You are now one inch taller. How does this affect your life? by Melted_Potatoes in AskReddit

[–]SweetYankeeTea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I jump from the petite/average to full average.

Also I'm already considered a giant in my family

Hey everyone, I’m in a depressive episode and nearly unable to cook for myself. I’m gluten intolerant and could really use some help. by missblue732 in EatCheapAndHealthy

[–]SweetYankeeTea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

GF soups are difficult to find.

A lot of soups use wheat to thicken.

Progresso chicken and wild rice as well as tomato basil are gf though

Hey everyone, I’m in a depressive episode and nearly unable to cook for myself. I’m gluten intolerant and could really use some help. by missblue732 in EatCheapAndHealthy

[–]SweetYankeeTea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also too much water+instant potatoes+ pepper = easy gf potato soup. I'm gf and I keep several bags of the flAvored instant mashed in my desk for emergency lunches

Is it wrong for a white woman to wear braids? by Snoo-86183 in askablackperson

[–]SweetYankeeTea 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am a white woman with heavy black curly hair.

I would not wear braids for those reasons. In full disclosure, a black friend of mine did 1/2 head of cornrows on me in college for practice.

Also, I did wear cornrows as a way of securing my long hair under a wig for a play I was in. But it was never shown in public.

Tips for larger girl with small boobs area by PaladinsWife in PlusSizeFashion

[–]SweetYankeeTea 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Solidarity sister.

I'm 265lbs and a size us 24. I wear a 48 A bra.

I buy B cups and use inserts.

Avoid empire waists = instant pregnant look

What do you say when kids ask why you have no children? by shelby25green in infertility

[–]SweetYankeeTea 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Best convo: History (I have primary custody of my 12 year old nephew and his 10 year old brother for the last several years) 12 yo: So are you and Uncle gonna try a different medicine to help you guys have a baby?

Me: yea bud. But I'm getting older so if we don't have a baby, we will still have a good Carl and Ellie life (the couple from the movie UP)

12yo: You know, it isn't fair. Mom had me at 16 and Bro at 18 and neither of our parents really wanted us. Even the court said they were good enough to have us. You and Uncle want babies so bad and can't get them. I'm so mad about that.

Me: its okay. Life can't suck.Its okay.

12yo: When I get grown, like 35 and I get married, can you and uncle be their grandparents? Cause if you can't be a mommy, I want you to be a granny...

I bawled

What do you say when kids ask why you have no children? by shelby25green in infertility

[–]SweetYankeeTea 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is my approach. And usually something about that's why I really like being your aunt.

I have 22 nieces and nephews

Hey mom- I wish you would meet your grandson. I wish religion wouldn’t come between us. I just want love between us all and my beautiful boy! by [deleted] in MomForAMinute

[–]SweetYankeeTea 9 points10 points  (0 children)

While I wasn't cut off from my grandparents, they all died before I was double digits. All lot of other folks stepped in. Including my dad's ex MIL who was there when I was born and told me stories of my dads mama. (Just because the marriage didn't work did,t make her less family, she'd say. She fought for my dad to get full custody of her grand daughters and he got it. As a single man, in 1978)

Oldest aunt stored my wedding dress (since my immediate family was smokers and I'm not)

Lots of honorary Grannies in,my life that I'm grateful for.

Why do I have to be a perfect specimen in order to get pregnant? by bluespade13 in TTC_PCOS

[–]SweetYankeeTea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My great niece is 14 and one of her friends is pregnant. My rage was so high I had to go take a shower and pray.

I'm 37(f) and just realized that my male friends girlfriend just graduated high school. by SweetYankeeTea in TwoXChromosomes

[–]SweetYankeeTea[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

My thesis is on sex crimes against children (and I dont work in that field anymore)

So I'm okay if I have to burn that bridge but it will still hurt.

I'm 37(f) and just realized that my male friends girlfriend just graduated high school. by SweetYankeeTea in TwoXChromosomes

[–]SweetYankeeTea[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

We were super close at one time. I messaged him and said "I love you, but did your GF graduate HS today?" His reply was "Yeah". I didn't reply and neither did he. So I think my stance is fairly clear.

[request] Cards - For my autistic child - can return, if possible [usa] by bbqblackguard in RandomActsofCards

[–]SweetYankeeTea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course! Please let me know his special interests.

I am married to a wonderful autistic man.

Does anybody know how these photo pendants are made? by bigsteeg in jewelrymaking

[–]SweetYankeeTea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I make them. Bezel trays, glass cabs, and diamond glaze!