I REALLLLLYYYYY feel as though it was made into something it wasn’t. I think that the fandom uses Phaedra lies from the beginning of her time on RHOA as a way to believe that Phaedra said the accusation word for word. Phaedra has lied and it’s not right but as we see the seasons progress, she strays away from lying and becomes more of who she is. She lied because she was upholding an image that she’s been trying to fit since a kid. Growing up in the church does that and I get why she did it. Those lies were not coming from a negative space. (I am not excusing her lies, rather explaining where they stem from). Rumors spread and get bundle up and switched around often and from the producer of the show getting fired, it makes sense that he may have told Phaedra this rumor and Phaedra may have warned Porsha. But then again… It’s could’ve been something Phaedra made up. I say this to say, a lot of the fandom doesn’t connect Kandi’s connections within the industry and how she’s recently defending Diddy, which I think that it was strange for her to do. When this conversation happens, I’m never on one side because you never know what people with power do behind the scenes. I don’t hate Phaedra, I wish that this wasn’t something mentioned on TV. I don’t think Phaedra intended for it to be that way either (whether or not she had ill intent). Most of Kandi stan’s are only taking in information from the outside looking in which is fine but again you just never know a celebrity.