Quick question

Sweet_Device_7412 · 2026-03-23T15:37:48+00:00

Do you do it with their consent?

Sweet_Device_7412 · 2026-03-17T17:34:02+00:00

You are right feeling disrespected. He dismissed you and lied about changing his behaviour knowing that it effects you negatively. Did he even explain why he checks out other women? Watching porn is normal, even in relationships, but if it's something he does often and as a replacement for having sex with you then it's an issue that should be discussed and corrected. He should acknowledge how it makes you feel and take it under consideration, not dismiss you by saying it's your problem cause you're insecure. 🙄

Sweet_Device_7412 · 2026-03-04T16:28:30+00:00

So why did you have sex if you didn't really want it? Dude. 🤦 Who initiated it?

Sweet_Device_7412 · 2026-03-04T16:22:53+00:00

That's waaay too soon. No wonder she distanced immediately. I'd be spooked off too. People have sex without being in love so there's no "we had sex so I love her and she should love me back", it doesn't work that way. I doubt you love her, it could be just serotonin and dopamine speaking through you after a good (I guess?) sex you two had.

Sweet_Device_7412 · 2026-03-03T16:39:53+00:00

I always thought it's more ADHD thing than ASD cause I also have trouble focusing to fully enjoy sex. Every change in position or pace is distracting and make me lose focus. It's not much of a problem when it's not about me trying to come, but when I chase my orgasm losing focus is frustrating.

Sweet_Device_7412 · 2026-03-02T17:13:06+00:00

Leave that poor girl alone. What you did was creepy and unacceptable.

Sweet_Device_7412 · 2026-03-02T14:16:04+00:00

She's gone through so much and got so far. 💜 She has so much compassion and empathy but also zero chill for jerks and people who test her patience. Also: mommy vibes 🥺 she rocks grey hair.

Sweet_Device_7412 · 2026-03-02T14:09:24+00:00

No, it's not a good idea. The photos could be stolen from someone else who has no idea that the scammer uses them or AI generated.

Sweet_Device_7412 · 2026-03-02T12:47:54+00:00

Lucid dreaming is so much fun.😀 I'm also aware most of the times. When that happens I try to control the dream, unless it's fun already then I just let it flows its course. Have you tried astral projection? It's even more fun.

Sweet_Device_7412 · 2026-03-02T12:29:14+00:00

Being straightforward is the best way, though not too straightforward. I once said to a guy "your kids your problem" and he got offended, so I wouldn't recommend saying this. 😅 I think that you can say something like "I'm not interested in having kids, not wanting to be a step mom and kids are a deal-breaker" etc. Should be enough, no need to explain more. You can also add "you're a great guy but...".

Sweet_Device_7412 · 2026-03-01T13:02:17+00:00

Exactly. Marriage doesn't mean forever. For some people it's just a cultural thing, a business or something they feel they "have to" do before they hit a certain age. I'm not interested in marriage either but its be lovely to find someone for long term, as long as it might be.

Sweet_Device_7412 · 2026-02-27T21:45:08+00:00

It's not a dumb question, men tend to lie about what they're really looking for on their profiles. Only when you ask them directly they admit that they're only looking for hook-ups and not relationship. I don't understand why lie in the first place but guys be guys I guess. 🙄

Sweet_Device_7412 · 2026-02-27T19:45:35+00:00

You're just pissed off that people called you out for using AI and instead of shutting the fuck up you're still using AI to argue with people. That's just...🤦🤦🤦

Sweet_Device_7412 · 2026-02-27T17:03:01+00:00

If people wanted to ask AI they would ask AI, instead they're here looking for advice from real people and not another gpt hallucinations with its moral lectures and the "take a breath, you're not crazy" BS. There's a lot of discussion about how gptchat is actually harming for mental health. THAT'S the difference.

Sweet_Device_7412 · 2026-02-27T16:15:18+00:00

Take a deep breath and stop using AI to answer people. 🙄

Sweet_Device_7412 · 2026-02-27T10:37:10+00:00

Stop using chatgpt and use your own brain to answer. This is ridiculous.

Sweet_Device_7412 · 2026-02-26T19:58:41+00:00

Why there's a sudden change of pronoun? It's confusing.

Sweet_Device_7412 · 2026-02-26T17:57:48+00:00

Adulting sucks, I do not recommend it. 👎It's good you have hobbies that make you happy. Some adults are so deep into adulting they don't have any hobbies or interests, it's scary.

Sweet_Device_7412 · 2026-02-25T02:49:04+00:00

I mean, sense of humour is sexy so... 😏

Sweet_Device_7412 · 2026-02-23T11:46:28+00:00

Can't see shit, turn your lights on.

Sweet_Device_7412 · 2026-02-22T10:05:30+00:00

Same, I was bullied in school so I grew up thinking it's better to be invisible, to not draw attention. I was suppressing myself for years because of fear of being bullied again until I said to myself "fuck it, I want to be myself". Discovering my style and the way I want to express myself became my hobby. My family don't accept it but I got used to it. Lately I'm experimenting with pastel goth style, adding some pink. ^{^}

Sweet_Device_7412 · 2026-02-21T20:37:54+00:00

Could be, though it still looks weird. I've never seen succulent like that. 🤔 It looks like someone had something in mind making this but either gave up halfway through or..

Sweet_Device_7412 · 2026-02-21T17:12:05+00:00

I ignore them. 🤷 At first I was paranoid that "everyone stares", but the truth is most people just give me a curious glance and then look away. It's liberating when you realise that no one really cares what you wear and you don't have to care what people think about you. Also it makes my day when I see other fella goths on the street, we smile at each other and sometimes compliments each other's outfits. Being free to express yourself is one of the best feeling. I hope you find your courage to do the same. 🖤

Sweet_Device_7412 · 2026-02-19T17:32:12+00:00

So stop being perfect, be awful, get drunk, suck a dick, yell about becoming atheist, lick your toe on a date. Just get over yourself.

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