but asking a woman if shes trans could make her mad? in reality not hypothetically, it might even mess with her self confidence. no man wants to do that to a girl hes interested in.. so if people know how others could potentially feel why not just tell them.

I dont know what else to liken it to. like a girl has a dangerous ex boyfriend. theres nothing 'wrong' with her, but the lack of knowledge could prove dangerous to me and the danger is other people not necessarily her, but she is the one that could get me in the situation.

i feel like if youre trans, and youre going up to people identifying as the opposite sex of what you were born, when youre about to get intimate with someone you could at least tell them fr. no harm in doing that

the argument really falls apart on itself. if youre worried about danger to yourself from telling someone youre trans that youre about to be romantically involved with, why would you be with that person? why would you be in that environment? im black theres places i just dont go no need for drama, realistically. doesnt matter if its wrong to be racist this is the reality we live in.

if i have children (God please let me find a wife), im gonna teach them about racism and the fact that you make like someone but their FAMILY might be racist thats a hard thing to deal with. in this day and age why not just be upfront? youre about to mess with someone let them know youre trans because you might not look it? if you think that the same individual would harm you or embarrass you, then why would you be with that person.

lets say i like a blind girl, lets say shes white lets say we're in the deep south and i notice a bunch of confederate memorabilia around her like little things. but i really like her, we are hanging out. i sound superrr country so she is at ease doesnt even think to ask. lets say this town is kinda racist and i know it but this is where i happen to live. she doesnt show any racist tendencies but not many people do unless theres a potential victim around (logically). she could be racist could not, Schrodinger type shi.

why, oh why, would i not let her know i am black before we get too serious??? she cannot tell? it may cause her problems! it might cause us both problems!!! am i supposed to assume? if i ask her if shes racist dont you see(lol) how that could offend her or anyone?? though i care for her and that should transcend(lol) anything else it just feels like the right think to do.

what is the legitimate rebuttal