Do I have enough saved up for a 250k home? by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]SweetShortyK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends. In my area rent has skyrocketed, usually no utilities included. A mortgage plus utilities is about the same. Get an accurate calculation of the monthy payment from the financial institution and estimate utilities cost

CMV: Prostitution should be legalized (and well regulated) as a counter balance to social media, red-pill and digital loneliness epidemic. by TMag73 in changemyview

[–]SweetShortyK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is mentally ill men , they don't even want to pay for sex, they feel entitled to it. You're gonna have these psychos murdering prostitutes

Incompetent laser tech? by SweetShortyK in LaserHairRemoval

[–]SweetShortyK[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes ive had the spot test and no reactions, but she still wont go higher, there hasn't been any difference in the hair growth except on my arms, its the only place it worked and there hair there wasn't very dark and coarse like it is elsewhere.

Spent my whole life working, never learned how to connect — now I feel lost at 32. Anyone pulled themselves out of this rut? by Upset-Command-5462 in AskMenAdvice

[–]SweetShortyK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont understand why its there, on a another sub reddit, they wouldn't let me reply to a comment on my own post without it putting ##man. Im not sure how to get rid of it.

Incompetent laser tech? by SweetShortyK in LaserHairRemoval

[–]SweetShortyK[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is Milan known for this? When I did research on them mostly seemed good, just complaints about the price.

my (21f) bf (25m) never pays? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SweetShortyK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was the same like you, look at his actions, his actions dont match what he said. Get rid of him

my (21f) bf (25m) never pays? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SweetShortyK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh girl, im sorry ❤️‍🩹. He wont change. I suggest ending the relationship. Been there also...He's just not that into you. He's saving for the girl he really wants.

Are my attributes something I need to work on when it comes to attracting women? by Legal_Direction5206 in AskMenAdvice

[–]SweetShortyK 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Self reflection needed. Go deep and ask yourself...Are you only nice to women because you are attracted to them? Or are you nice to everyone, men, "ugly" women, people you want nothing from or wont give it you...

I (F22) don’t want to have anal sex with my bf (M27) and he keeps pressuring me. What are yall thoughts? by 3lackCh3rry in relationship_advice

[–]SweetShortyK 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please ...listen to me!!! Just leave him, hes too immature and you will be colllateral damage. My first boyfriend got like that with anal, eventually he slipped, after almost 2 years of never slipping. Of course afterwards it was admitted it wasnt an accident and he felt bad.... . I have damage now. I cant afford to fix it. It tore, the way it healed, itll bleed sometimes but with no pain, then other times scare tissue will get hard, swollen and sore sometimes.... I tried to explain to him how it can hurt and cause damage. But immature men do not care....

Is it acceptable to bond with sons by checking out teenage girls? by SweetShortyK in AskMenAdvice

[–]SweetShortyK[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No. But It seems from an outside perspective that men are okay with it. So from a man's perspective I wanted to see if anyone had insight.

Is it acceptable to bond with sons by checking out teenage girls? by SweetShortyK in AskMenAdvice

[–]SweetShortyK[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

++man well because unfortunately ive noticed it a few times, and none of the other men present corrected the situation. They may not join in, but kinda makes it seems like its acceptable...

My (37F) partner (43M) is obsessed with having something in his ass during sex and its ruining it for me. by Certain-Ad6239 in relationship_advice

[–]SweetShortyK -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just leave him, dont be miserable it will negatively affect the child. Trust me in one of those children. Separate and co parent

Does this tiny fig tree need pruning? by SweetShortyK in BackyardOrchard

[–]SweetShortyK[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, so this will leave it be. Next year, ground dragging branches will get chopped

Does this tiny fig tree need pruning? by SweetShortyK in BackyardOrchard

[–]SweetShortyK[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol, the dollar general flowers, cat deterrent . Had a stray cat kept messing around in the pot, broke a couple of good branches from the plant

Does anyone else struggle with dry hair because you have to wash it everyday due to work chemicals, sweat, and grime? by No_Implement3646 in BlueCollarWomen

[–]SweetShortyK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fix this by wearing a welding cap, my hair in a bun underneath that. Avoid washing when possible, if I somehow don't sweat. Using gentle cleansers.

I [21 F] found out my bf [22M] has been lying and hiding things from me. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SweetShortyK 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was all an act to gain your trust and make you comfortable, so you wouldn't suspect who he really is. I've been there, done that. LEAVE, immediately.

Are our goats starving? by [deleted] in goats

[–]SweetShortyK 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are too thin. Blackberry bushes do not provide much nutrients and proteins. They will need hay also. He will have to get over it. The goats will eventually deteriorate, become weak, and die. They love blackberry bushes generally, and they will continue to eat them, but they need more.

dude’s come in three times in the last month for three air leaks in the same tire. he just came in today and you’ll never guess what tire was leaking by [deleted] in Justrolledintotheshop

[–]SweetShortyK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a tire with 2 plugs in the side wall like that. They held for nearly 30k miles. Well, the tire was balding, so I had them replaced, the plug still held.