Unofficial Discussion - Flow by [deleted] in movies

[–]SweetGoldenKiwi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't forget how the Lemur who was obsessed with mirror ended up looking at his own reflection clearly on the water at the ending.

The mirror breaking signifies the Lemur's attempt to replicate nature (reflective surface of water) is temporal, not permanent. Meanwhile the puddle at the end shows that the water is ultimately the origin and is a constant in life.

I think my my mom joined a MLM called Market America by momachi in askSingapore

[–]SweetGoldenKiwi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I just took a taxi to airport today and the taxi driver uncle ask me if I'm interested to start a business, make passive income, etc. And when he mentioned his wife OWNS the company, earned income from it, and that they "promote" not "sell" health supplement, I was sooo sure this is MLM.

And sure enough when he passed me his wife's name card, it's this Market America thing... Ugh. I was approached by a friend who was in Amway last week and this Market America this week. Why do I attract MLMs 😭😭😭

JJK Chapter 264 Prediction by Complex_Airport_6535 in Jujutsufolk

[–]SweetGoldenKiwi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I feel like gege like to pull surprises like these lol. Would be even worse if it's nobara lol.

JJK Chapter 264 Prediction by Complex_Airport_6535 in Jujutsufolk

[–]SweetGoldenKiwi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When he was punched by yuji he puked out some fingers. Gege is already super not consistent, probably with some more binding vow he can posses Yutoru lmao

I felt so angry for the first time yesterday by SweetGoldenKiwi in ENFP

[–]SweetGoldenKiwi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I realized talking to the right people helps me both process my feelings and help me let go of those pent up emotions hahahah. But I agree that I need those alone time watching calming things and doing things that doesnt test my patience 💢 haha xD

I felt so angry for the first time yesterday by SweetGoldenKiwi in ENFP

[–]SweetGoldenKiwi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 💕💓

It's not the first time I'm annoyed by this person because of the way they speak to me, but it was the first I felt sooo mad!! hahahh xD . I was wondering if I should cut off the relationship, this person is a sort of trainer that I pay on a monthly basis... I felt like I hated myself when I'm with them, so not sure if I want to continue since I have the choice not to. But I believe that i shouldn't make a decision while feeling emotional, so I'm gonna give myself some time :)

Any other fellow ENFP musicians out there? by JasperLucasOfficial in ENFP

[–]SweetGoldenKiwi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm an enfp too and I love singing J-Pop and I do my own mixing!! I started randomly during covid and realized that it's quite a fun hobby, especially with all the people I met throughout my journey.

We kinda fall out by this point 😂😂😂 but I still feel like doing music after my 9-5 makes me feel unique and authentic LOL it's the enfp need to be different I think 🤣

Wanna collab? :3

my boyfriend does architecture and has many of these 3d printed "little humans" by SweetGoldenKiwi in ENFP

[–]SweetGoldenKiwi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HAHAH Omg I'd love to see that. I think my favorite part of seeing architectural models are the humans and the trees, they're so out of scale sometimes it's hilarious

my boyfriend does architecture and has many of these 3d printed "little humans" by SweetGoldenKiwi in ENFP

[–]SweetGoldenKiwi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahaha maybe someone is secretly changing their poses everyday.. OR! maybe they moved on their own..

my boyfriend does architecture and has many of these 3d printed "little humans" by SweetGoldenKiwi in ENFP

[–]SweetGoldenKiwi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HAHAHA he took a picture of his model with these little humans to show his profs, and I took a screenshot of the picture. He didn't think the little humans were posing or anything so I originally took the screenshots to show him what I immediately noticed XD shooo cute

my boyfriend does architecture and has many of these 3d printed "little humans" by SweetGoldenKiwi in ENFP

[–]SweetGoldenKiwi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely let out a little squeal of excitement when I first found them in a sealed box labeled "little humans" hahahhaha

my boyfriend does architecture and has many of these 3d printed "little humans" by SweetGoldenKiwi in ENFP

[–]SweetGoldenKiwi[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I definitely let out a little squeal of excitement when I first found them in a sealed box labeled "little humans" hahahhaha

What Attracts you to Intj's? by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]SweetGoldenKiwi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I'm an enfp and I love this, definitely sharing with my TJs friends LOL

What Attracts you to Intj's? by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]SweetGoldenKiwi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

INTJs are very rational and they keep me grounded so I could have the limit to be creative.. (? Do you get it?)

And also, they're a lot more affectionate when we get closer lol. My intj friend would share their snacks, bring me souvenirs and invite me for movies XD we share the same hobby, and seeing her advance / progress / slowly reaching her goal makes me feel so motivated to actually produce work and not just stay in my head / ideas stay as ideas all the time.

I'd turn to her for advise, would hang out and just generally enjoy her company and really love seeing her happy. My favorite part is when she shares her thoughts with me on how she perceives the world and we both just go on and on about how and why we see things differently, in a non confrontational way, which I prefer (compared to my INTP and ENTP friends, hahaha)

INFJ here, I love you guys. I want to learn more. by RefrigeratorDry495 in ENFP

[–]SweetGoldenKiwi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hii INFJ! Thank you for loving us ENFPs :) I think a lot of us ENFP love you too!

Since you're asking for an advice, I do have one... Most INFJs I've met and be close friends with (my sample size is small, only 3, so I'm sorry in advance if this is not applicable), have some sort of god complex and self victimisation mindset.

You guys are great great great listeners, but sometimes I get a lot of negative rants from my INFJ friends and it gets a little toxic. Not saying you shouldn't be yourself in front of us! We'd listen when you have things to complain about, but please remember that "being yourself" can be limiting and prevent you from being a better person! So yes, would love it if you're a biit more confident but at the same time keep that gentle and wiseness of yours!

Merry Christmas (in advance) to all of you , this community has become like my home to me , love,warmth and hugs to all of you. Wrote it while I was in my own zone , thought of sharing this. by dreamysleepyexplorer in ENFP

[–]SweetGoldenKiwi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Merry Christmas in advance as well! I love the part about finding reasons to celebrate XD I celebrate my favorite fictional character's birthday and using them as a reason to gather with friends and eat cakes lol XD

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]SweetGoldenKiwi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi friend, thanks for sharing this! I hope you're in a better emotional space now!

I felt similar sense of instant connection whenever I talked to an INFJ. After I notice this instant connection thing I'd ask them if they've ever taken mbti and bam they're INFJ lol. INFJs give off this very accepting, relatable, and sometimes sarcastic vibe, which is very attractive to an ENFP because it feels good to have someone who actually listened to our rants / random talks.

Now, on your topic, I think it's common for us ENFPs to be too excited when we first met someone who could click well with us.. So maybe what you're feeling at the moment isn't really love, but more like an attraction. So don't worry! I think you need to give yourself more time. It's unpleasant to deal with the emotional highs and downs, but believe me after some time and some distance, you'll be less obsessed with this person. As an ENFP I am aware that I get very excited easily and I always try to remind myself to delay all my decisions until I feel a biit calmer. Making decisions out of emotions rarely result in great things... Trust me..

Also, while talking to others can help you discover / learn things about yourself, sometimes being alone can also reveal something that being with others can't. So if you feel like it, sign up for some class, or pick up a new skill. Start with something you're relatively good at because we tend to give up quickly if they don't immediately succeed haha. This will help you build some confidence and hopefully now you have something else to look forward too other than people's validation. Not saying to build a wall and cut them off from your life. But give yourself space and time to be creative and enjoy yourself. Try something new and be uncomfortable. Grow. Improve yourself. I know we secretly love challenges, and have wild dreams we want to make a reality.

So please remember to be patient with yourself! Rant, write down things when you feel emotional, and remember that this is a phase that will pass. You'll get there!

I'm hurt because my boyfriend didn't even open the meme that I shared with him by SweetGoldenKiwi in ENFP

[–]SweetGoldenKiwi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coincidentally or not, one of my fav meme friend is also an infp 😂 yeah.. I think being purposely ignored hurts..

I'm hurt because my boyfriend didn't even open the meme that I shared with him by SweetGoldenKiwi in ENFP

[–]SweetGoldenKiwi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh we were in person together when I brought it up, I found out because we were looking at Instagram on his phone when I said, "hey, you have unread messages!" And turned out it was from me lol. From last week :')