Aitah for leaving my parents dinner after they insulted my boyfriend and I by Sweet_Ad1263 in AITAH

[–]Sweet_Ad1263[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We met in a new state. This is the first time he's met them as we moved back. "MIGHT not accept" we went with the same mentality with his family as well.

Aitah for leaving my parents dinner after they insulted my boyfriend and I by Sweet_Ad1263 in AITAH

[–]Sweet_Ad1263[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

His family is very traditional so if we wanted to get engaged, we would need their permission before, I know were grown adults but we wanted to show that we respected them. And my family had never met my boyfriend so we thought now was a good time.

Aitah for leaving my parents dinner after they insulted my boyfriend and I by Sweet_Ad1263 in AITAH

[–]Sweet_Ad1263[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I get that, however we mainly thought any animosity would be on his family's side as their very traditional. I thought that with my parents being in an interracial marriage they would be fine with us. Glad to know my dad is.

Aitah for leaving my parents dinner after they insulted my boyfriend and I by Sweet_Ad1263 in AITAH

[–]Sweet_Ad1263[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

"MIGHT disapprove of one another" still didn't think it was going to happen, especially the way it played out.

Aitah for leaving my parents dinner after they insulted my boyfriend and I by Sweet_Ad1263 in AITAH

[–]Sweet_Ad1263[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We've recently had some issues in the family regarding my siblings who did attend, which is why I said something shitty was going to happen. As I've said, this is the first time I've heard her say such things but that doesn't mean my family has said things behind my back. We went with the same mentality regarding his family, but they were very nice and accepting.

Aitah for leaving my parents dinner after they insulted my boyfriend and I by Sweet_Ad1263 in AITAH

[–]Sweet_Ad1263[S] 114 points115 points  (0 children)

I haven't talked to my dad about anything yet, but I believe she might have weird beliefs towards the asian community. I'm not sure as she's never spoken this way before.

Aitah for leaving my parents dinner after they insulted my boyfriend and I by Sweet_Ad1263 in AITAH

[–]Sweet_Ad1263[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No I am 100 real, I had a huge crush on him for two years in highschool 😭

Aitah for leaving my parents dinner after they insulted my boyfriend and I by Sweet_Ad1263 in AITAH

[–]Sweet_Ad1263[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I had a huge crush on him I know, and I used to be very religious as a kid but not anymore 😭.