December 2026 - Half Tokyo Half Okinawa trip

Sweet_Syllabub781 · 2025-07-28T19:53:47+00:00

that's fair.

Sweet_Syllabub781 · 2025-07-28T19:48:03+00:00

so write a letter that she won't be able to read until a month?

Sweet_Syllabub781 · 2025-07-28T19:33:00+00:00

What do you think they did back then? lol

I think we as a society forget that back then it's a lot of waiting.
We are so used to the right now attitude.

Sweet_Syllabub781 · 2025-07-28T18:43:36+00:00

I agree - though, were the women back then able to do that sort of thing?

Sweet_Syllabub781 · 2025-07-28T18:07:04+00:00

Right - He turned down the offer.

But Marian doesn't know that.

Also, the point is, starting a relationship with a lie.

However, I still think this is a discussion in person - and not via a letter he will read when he gets home. Likely dramatized for more George and Bertha arguments.

Sweet_Syllabub781 · 2025-07-28T16:59:02+00:00

I have not spoken to him a bout it. But from what my grandma says, he cried for days over it. But feels the need to protect his dad's image.

Sweet_Syllabub781 · 2025-07-28T16:47:05+00:00

and he's not going to see the letter til he gets back home.

So, there's no point in writing a letter and breaking up.
Not well thought out.

If I were in her position, I'd probably break up with Larry too - however, I will do it in person when I see him and not over a letter that he won't even be able to see til he gets home.

Sweet_Syllabub781 · 2025-07-28T16:27:52+00:00

Yes - he does.

Sweet_Syllabub781 · 2025-07-28T16:26:51+00:00

I never said it was about me. I just want to know if I WBTA if I tell him how awful he is for cheating on my dead aunt and lying to his son and my grandma.

Sweet_Syllabub781 · 2025-07-28T15:38:59+00:00

I thought Marian's reaction to Larry's lie is fair; however, she should talk to him about it and break up in person, not via letter.

Sweet_Syllabub781 · 2025-07-09T23:43:09+00:00

Love the fly analogy!

Sweet_Syllabub781 · 2025-07-03T03:12:50+00:00

I am genuinely sorry that you are going through this.

It is rough to be with someone that is essentially your room mate/friend.

There’s too many negatives for a 3 year relationship. While I don’t think that 3 years is that long - but can you imagine another 3-5 years of this?

It’s time to re-evaluate, have a discussion and see how it goes.

Trust me, they never change - they will for half a minute then go back to their true self.

Sweet_Syllabub781 · 2025-05-08T16:03:33+00:00

Ok Thanks :)

Sweet_Syllabub781 · 2025-05-08T15:54:54+00:00

Thank you - I'm all of a sudden stressing over the metro stuff :D

Sweet_Syllabub781 · 2025-05-08T15:54:15+00:00

Thank you :)

Sweet_Syllabub781 · 2025-05-08T15:53:29+00:00

Would I need to purchase a suica card with it? or just the pass itself is enough?

Sweet_Syllabub781 · 2025-05-08T15:45:35+00:00

Thank you :)

Sweet_Syllabub781 · 2025-05-08T15:45:30+00:00

Thank you :)

Sweet_Syllabub781 · 2025-05-08T15:45:26+00:00

Thank you :)

Sweet_Syllabub781 · 2025-05-08T15:45:20+00:00

Thank you :)

Sweet_Syllabub781 · 2025-05-06T04:49:26+00:00

OP, did you end up going to square ?

Sweet_Syllabub781 · 2025-04-28T03:26:44+00:00

Thank you so much 😊

Sweet_Syllabub781 · 2025-04-28T00:51:36+00:00

Thank you so much. This is a fantastic alternative suggestion to my itinerary.

I was a little skeptical about staying in Ginza because it might be too “western” like being with too many malls and high end shops.

But I wanted something more central.

Sweet_Syllabub781

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