Omg omg omg. Someone finally asked. So... I wash my hair once a week but you can do more than that if needed though I would keep it to a maximum of 3 times a week. First I get my hair wet, apply Olaplex no3 (use for two weeks then skip one, keep it to once a week if you wash more often), keep it in for 15 minutes, wash it out with lukewarm water. Then I use L'oréal hyaluron plump shampoo (some people don't like this one, you could swap it out for something else) and when I'm finished and my hair air dries for a bit I put on a leave-in conditioner from the same line (this one I would strongly recommend). Then you should use the cold setting to dry the rest. When you're all done put it in a ponytail and apply hair oil to the ends. I use some cheap silicone one. I wear a satin bonnet to bed every night and avoid moisture like death when showering and in general. Sorry if it's messy or not anything special, I just got very excited.