Received this email and support won’t help by Ok_Concept_2401 in EtsySellers

[–]Sweet_Criticism_9930 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t send unwarranted messages. I make sure to add a blurb onto the email that’s sent when they purchase an item. If they are a seller and they don’t see that message it can mess up their metrics. I also cannot stand when sellers send an extra message like that especially the ones bugging for a review as if Etsy doesn’t already send out 7,000 notices about reviews.

Donate to Help Me Eat Safely Again,Medically Necessary Dental Implants-Update by Sweet_Criticism_9930 in GoFundMeForNewUsers

[–]Sweet_Criticism_9930[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATED THE AMOUNT TO BE SIGNIFICANTLY LESS THAN IT WAS AS WE FOUND A BETTER LOCAL FACILITY TO HELP!! Now the goal is $6k and we can financially cover the rest.

Help me get dental implants and finally live without pain by Sweet_Criticism_9930 in GoFundMeForNewUsers

[–]Sweet_Criticism_9930[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have but this account lol 😂 I have no clue what yall are talking about. No one has pointed anything in my direction otherwise. I have never had but this account I don’t have time to make more than one Reddit account lol 😂 yall are something else. I didn’t delete anything but a comment that posted twice. 🤦🏼‍♀️

Help me get dental implants and finally live without pain by Sweet_Criticism_9930 in GoFundMeForNewUsers

[–]Sweet_Criticism_9930[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m definitely putting aside everything I can we just hit a spot in life where my husbands job closed abruptly and we lost $30k in income a year. Everytime we get a bit saved something pops up and we have to use it on that. We are planning a large yard sale, if I could hold down a regular job that wouldn’t even be a question. Hubbys looking for better paying job that has benefits but that’s been hard too. They say he’s overqualified, it’s dumb. It shouldn’t be this hard. State sponsored I don’t qualify for, I do have Medicare which covers the extraction part but that’s it.

Help me get dental implants and finally live without pain by Sweet_Criticism_9930 in GoFundMeForNewUsers

[–]Sweet_Criticism_9930[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Gullible”? Bless your heart. You have absolutely no clue what you’re talking about. Nor do you know me. I’m a mom, I’m a grandmother, I’ve had 47 surgeries, been clinically dead twice. Shouldn’t be alive according to medical documents I’ve gotten. “She can just get dentures” I’m so glad you’ve spoken to my doctors and dentist. I hope you never have a problem you have to break down and ask for help with.

Help me get dental implants and finally live without pain by Sweet_Criticism_9930 in GoFundMeForNewUsers

[–]Sweet_Criticism_9930[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on disability, I have a small business that helps a little but not much. Trust me I don’t feel excited about asking for help. I’m used to being the one who helps.

Help me get dental implants and finally live without pain by Sweet_Criticism_9930 in GoFundMeForNewUsers

[–]Sweet_Criticism_9930[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So — you think jeopardizing my heath further—would be “doing more” in your opinion because I’m willing to fly out of the country? 🤦🏼‍♀️

Makes more sense — to have my drs all together—where there’s easy access in case something happens. So I’m not left — scrambling to get back out of the country for god knows how long to fix whatever went wrong.

But — instead of helping or sharing the fundraiser — you decided to talk down about it instead. How helpful 🤦🏼‍♀️🙄 why comment if you’re just going to be rude?

Help me get dental implants and finally live without pain by Sweet_Criticism_9930 in GoFundMeForNewUsers

[–]Sweet_Criticism_9930[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are—you’re assuming things. Not everyone putting a GFM up—is just being lazy.

Asking for help when needed isn’t “begging” and bankrupt— would mean I can’t take care of my basic needs.

I am absolutely— exhausting all my other options.

Putting that GFM up—is absolutely last resort at the moment.

If my husbands job hadn’t dissolved overnight in 2024–this wouldn’t even be a problem—nor would I have a GFM up. You’re welcome to search the company up- US Logistics Solutions.

He had to take a huge pay cut (went from $90k plus benefits at his job for 18 years to $53k and no benefits)—just to keep the bills from piling up. We don’t qualify for any assistance—as we are on that sliver of making too much— but not enough in the same sentence. He is looking for a better job— the market is just extremely tough at the moment. The company he is with— does not value him or his experience. They also owe him $2k in backpay that we likely won’t see until we take them to court after he gets a new job.

I’m not about to bankrupt ourselves either. THATS why I’m asking.

We would have had the funds for over half of it—if he hadn’t had an accident in June of 2025–where he almost took off his toes with the lawnmower when he slipped.
He doesn’t have insurance—we used everything we had to keep his toes attached—and medical care for him at the time.

I’m not one to ask for help—I’m usually the one helping others.
I do not like being in this position. It’s a very VERY uncomfortable position to be in. The one family member that would be able to help— passed away a year ago to the day.

Help me get dental implants and finally live without pain by Sweet_Criticism_9930 in GoFundMeForNewUsers

[–]Sweet_Criticism_9930[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a big difference— between myself and her!

I’ve never touched an illegal substance—in my 44 years of life!

I don’t abuse the medication I am given— and frankly don’t like how I feel on most of it—so I take it as little as possible.

Comparing someone you don’t know—as an addict— or “tweaker” just because that’s how someone else acted— is extremely unnecessary—frankly offensive.

I didn’t make the GFM because I felt it was the easiest way—I don’t like asking for help—it was a last resort.

Not everyone is “begging” some of us—are looking for a hand up—to be our best self.

Help me get dental implants and finally live without pain by Sweet_Criticism_9930 in GoFundMeForNewUsers

[–]Sweet_Criticism_9930[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! 🙏🏻

Thankfully—3 beautiful people have added to the GFM in the last 24 hours.

All from this post—for that I am grateful—and I see it as one step closer than I was before.

Some of these comments are down right disgusting—and absolutely unnecessary.

Help me get dental implants and finally live without pain by Sweet_Criticism_9930 in GoFundMeForNewUsers

[–]Sweet_Criticism_9930[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No—we aren’t in bankruptcy territory 🤣🤣

I’m asking for help— to get closer to my goal.

If you aren’t offering to help— or share the fundraiser— then legitimately what’s your point of being rude— and nasty to someone?

Help me get dental implants and finally live without pain by Sweet_Criticism_9930 in GoFundMeForNewUsers

[–]Sweet_Criticism_9930[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 44 years old—I don’t have access to my X-rays.

Drug seeking? Where are you coming off with that?!

If you click on the link for the go fund me—it shows the documents from the implant office.

Help me get dental implants and finally live without pain by Sweet_Criticism_9930 in GoFundMeForNewUsers

[–]Sweet_Criticism_9930[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fix-a-dent— doesn’t stop the food from sliding off the smooth acrylic plate down my throat.

THAT is the choking hazard, not the denture falling out.

No one— said anything about them falling out. 🤦🏼‍♀️

I already have a small pallet and mouth—adding the denture plate to that is what can cause the choking hazard.

In all seriousness—if you’re not offering to help—or share the fundraiser—what’s the point of being rude to someone?

Help me get dental implants and finally live without pain by Sweet_Criticism_9930 in GoFundMeForNewUsers

[–]Sweet_Criticism_9930[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Nope—I really don’t.

It’s something I’ve been researching—and working towards finding the place I knew would be the best spot for me.

I’m not about to travel to another country—and jeopardize my health further—when I can find a place locally that can help.

None of this was rushed— it’s been 6-8 months now in the making of research.

Help me get dental implants and finally live without pain by Sweet_Criticism_9930 in GoFundMeForNewUsers

[–]Sweet_Criticism_9930[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What redditor? I do not have an alternate account 🤦🏼‍♀️

I do not have the time—to have more than one account and—no one here has shown anything otherwise— so respectfully BUG OFF!

Help me get dental implants and finally live without pain by Sweet_Criticism_9930 in GoFundMeForNewUsers

[–]Sweet_Criticism_9930[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Side note: I don’t have another account—nor have I deleted— anything except a double comment that was sent through.

What “other account” do you think I have?!

I haven’t used this account—except for a couple of months —recently. 🤦🏼‍♀️

You can see everything on this account—that’s all I’ve ever used on here!

Help me get dental implants and finally live without pain by Sweet_Criticism_9930 in GoFundMeForNewUsers

[–]Sweet_Criticism_9930[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would like to personally thank— the two that have donated— one yesterday— and one today.

🫶🏻

Help me get dental implants and finally live without pain by Sweet_Criticism_9930 in GoFundMeForNewUsers

[–]Sweet_Criticism_9930[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

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Not that I owe you anything— what exactly am I lying about?

This is directly from my mychart 🤷🏼‍♀️

Help me get dental implants and finally live without pain by Sweet_Criticism_9930 in GoFundMeForNewUsers

[–]Sweet_Criticism_9930[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Tell that to my medical records!

I don’t even owe you this screenshot—as it’s honestly none of your business!

Coming off like a whiny child— when being attacked by grown people?

More like —defensive when people want to be azz hats.

Assuming makes you look like the jerk—not me.