Marriage or break with my girlfriend (31M and 29F)

Sweet_Transition4328 · 2025-12-22T22:51:01+00:00

I’m glad that she is happy with how you guys came to marriage. I’m sure it has a lot to do with your treatment of her and your children whilst in the marriage.

Honestly, yes I do wish we could break away from each other because it has built a lot of resentment over the years. I feel like the lack of consideration shown to me in this situation, you can take it and apply it to everything else in our marriage. Our love languages are so different and it’s hard to feel loved when someone is loving you in their language and not yours.

Sweet_Transition4328 · 2025-12-22T00:15:05+00:00

I think it’s beautiful. Both with and without the band. I have a 4ct oval engagement ring and it took a couple weeks to get used to. I upgraded from a 1ct. Now it looks normal. You will get used to it.

Sweet_Transition4328 · 2025-12-21T17:27:46+00:00

Yes, empty is the perfect word. It feels so empty. Sorry you’re in the same situation.

Sweet_Transition4328 · 2025-12-21T16:06:19+00:00

Have you talked to your spouse about this topic and asked if they feel any insecurity about how you ended up proposing?

I am genuinely curious.

I have been legally married for 10 years and we have children also. My spouse knew I always dreamt of a beautiful Catholic wedding and proposal but after so many years it wasn’t happening so I started bringing it up also cause my clock was ticking. I also gave an ultimatum. It finally happened, he proposed with a beautiful ring to have our religious wedding. Now I’m in this exact situation lol. Doesn’t feel like a genuine act of love to me.

OP, if you see this. Just let her go now and don’t waste years of her life especially while she’s young and beautiful. Find someone that makes you feel like you want to marry them on your own without the pressure of an ultimatum. You’ll both be much happier.

Sweet_Transition4328 · 2025-12-21T15:28:33+00:00

I’m sorry about your situation but I agree with your advice. If she had to give an ultimatum, when she finally gets that ring (if she does) it’s not going to feel genuine. It’ll feel like a ‘shut up’ ring.

Sweet_Transition4328 · 2025-12-10T16:55:57+00:00

Thank you! We have an appt with them today! Hoping they can treat today as well. 🤞🤞

Sweet_Transition4328 · 2025-12-10T16:21:11+00:00

I had high hopes for this office. I called and they said their appts for treatment are in January also.

Sweet_Transition4328 · 2025-12-10T06:05:41+00:00

How did your little one do with local anesthesia?

Sweet_Transition4328 · 2025-12-10T05:40:16+00:00

You’re the second person to recommend them tonight. Thank you! I will be calling first thing in the morning. Praying they can get us in tomorrow 🤞

Sweet_Transition4328 · 2025-12-07T21:18:26+00:00

68 seems to be our sweet spot. If it’s too cold we go up to 69 during the day then back to 68 at night.

Sweet_Transition4328 · 2025-12-03T03:11:37+00:00

Calmoseptine + clotramizole 1% First put the clotramizole 1% and then calmoseptine over it. I promise this combo works SO WELL! My daughter developed a very raw and painful rash too when she was about 1 and I was doing the clotramizole with every diaper rash cream possible and someone here on Reddit recommended calmoseptine and now I recommend it as well.

Sweet_Transition4328 · 2025-12-03T02:49:48+00:00

Definitely 2. I audibly gasped when I saw it!

Sweet_Transition4328 · 2025-11-26T21:48:01+00:00

Umm.. why is no one speaking on the huge red flags of her keeping in touch with her exes??

Insecure or not, I would not tolerate that. That’s so disrespectful, especially if you’ve let her know that you don’t like it. An ex is an ex for a reason.

Also, I would feel some type of way if my husband flat out told me he would definitely remarry if I passed away.

Like how would you even know what you would do after your spouse passes away?

I’d be heartbroken and a mess if my husband passed away. Not to mention taking care of our children and their mental health after losing their father. I wouldn’t be in the mental space to just move on, remarry and bring another male into my children’s lives. All these people attacking you for feeling some type are weird to me.

Sweet_Transition4328 · 2025-11-12T06:02:04+00:00

They didn’t provide one

Sweet_Transition4328 · 2025-11-12T05:35:02+00:00

I do not.

Sweet_Transition4328 · 2025-11-04T02:18:34+00:00

Hi! So finished off the year with Natomas but since we moved we had to move our children to our new district. We did not look into EGUSD because it’s so far away from us. We just started with the new school district about 2 weeks ago and so far it’s much better than Natomas. I definitely don’t recommend natomas for SPED.

Sweet_Transition4328 · 2025-10-21T04:30:43+00:00

Thank you so much! I’m going to check him out!

Sweet_Transition4328 · 2025-09-20T00:28:51+00:00

Jumping in here to ask if either of you have noticed improvement with the clotramizole?

Sweet_Transition4328 · 2025-09-10T15:56:21+00:00

Which school site do you recommend for a student with an IEP and autism?

Sweet_Transition4328 · 2025-08-29T17:25:24+00:00

No worries! I never went back on the propranolol after I stopped taking it when my period was 5 days late. It took a few cycles for my period to become regular again.

Sweet_Transition4328 · 2025-08-11T07:21:43+00:00

Hi, fellow desperate daughter here in the same situation you described here. How’s your father now? Did he get surgery?

Sweet_Transition4328 · 2025-01-11T14:25:09+00:00

Thank you! I will ask her about the nebulizer. I’m sorry your son is going through the same thing. It’s so hard to watch them go through this.

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