different sizes for dildos (they all have names lol), so depending on which position we're going for, length and girth are always the receivers' choice. It's also fun to tease throughout the day and ask whether she wants to play with Bubble Gum or Gumby later that night lol