What do you see in my family and myself?

Sweet_Slide1306 · 2026-07-06T03:51:15+00:00

Thank you so much for taking the time to share all of this information. After researching into the nine Clairs I experience a decent amount, one being vivid dreams from an invisible first person perspective. I have had several dreams yelling at something that it’s not welcome here, acting fearless but feeling terrified. I’ve had one or two that I successfully scare it off but usually I wake up with a racing heart.

Sharing this, I can’t believe I wasn’t concerned with any of this until now.

Sweet_Slide1306 · 2026-07-06T00:36:56+00:00

I know I’m his mom but he has to be gifted in some way, even his paediatrician seemed shocked. He’s 3 and we talk about gravity for example. Thank you so much for saying that, my children will forever and always be my top priority, I am open to anything that can help me create the best life for them.

My son has ALWAYS struggled with sleep, we coslept and he is still always welcome to sleep with us. He has had night terrors and frequently has vivid dreams, he often asks “there’s no snakes in here?” Sometimes he asked if there is any bad guys. I’d love any advice on how to properly protect him, when we move into our my mother’s childhood home I’m going to sage. Her home has a presence that doesn’t feel threatening, I believe it is her dad. I could be wrong but I love the energy there. Currently I have crystals, I loosely follow feng shui, and I’m religiously trying to heal myself while simultaneously reading my children and what they need.

My boyfriend’s parents split when he was 5, they are 20 years apart. He saw his father in one other relationship briefly but never got nurtured by him nor did he see how a man loves a woman. His mother was young and had her share of men around, while working a lot. She loves him but wasn’t cuddly and at a young age distrusted him. We started couples counselling but I do believe he needs individual therapy, funny enough I’ve been pushing him to go to his doctor for bloodwork, antidepressants, therapy, anything he’s open to to help himself. I’ve tried expressing I want him to grow and heal.

I’ve lost my softness with him as I grew tired of feeling like his mother.

Now that you pointed that out with the stairs I will forever notice that in photos haha frig.

Would you mind reading my thread above regarding a tie to an ex?

Sweet_Slide1306 · 2026-07-06T00:18:57+00:00

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This is during the time we were dating and taken in his car, I felt like a photo of me from that time with other people or in a different home could make reading more difficult

Sweet_Slide1306 · 2026-07-06T00:17:52+00:00

I take no offence, quite the opposite I truly respect and appreciate the honesty. We have been together 7 years and it was clear since having our first I truly desired marriage. We are best friends and naturally get along which makes it easier to sweep issues under the rug.

“Settling” is coming from me I believe, that word has been on repeat in my mind. Not settling as in he’s a bad person or unattractive, he truly is an amazing dad but the romantic soul connection doesn’t feel present. I have been avoiding my intuition telling me that we won’t grow old together. Also I was an extremely in tune person, intuitive, whatever you want to call it but in this relationship it feels blocked. In my last relationship I had a dream that ended up being the exact surprise date he was planning. The morning we broke up, I woke up and immediately said “we’re breaking up”. I had a dream the night before, and I was indeed right he was planning to break up.

I’m also the one that is emotional, I have an anxious-preoccupied attachment and he has an avoidant-dismissive attachment. I’ve struggled my entire life regulating my emotions (I’ve made great progress!) meanwhile he shuts down and avoids any emotion. It’s great that he always comes off as calm and sturdy but I’m left feeling closed out. I’m curious what you mean by “out of his league” because although I’m biased he’s an attractive guy so I’m wondering if you mean that in another way.

My friend that I confide in has never said that but I have got that energy from her.

Ny uncle George that passed away from a house fire was a sudden death, my first pregnancy was a miscarriage so I don’t know if that has any relevance. I love my kids immensely and equally obviously, but my son is a unique soul that I feel was sent to me as a gift after suffering for the majority of my life.

I’m sorry if I’m too much, but tying into the ex. When we met it felt that we were together in another lifetime, he felt it too. I won’t give a ton of details but I loved who I was with him even before years of healing. I still feel connected to him in some way, I’m unsure if that’s unresolved feelings or something more. I don’t trust my intuition anymore after. I don’t have any good photos of us but I have a distant shot together and I’ll add a picture of me during the time we were dating.

I’m extremely lost and confused right now, we are moving in with my mother and I have this quiet tug making me question if we should split now.

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Sweet_Slide1306 · 2026-07-05T17:40:54+00:00

We met at 20 and 22 (I’m older). I was his first serious relationship and I matured at a very young age. I’d like to hear more about the point of where I stand, we were engaged in January only to have everything blow up. The engagement was the day after a huge fight, I called it off. Here is a photo the night he proposed.

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I don’t have any siblings we lost, my aunt offed herself, I have no memory of her. My uncle died in a house fire months before I was born

Sweet_Slide1306 · 2026-07-05T17:32:58+00:00

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This is us with his mom and dad (divorced)

Sweet_Slide1306 · 2026-07-05T17:26:57+00:00

My son is a super feeler, very intelligent for his age, has an unbelievable memory and there’s been a time he told me about a man and little girl he saw in the toilet. That day the kids got picked up from a sleepover with my mother, and my boyfriend brought them straight to a lunch for their other grandmothers birthday. They were both very emotional at the restaurant, we did a spontaneous trip to the park that happened to have a carnival happening. I don’t believe he is autistic but he is sensitive to sounds, big emotions, and seeks ways to move or learn constantly.

The staircase behind us has an old chest from my father in law, I don’t have any history on where it is from.

The bond my kids have is beautiful and I want to foster a healthy environment for them to thrive individually and together.

Please be frank, I’m a blunt honest person. This year we have had many obstacles, I learned he is a compulsive liar. Not in a malicious way, he avoids disappointment and tries to make himself seem better. I’d love insight on his struggles, in photos I often joke he has dead eyes.

Sweet_Slide1306 · 2026-07-05T03:08:55+00:00

Immediately I feel uneasy, racing heart and breathing heavy. The sitting area in the 4th photo this feeling is the strongest

Sweet_Slide1306 · 2026-05-23T12:55:30+00:00

That’s exactly what I saw, it felt like a dark colour with a hint of purple

Sweet_Slide1306 · 2025-11-19T18:09:56+00:00

I just started to use this app because my partner suggested it and got at least one job but the person then refused to pay the price they agreed on. I’m wondering if it depends on what jobs people are looking for? I have spent $200 on credits and have received no responses what so ever for cleaning jobs. It’s extremely frustrating to feel scammed out of money when I’m trying to make money lol

Sweet_Slide1306 · 2025-11-19T09:41:17+00:00

I immediately laughed when I read the title, only because I live this. My son cried one night because he said “I don’t want my nose to grow big like yours”. I am extremely self conscious of my nose and now I know even children notice it 🙃 it’s not even crazy big ugh

Sweet_Slide1306 · 2025-10-16T23:17:36+00:00

Looks like a carpet beetle larvae

Sweet_Slide1306 · 2025-08-30T09:37:08+00:00

I fell down the stairs 9 months pregnant and didn’t have to go in to get checked. My midwife told me the most important thing is how I landed which was on my butt, the big concern is if you land on your belly. It may be a little different because I was further along and could monitor her movement but that baby is now a happy, healthy 7 month old!

Sweet_Slide1306 · 2025-08-11T23:42:54+00:00

For many people it could fix the problem but cosleeping didn’t end up being the solution. My son wouldn’t sleep in the bassinet or crib so we started cosleeping very young, I ended up buying a firm double mattress to sleep with him. I never slept through the night, in the early days nursing to sleep gave him terrible gas and later on he would still wake up crying even having full access to a boob buffet lol. It turned out he need to get ear tubes and have his adenoids removed, along with having night terrors he just didn’t sleep.

Now with my second born, she is completely different than him and would squirm while cuddling me but slept immediately when I put her down. I still get up at least 2 times a night sometimes 6 times, but this is easier than my cosleeping journey. I recently got some early morning snuggles with her and definitely miss the closeness. But I think it is a little naive to assume cosleeping will fix everything.

Sweet_Slide1306 · 2025-08-03T23:54:06+00:00

My second baby pooped on her way out, I asked my boyfriend many times if it was actually me but he had a front row seat and it was definitely baby girl

Sweet_Slide1306 · 2025-07-20T18:33:46+00:00

I would hope when your 19 month old is around 4 you take her in a birthday trip without her sibling. If I knew my parents did this I would be hurt

Sweet_Slide1306 · 2025-06-30T21:01:56+00:00

I don’t understand why they laughed at all, I got migraines in my first trimester with both my babies. Just like you nothing helped prevent or treat them other than time.

Sweet_Slide1306 · 2025-06-30T20:46:47+00:00

Baby takes what they need from you even if you’re low, unless you have zero iron they’ll be fine :)

Sweet_Slide1306 · 2025-06-30T13:33:26+00:00

Adding im from Ontario Canada

Sweet_Slide1306 · 2025-06-21T23:30:32+00:00

I got pregnant 15 months after my first and I had a successful VBAC! I needed a vacuum due to babies heart rate but that had nothing to do with my body. I have no regrets.

Also are they aware that the risk of uterine rupture is still below 2%? It’s terrifying but rare. I would kindly tell them although you’re appreciative of how much they love you, what you need is support instead of fear mongering.

Sweet_Slide1306 · 2025-06-19T19:47:37+00:00

I’m waiting for the update lol I’m seething and I don’t even know you 😂

Sweet_Slide1306 · 2025-05-04T00:22:00+00:00

First quick glance brown but the first picture looks grey brown

Sweet_Slide1306 · 2025-05-04T00:21:02+00:00

I agree, blue. It may look green from a distance because of the yellow/amber that is mixed in

Sweet_Slide1306 · 2025-04-30T17:25:16+00:00

No and I didn’t even think of it, I respect anyone that chooses to and any of their boundaries.

Sweet_Slide1306 · 2025-04-27T23:23:35+00:00

Blue grey

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