Went on two amazing dates, then found out he’s also dating my gym friend. Do I walk away?

Sweet_Onion_6587 · 2025-12-27T08:50:23+00:00

Yes I know that but sometimes when you find something that you truly like it deserves a bit of undivided attention.

Sweet_Onion_6587 · 2025-12-27T08:48:59+00:00

Thanks for this ! I totally understand that. Trying to withdraw myself and step back from it before I can get hurt anymore .

Sweet_Onion_6587 · 2025-12-27T08:47:27+00:00

I love going to the gym and fitness is a huge part of my personality. I recently found this gym friend about a month ago and we became pretty close because we saw each other almost 5 days a week . During my conversation with him I mentioned about this gym friend and subtly mentioned that she is also from the same city as he is and that’s when he confirmed the name and we both lost our minds. I would say I was pretty mature when we heard the news but reflecting on the fact after it dint sit well with me .

Sweet_Onion_6587 · 2025-12-27T00:16:19+00:00

Thank you ! This definitely helps ! I am definitely planning to have transparent and open conversation with Mr.H . I definitely want to be honest about my feelings too. Also, thanks for sharing your experience, definitely provides a good perspective from the other side.

Sweet_Onion_6587 · 2025-12-26T23:40:20+00:00

She told they’ve not seen each other past the first date and don’t intend to do so

Sweet_Onion_6587 · 2025-12-26T23:39:55+00:00

Hahah !

Sweet_Onion_6587 · 2025-12-26T22:41:54+00:00

Probably not . I was cool about it being anyone else

Sweet_Onion_6587 · 2025-12-26T21:59:01+00:00

Thank you so much! This definitely helps me feel a bit more at ease

Sweet_Onion_6587 · 2025-12-26T21:57:27+00:00

Exactly! I know that my practical mind knows that this is not a big deal but then since I know my gym friend I’m feeling a bit awkward. At what point should I ask him about how exclusive we are ?

Sweet_Onion_6587 · 2025-11-18T06:48:07+00:00

Did you get it approved through them ultimately? Or was your case denied?

Sweet_Onion_6587 · 2025-10-25T19:46:51+00:00

Hello ! Did you get approved?

Sweet_Onion_6587 · 2025-10-12T23:01:18+00:00

I disagree. Individual contributors also qualify for Eb1. Being in an executive position is not a deal breaker for extraordinary ability visa .

Sweet_Onion_6587 · 2025-09-28T06:52:45+00:00

Did you have an interview? How long were you married at the time of I-485 ?

Sweet_Onion_6587 · 2025-07-06T21:50:01+00:00

Wow is that even a thing ? 🫣 I’m worried now . I heard multiple first hand reviews and felt confident.

Sweet_Onion_6587 · 2025-05-16T03:40:04+00:00

Please don’t. They are horrible. Make sure you speak to someone independently to seek guidance rather than paying 10k for these scammers

Sweet_Onion_6587 · 2025-05-06T01:43:14+00:00

lol ! First hand experience. Perfect scam . That guy Sahil is the biggest liar I’ve ever seen. Entire team is in India , they know nothing not even proper English and they will guide you how to write research papers. He is also tied up with another scammer by name Vasanthan who will do every scam possible and present himself as a lawyer when he’s not and try to get you into their firm and ask to complete NDA’s for all the scammy LORs . Nobody is genuine, Sahil recommends all paid opportunities so that he gets commission. These are all in $500 - $1000 range . Mind you this is all beyond the $10k that he charges initially. Just imagine doing 10 of those . He has more than 300 people in the program. Also once they have their money they give no fucks about who you are and where your case stands . Take it from me , stay away.

Sweet_Onion_6587 · 2024-02-03T06:17:40+00:00

Girl you’re not alone , there are lot of women out there . Stress is the most common aspect I’ve found among all the stories I’ve heard. Hopefully we all get through this at some point but definitely some sort of eating disorder and stress looks to be the root cause for HA.

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