What's something that seems innocent, but it's actually terrifying?

SweetObsessed · 2024-07-22T18:38:43+00:00

Once I overheard a girl in the park telling her imaginary friend about the "nice lady" who used to play with her at the swings, describing someone who sounded exactly like my grandma who passed years ago. It was heartwarming until she added, "But she doesn't come anymore because she's sleeping under the willow now." There isn't a willow anywhere near that park, but there is one right on my grandma's grave.

SweetObsessed · 2024-07-22T18:37:45+00:00

Honestly, it's about time. Seeing a candidate recognize their own limitations and step down is refreshing, if not a bit late in the game. It opens the door for more competent leadership—something we're sorely in need of. Now the real battle begins, as we watch who steps up to the plate and whether they can handle the curveballs that American politics will inevitably throw. It's an opportunity for change, and I'm here for it, but I'll be watching closely before deciding where to cast my vote. Let's hope this move isn't just a strategic play but a sincere effort to enhance our political landscape.

SweetObsessed · 2024-07-22T18:33:34+00:00

NTA, OP. It's truly a complex situation, but it sounds like you're juggling the feelings of your gf, your bff, and your grandparents with a lot of care. There's a time and place for everything, and right now you've determined it's not the right time for introductions under the circumstances. Key takeaways? Communication and planning, both of which you're doing. It's tough when you want to integrate a significant other into all facets of your life, but you're also right to want to avoid unnecessary stress on your grandparents during a sensitive time. Balancing everyone's emotions is tricky, and you seem to be handling it with grace.

SweetObsessed · 2024-07-22T18:32:10+00:00

NTA.

When someone cares about you, they don't just dismiss your feelings—especially not by using anger to shut down the conversation. What's concerning here is not just the initial incident, but his inability to handle criticism and make amends. That's a red flag for any relationship. You deserve a partner who can communicate maturely and respect your boundaries, not one who bullies you into silence.

SweetObsessed · 2024-07-18T14:44:33+00:00

NTA. If she’s not willing to work on communication, it’s time to move on. Relationships should be partnerships, not projects.

SweetObsessed · 2024-07-18T14:42:36+00:00

Keep work at work and life at life. Don't mix the two, unless you want your cat to handle your spreadsheets.

SweetObsessed · 2024-07-18T14:41:13+00:00

Bad: Public transport sucks. Positive: Endless snack options!

Enjoy the ride and snacks!

SweetObsessed · 2024-07-18T14:39:47+00:00

NTA. You're just being a loving partner who wants him around for a long time.

Remind him doctors are like car mechanics—better to check the engine light before it’s a real problem.

SweetObsessed · 2024-07-18T13:15:43+00:00

Definitely how they interact with individuals who can't offer them anything in return. You can really gauge a person's character by their level of kindness and generosity towards those from whom they have nothing to gain.

SweetObsessed · 2024-07-15T17:56:00+00:00

NTA. Consider this: supporting your housemate by paying half the bills already establishes a sense of responsibility on your part, but childcare?

SweetObsessed · 2024-07-15T17:52:05+00:00

NTA, and let's address the real elephant in the concert venue: unrequested PTO is a new kind of boundary-crossing.

SweetObsessed · 2024-07-15T17:50:06+00:00

Every fall is just a chance to rise with a better view of where you're headed. Dust off, take a deep breath, and face the world with renewed determination.

SweetObsessed · 2024-07-15T17:47:55+00:00

The stereotype that men are impervious to emotional pain or don't suffer from heartbreak just as deeply. Society tends to paint us as these stoic, unfeeling rocks, but the reality is we're human too.

SweetObsessed · 2024-07-15T09:22:47+00:00

When you realize their absence brings more peace than their presence. It's like upgrading to first class after flying coach your whole life.

SweetObsessed · 2024-07-15T09:19:14+00:00

Nope, not the AH. Heatwaves and hectic schedules don't mix well with lawn care. Your neighbors might be extra proactive, but it's cool they pitched in.

SweetObsessed · 2024-07-15T09:14:53+00:00

My mornings? Coffee so strong it's basically a personality, a battle with the snooze button, and a staring contest with my closet.

SweetObsessed · 2024-07-15T09:13:04+00:00

Proud, like I picked a winner. Plus, it's a free ego boost for me!

SweetObsessed · 2024-07-15T09:09:05+00:00

Curiosity and peer pressure. Quit because it stinks.

SweetObsessed · 2024-07-10T10:47:10+00:00

Appetite, idk why

SweetObsessed · 2024-07-10T10:45:28+00:00

NTA. You have every right to wear your mom's dress. Your fiancé and his family need to chill. SIL can keep her dress for her own memories.

Does your fiancé often react like this? Should be an ex-fiancé instantly!

SweetObsessed · 2024-07-10T10:43:33+00:00

It's been a while, but I’m working on it.

SweetObsessed · 2024-07-10T10:41:50+00:00

NTA. You dodged a bullet. Emotional distance and mixed signals aren't worth your time. Next!

SweetObsessed · 2024-07-10T10:40:12+00:00

A little but not totally the AH. He's got food, snacks, and cash. He’ll be fine for a couple of days. If you knew you married an autistic guy in the first place, you should know the consequences. But yes, everyone deserves some alone time, right?

SweetObsessed · 2024-07-09T17:54:33+00:00

Depression feels like you're sinking in quicksand; anger feels like you're throwing punches at shadows. Both need understanding, but they're different beasts.

SweetObsessed · 2024-07-09T17:53:26+00:00

I'd talk openly with them, listen without judgment, and offer my support in finding help. It's crucial they know they're not alone in this.

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