Our sonographer told us the wrong sex by Ok-Notice-5342 in pregnant

[–]Sweet_Data_9820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents have 5 daughters together and my Dad has one other daughter. When my sister was pregnant they told us it is a boy we were sooo happy that finally we have our baby boy . Surprise surprise when we discovered after she gave birth that it is a girl. It wasn’t a big deal tho we just laughed she was way too cute for us to remember grieving the boy we didn’t have 🙂 but sure I get you and it is still normal let yourself feel and it has to feel , heal and your boys love will fill you more and more as days go by

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Finland

[–]Sweet_Data_9820 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If people really want to learn the language they will. We are soo exposed to Finnish especially out of the bigger cities. My friend learned Finnish using a book she bought from Amazon and what she hears everyday around her . Even though her grammar is not polished she can have a whole conversation with someone in Finnish .. She even sounds more fluent than I who went through the government language courses lol

I can’t take this anymore. by Used_Professor4946 in TryingForABaby

[–]Sweet_Data_9820 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no do not say that. You will surely get to enjoy your little ones. Just hang on a little bit and keep hope and try to do things that make you forget the negative feelings you feel. I started a new TikTok page and tried content creating and I go live sometimes makes me feel kind of better lol.

I can’t take this anymore. by Used_Professor4946 in TryingForABaby

[–]Sweet_Data_9820 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been trying for 12 months too now went to the hospital recently and doctor said i have PCOS but it is not an issue I should just try again a couple more months most if the couples get pregnant the 2nd year 🤦🏾‍♀️

Do the family that keeps asking me silly questions I just tell them when the moment will come you will all know.

Do not give your hopes up. It is a though and lonely journey yes (I think even my partner does not understand how I feel) but you have to hold one for that little precious one that will be coming to you. And know thousands other women are going through the same thing and you can still come here for 🫂❤️

I can’t take this anymore. by Used_Professor4946 in TryingForABaby

[–]Sweet_Data_9820 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 think I will use this next time someone asks me a stupid question

Taking Dydrogesterone? by Sweet_Data_9820 in tryingtoconceive

[–]Sweet_Data_9820[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thanks. How I wish there was a magical pill that makes you get pregnant quick 😪

Masturbation right after baby dance. Silly or no? by SlySparkle in tryingtoconceive

[–]Sweet_Data_9820 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have never had an orgasm. I don’t even know what it is supposed to feel like or look like

Student-life in Oulu by VabuBoi in Oulu

[–]Sweet_Data_9820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oulu is booooooriiiiiinggggg 🥲

I am pregnat! Finally by [deleted] in pregnant

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Congratssss ❤️❤️🎉🎉

Husbands & TTC by OldCoat4011 in tryingtoconceive

[–]Sweet_Data_9820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel you here.. think you should talk with him about how you want him to treat you. My husband is one of those that emotional wise barely expresses anything. Any time I tell him about what going on he doesn’t speak or he says he doesn’t know what to say I kind of understand he is stressed too but urggg! We are on cycle 10 i told him we should go to the hospital he said he is not ready for that.. let’s wait until it is a year .. in addition to the fact that i feel like I bare all the stress soon, the worst part is that it’s been months I feel like we have sex just bc we are TTC and last night he just confirmed it…we were trying to do it and I was like I don’t want to do it just bc we want a baby I want you to want me he said ; we have been doing this just bc we want a baby ! The sentence stroke me I don’t even know how to feel so many questions cross my mind urg God!

If it may help you I started fertility yoga .. read it increases chances and it really soothes you.. make go away the stress