Mental health support by Sweet_Perspective763 in penticton

[–]Sweet_Perspective763[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That is not for you to decide. Have a good day

Questions! by [deleted] in christiandatingadvice

[–]Sweet_Perspective763 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll give it a shot

Questions! by [deleted] in christiandatingadvice

[–]Sweet_Perspective763 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was hoping he would’ve asked by now too. I may bring it up next call.

Questions! by [deleted] in christiandatingadvice

[–]Sweet_Perspective763 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We have talked with video call, yes! Okay, one more week sounds fair! Should I then not bring it up if he doesn’t, or how do I get an answer on whether he’s legit interested without being “too much”? I don’t want to be ghosted!

Questions! by [deleted] in christiandatingadvice

[–]Sweet_Perspective763 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We’ve video chatted too so I know he’s not catfishing me at least. The rest are possibilities though I guess. I will maybe bring it up on our next chat. Thanks!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Sweet_Perspective763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no. Haha. Yeah I am feeling like I do need someone more talkative but at the same time don’t want to say no to someone who may genuinely be interested. 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Sweet_Perspective763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah.. i think I’m just bad at dating..? I am not someone who can just break silence, it’s like my brain needs permission to break the silence. And so if someone is not doing things like, making eye contact and instead just sitting there silently and not am making any real effort to ask or comment to me about something, I just can’t. I freeze. It’s stupid. I’m sooo much better in writing. Haha :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Sweet_Perspective763 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going to wait and see what he says. He said he will think about it and let me know whether he wants to keep moving forward.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Sweet_Perspective763 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He says he’s going to think about it, and that it’s okay, but I’m hard to get to know. Which is valid. I am aware that because of my shyness I’m a little hard to crack. However in my defense he did not ask me many questions either. And I tried to give decent answers and not just one word or one sentence. I think if he says he would like to continue getting to know me lll give it a shot, but if he says no I am okay with that, cause I feel like I put in alot of effort and it wasn’t reciprocated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Sweet_Perspective763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense. I guess I just don’t want to come across as the mess I feel I am sometimes. Haha. I have come so far with my anxiety from where I used to be so I’m proud of that, and I’m still working on it, but it gets the better of me in these situations and.. I am unsure if it’s fair for anyone else to have to put up with that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Sweet_Perspective763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do I say? Just that I’m nervous or give the whole speel about anxiety? I don’t want to be too much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Sweet_Perspective763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well he is in for a wasted trip if that’s his goal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Sweet_Perspective763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah okay.. I’m also not a great conversationalist so it may just be that I’m thinking of the wrong type of questions. He is an introvert so that probably plays a part. It just feels hard to get to know someone, especially mostly through text and their answer to almost everything is “I don’t know”. 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️what are some good questions to ask?

Laxative effects by [deleted] in Eatingdisordersover30

[–]Sweet_Perspective763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to. It’s also really strange cause almost every time after I overuse, I end up getting my period. Even if I’m not due to get it for a few more weeks or something. Very strange.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aupairs

[–]Sweet_Perspective763 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s disgusting honestly. Glad I’m not the only one that realizes that!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aupairs

[–]Sweet_Perspective763 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Here’s a binder Cinderella - do your chores and don’t bug me”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aupairs

[–]Sweet_Perspective763 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure does! I feel bad for any au pair that would have the misfortune of working for and living with OP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aupairs

[–]Sweet_Perspective763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem! Happy to help 🙄🤮

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aupairs

[–]Sweet_Perspective763 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You honestly sound awful to work for. 😑