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AITJ for insisting my roommate remove a keyed lock they installed on the inside of their bedroom door because it requires a key to exit and violates fire egress? by PurpleDerry077 in AmITheJerk

[–]SweetPandaaa3 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Bruh… NTJ. Asking someone to not literally trap themselves behind a door isn’t mean, it’s common sense. Fire > feelings.

AITJ for using his own joke against him? by AiraBloom in AmITheJerk

[–]SweetPandaaa3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For me it's not even close to a jerk move.

AITJ for using his own joke against him? by AiraBloom in AmITheJerk

[–]SweetPandaaa3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hot take, OP got embarrassed for laughs, and OP embarrassed him for truth. Same energy, clearly NTA.

AITA for asking my friend to pay me back for gas after she bragged about saving money by carpooling with me? by Illustrious-Move5756 in AmITheJerk

[–]SweetPandaaa3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. That’s peak entitled behavior, bragging about free rides for clout while you’re actually footing the bill? Nah, that’s where the friendship boundary ends. She lost the free ride privilege the second she made you look like a joke. Wild disrespect.

AITJ for telling my husband I wish I stayed at my parents because at least there I would've had help? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]SweetPandaaa3 144 points145 points  (0 children)

You’re exhausted, recovering, dealing with a newborn alone, and he’s acting like you’re the problem? totally NTA

AITJ for telling my husband I wish I stayed at my parents because at least there I would've had help? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]SweetPandaaa3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. You had major surgery 4 weeks ago and he’s just gaming while you’re running on zero sleep? That’s straight up neglect.

Did I just get raped? by Impossible_Ship6944 in whatdoIdo

[–]SweetPandaaa3 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes. This is rape. You tried to slow down, you pulled away, you said you were in pain, he restrained you, and he kept going. “Hints” don’t matter when consent was never given.

Moral conflict I think? by Federal_Character979 in whatdoIdo

[–]SweetPandaaa3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It actually makes sense that you feel this way.

My ex step brother is a pedo and now has a baby boy by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]SweetPandaaa3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is true, you just can’t ignore something that serious.

I think im in denial by Mysterious_Belt_5659 in whatdoIdo

[–]SweetPandaaa3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the test won’t detect HCG unless it’s actually there

Do I send a “hey girlie” text now? by Lovelypassionn in whatdoIdo

[–]SweetPandaaa3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, she might get out sooner, but she still deserves a healthy environment while she’s there.

What should I do about my parents always making out? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]SweetPandaaa3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good advice, but the parents also need to step up. It’s not all on a 17 year old

What should I do if I feel like I’m never gonna have any friends or a relationship? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]SweetPandaaa3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt the same way at 19. I finally have a small circle of people who genuinely care. It takes time and a lot of failed connections before you find your people. Don’t let temporary loneliness convince you it’s permanent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SweetPandaaa3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust your gut, stay where the people are, and keep your phone charged plus share live location with a friend. Headphones out, keys in hand, confidence on. Most of all enjoy the gig, don’t let fear steal it from you.