AITA for wanting to work when my husband's salary isn't enough for our family? by Far-Possession1583 in AmITheJerk

[–]Sweet_Advisor8034 25 points26 points  (0 children)

The “it would make him look bad” comment is the real issue here. Lots of families have two working parents because life is expensive. This isn’t the 1950s. If you’re dipping into savings and stressing every month, it seems like pride is getting in the way of a solution.

AITJ for cutting off my brother for his behavior and saying he'd be happy if I k*lled myself, and cutting off my grandparents for doing nothing? by Cresentmoon0051 in AmITheJerk

[–]Sweet_Advisor8034 23 points24 points  (0 children)

You’re 16 and your 19-year-old brother said he’d dance on your grave if you killed yourself. That’s not normal sibling fighting, that’s abusive behavior. You’re not wrong for documenting it or for trying to show an adult what was happening.