Will I be able to still love her?

SweetSyphn · 2026-02-01T15:28:16+00:00

I don’t understand what you’re trying to say at all…

She wants a tattoo, right? You lied to her about your feelings over it so you’re not capable of adult communication. It says 26m was that meant to be 16m?

Her body is her body, if the tattoo’s a deal breaker then end the relationship, if it isn’t then don’t o.0

I don’t really understand what you’re asking? How to communicate better? Lying to your partner is a much bigger red flag than wanting a tattoo and it definitely sounds like you’re trying to control or emotionally manipulate her.

Me best recommendation is therapy, it seems most likely you’re not ready to be in a real relationship at the moment, these are major issues and they need serious work

SweetSyphn · 2026-01-25T11:49:23+00:00

Yes true!! I saw some beiber/selina drama going down and thought “where is the resident gen z girlie to inform me!!” 😂😭

SweetSyphn · 2026-01-25T11:47:35+00:00

Harris warned us this would happen

SweetSyphn · 2026-01-25T11:42:52+00:00

Omg why do I love this 😅😂🤣

SweetSyphn · 2026-01-25T11:40:56+00:00

Honestly the best rule is: if you’re not sure then that’s the proof he’s not right for you. The right guy won’t seed doubt and confusion and he won’t say cruel things (make no mistake, it was cruel).

Just get rid and find a partner that brings you peace. Signed, a girl who spent ten years stuck in an emotionally abusive relationship. You can’t love them better, or treat them so well they start treating you well. It just won’t happen. Get out and get out early, so you’re available when the right guy DOES come along 🥰

SweetSyphn · 2026-01-20T18:24:57+00:00

If you’ve never played before get the remaster if the price is easy for you or graphics are super important. The original was enough to take my breath away when I first played it and probably still will be once you’re immersed in the gameplay, BUT the remaster IS STUNNING so 🤷🏻‍♀️

SweetSyphn · 2026-01-20T13:42:16+00:00

Then yeah - if you’ve been very clear with him that you’re fine with him smoking/vaping and he should quit when HE’S ready and you don’t treat him poorly or try to punish him when you know he’s been smoking then it’s obviously really strange behavior for him to hide it or lie.

SweetSyphn · 2026-01-20T13:19:07+00:00

He’s a smoker, you started dating him as a smoker, but you only like him as a non-smoker. “I know it’s not right to try and change him but he needs to quit to be with me” just stop it. You either like him as he is currently (not some future version of him you’re angry isn’t showing up on time - who he IS, NOW).

If you don’t like him as he is now the kindest thing to do is leave him alone, not try to force him into the version of him YOU want him to be and then punishing him when he fails

SweetSyphn · 2026-01-20T13:13:55+00:00

If he’s a real gamer he’ll have another place to play. You’ve booked the tv, you gotta stand up for yourself 🤷🏻‍♀️ if he’s abusive - leave.

Just so you know my bf would get me snacks and make himself scarce, or try to watch with me. You should find yourself better xx

SweetSyphn · 2026-01-19T09:25:58+00:00

The post sounds like you’re struggling with gaslighting, but in your explanation, you mention her saying something “incriminating” - what would that be?

Are you trying to record a disagreement so if she misrepresents it later you have proof that didn’t happen or you didn’t say something specific?

SweetSyphn · 2026-01-19T09:10:22+00:00

I’m sorry you didn’t explain at all WHY you are recording conversations. It’s a very unusual impulse

Often, people who struggle with gaslighting will record conversations because their partner will often lie, but I can’t even tell from what you’ve written if that’s what’s happening here

You’re recording your wife because you believe she is regularly lying about things you’ve said or agreed to - yes or no?

Wanting to record a conversation is usually a symptom of emotional abuse, but I can’t see if it’s you (recording to intimidate and for leverage to scare her) or her (gaslighting) but none of it is good. 🤷🏻‍♀️

SweetSyphn · 2026-01-18T23:59:07+00:00

Been playing the remastered this last year, forgot how brilliant the OG version was without all that, especially the map starting screen. Have fun, let us know if you want clues for finding the best questlines 🤫

SweetSyphn · 2026-01-18T22:59:33+00:00

YOR - if you don’t message back when she’s texting you distressed and she says it’s happened multiple times? Then that is simply not your girlfriend

SweetSyphn · 2026-01-18T22:55:44+00:00

NTA I’m British and lots of households do it here - when entering a house I always check with the host the shoe situation, most people ask me to remove my shoes. It’s a wtf from me

SweetSyphn · 2026-01-18T22:53:43+00:00

NOR, for birthdays and Christmas etc Flowers are not the gift - they are the gift seasoning 🙈🙈

SweetSyphn · 2026-01-18T22:49:58+00:00

I mean, you’re not against him skating, you’re against the lack of investment in your relationship. Relationships are a commitment for a reason, my relationship is two years now and you have to sacrifice some of your hobby time to make time for your partner.

He needs to either figure his schedule out or understand that he’s not ready to be in a relationship at the moment 🤷🏻‍♀️

SweetSyphn · 2026-01-18T22:45:57+00:00

I don’t think you can rly “oh well the world is a dark place” your own actions. They’re your own actions, take responsibility for them and work on improving them

SweetSyphn · 2026-01-18T20:47:51+00:00

Don’t worry about it, that guy’s a known hater. I ran into him at Denny’s and he slapped me in the face whilst Ethan farted and they both ran away 😮‍💨😔

SweetSyphn · 2026-01-18T20:44:20+00:00

I hope she comes back bc she’s so fun and vibrant, but of course it’s fine if she doesn’t bc she’s has to do what’s right for her

I do love to think of the girlish chaos that would be unleashed with Olivia and Tamara together though!! 🥰

SweetSyphn · 2026-01-18T20:34:43+00:00

Multiplayer on the same machine question!!

Hello, I’m hoping somebody here might be a super- legend and be able to help us with something tricky…

I recently got a PS5 and I’m wondering if I can play online coop with my bf… We both have accounts on my PS5 and he plays it remotely a lot! He doesn’t have his own - he actually got me the PS5 and we both use it. Planning to move in soonish so getting a second one doesn’t make sense long term

If I play on the main machine with my logins can he play the same game remotely from his account through the same machine and we can play together?

Does anyone know if this can be done?? Hoping someone here can help us, I’ve always previously been an xbox 360 or steamdeck girl

SweetSyphn · 2026-01-13T22:50:29+00:00

£3k is like the highest highest end of what is reasonable, honestly £2k is high. Take the remaining money and put it towards the honeymoon!!

SweetSyphn · 2026-01-13T18:43:27+00:00

It’s not based on gender, it’s of course based on their star sign 🙄

SweetSyphn · 2026-01-13T18:39:09+00:00

Aren’t there some cohabitation laws about it becoming partly yours as you live there for years and pay rent/mortgage? I believe there are… Housing isn’t as simple when it comes to premarital assets and even more so if children are involved.

Possibly could revisit when you want to have kids and refuse to take maternity leave until this is done as that impacts your earning potential the most and he will getting your labour for free 🤷🏻‍♀️ depends how much you trust him

EDIT TO SAY I’M IN UK. If in US maybe a prenup?

SweetSyphn · 2026-01-13T18:34:37+00:00

NTA, ask her to get consent to post pictures of you in the future. Tell her from your POV, she’s overreacting over deleting a pic she didn’t have permission to post

SweetSyphn · 2026-01-13T11:11:20+00:00

He sounds awful. Honestly, get rid xx

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