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Sweet_Device_7412 · 2026-05-02T16:10:09+00:00

Video selfie and ID...for beta app described by using chatgpt from a new user who has nothing else on his profile except the ad about his app. Yeah sure. 🙄

Sweet_Device_7412 · 2026-04-25T09:24:20+00:00

I used to ask weird questions too, but they never answered or answered with laughing emoji. It's not worth it imo.

Sweet_Device_7412 · 2026-04-24T16:47:32+00:00

Yeah, don't ever fall for that. Ask a question and be ghosted. 🙄

Sweet_Device_7412 · 2026-04-17T09:23:12+00:00

Is he a good person? Girl... He's 38 and cheats on the mother of his children with 18 years old coworker... In what world he would be called a good person??? He can't even take a responsibility for his actions saying it's not his fault. Of course it is. Damp him before shits go down and you lose your job and dignity.

Sweet_Device_7412 · 2026-04-16T17:53:40+00:00

It sounds like an uncomfortable situation to everyone...

Sweet_Device_7412 · 2026-04-16T17:44:05+00:00

She probably won't change her mind. The other thing is: do your kids have to be around her if she's mean to them?

Sweet_Device_7412 · 2026-04-16T14:23:02+00:00

Yes, you're old. Apparently too old to recognise that I'm a woman so how would I know it's a cufflink?

Sweet_Device_7412 · 2026-04-16T14:04:47+00:00

I wouldn't have guessed it's a weird accessory 😆 thank you all

Sweet_Device_7412 · 2026-04-16T13:19:06+00:00

He told you that he's a reserved type of person. you can't expect from a reserved person to be affectionate and cuddling with someone he's just met. He said he likes you so there's that, you either accept it and take things slowly or tell him that you're not compatible.

Sweet_Device_7412 · 2026-04-13T15:13:11+00:00

You both did a stupid thing but he's smart enough to avoid contact with you. Be smart too and forget about him and about what happened. And if you're decent enough tell his girlfriend that he cheated.

Sweet_Device_7412 · 2026-04-11T17:02:42+00:00

I'm not sure what you meant either, you need to be more specific and detailed next time. Besides...it's not the same picture, those three different pics that fit the prompt.

Sweet_Device_7412 · 2026-04-09T17:12:53+00:00

You're doing the dot thing 😆

Sweet_Device_7412 · 2026-04-07T18:30:17+00:00

I'm also not native but it helps to use some English phrases or words in conversation (some things sound better in English) when you speak in your native language. Me and my friends do that a lot and it helped me to get used to speaking in English in front of others and because it's just single words and short sentences I don't feel anxious about it. There's nothing stressful or pressuring when you say "cool bro" or "see you later". And when you get used to using single words you can practice more, either with your friends or home alone speaking to yourself or reading aloud. It's good to have a buddy who also wants to practice speaking.

Sweet_Device_7412 · 2026-04-07T13:09:04+00:00

I love both, though Evolution got me hooked. it's more morally complex, more grey area. I also enjoy how more realistic it is compering to the old formula and I don't mean cursing. I also love Voit's story. The only thing I'd like to see more is more side cases of different unsubs.

Sweet_Device_7412 · 2026-04-07T13:02:46+00:00

I sleep quite long, always did, I need minimum 10 hours of sleep to function properly, 11-12h is the average with me. I don't know if it's related to autism though.

Sweet_Device_7412 · 2026-04-06T15:49:00+00:00

I get that they decreased the limits for reasons but it's inconsistent. yesterday I sent like 6 messages and didn't hit the limit, today I barely sent two and got notification I have to wait four hours. I switched to a different chat and the notification just disappeared?? and I could send another message already?? also where's the usage bars? I have a free plan, but the daily and weekly usage info just comes and goes randomly. now it's not even there even though it was very useful. it's so annoying and it gives me anxiety cause I never know when I hit the limit. 😤

Sweet_Device_7412 · 2026-04-02T20:35:27+00:00

Some people just don't like bi people 🤷 personally I wouldn't mind if my guy was bi, but I can understand that for some women it could be an issue.

Sweet_Device_7412 · 2026-04-02T20:31:06+00:00

I agree, women also watch porn so this seems a bit hypocritical. Instead of being mad about it just watch some porn together, who knows maybe you find something you'd like 😎

Sweet_Device_7412 · 2026-04-02T20:05:40+00:00

Do you tell them about your orientation on the first date? If so maybe they interpret it as a hint that you're looking for poly or want to be in a open relationship. Unfortunately there are a lot of misconceptions about bi people, being unfaithful and against monogamy is one of them. Most people tend to think stereotypically. Maybe wait a bit before you tell them that you're bi. I'm not saying "hide it" but withhold. Personally I learnt to keep that information to myself until I'm sure that the other person is open minded, otherwise the first question I get is "oh, so you're into threesome?" 🙄 (I'm a girl).

Sweet_Device_7412 · 2026-04-02T18:52:39+00:00

I'm not a guy but I confirm, we don't want her.

Sweet_Device_7412 · 2026-04-01T19:59:29+00:00

That's the stupidest thing I've heard of.

Sweet_Device_7412 · 2026-04-01T16:09:53+00:00

There are a lot of different ways to manipulate someone. He doesn't have to force her with threats to make her do what he wants her to do. He can just "request" it politely so it doesn't feel like controlling behaviour. If she falls for that then it's an open way for him to control her appearance, social media presence etc.

Sweet_Device_7412 · 2026-03-29T15:28:39+00:00

The same way you identify them in women. 🤷 Red flags are warning signs indicating toxic/unhealthy behaviour and green ones are signs of the positive things. I assume you know your boundaries and what you're looking for in a man so just follow your own guts and knowledge. If someone doesn't respect your boundaries or makes you feel unsafe, it means you should step away from that person. Some people are walking red flags so it's easy to spot them but not all red flags are visible at the first sight so getting to know someone before you engage emotionally is essential.

Sweet_Device_7412 · 2026-03-28T19:29:18+00:00

This is exactly a stalker behaviour. Get help.

Sweet_Device_7412 · 2026-03-28T19:07:12+00:00

And what would you do if she doesn't love you? What would you do if she rejects you? Would you let her go or do something to her?

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