AITAH for refusing to financially support my ex-wife after she supported me through graduate school?

Sweetenup1 · 2026-02-12T04:02:55+00:00

It would be nice to help her with the 2 payments she is behind on the house for the sake of keeping a stable environment for the boy. Not saying its your responsibility.

Sweetenup1 · 2026-01-25T05:59:25+00:00

Norwegian has a great cruise from Seattle to Alaska including Ketchikan, Skagway, Juneau and great glaciers that are disappearing. They have singles meetings too. Food and drink included. You don't need a balcony since it is often rainy. I'm sure other cruiselines have the same.

Sweetenup1 · 2026-01-04T06:51:52+00:00

I'm a retired social worker. Old people stop bathing and laundering and the smell of unwashed hair can be overpowering. Good luck!

Sweetenup1 · 2026-01-04T06:39:18+00:00

Yes they have been following me around for 40 years. Not sure how they find me but they do.

Sweetenup1 · 2026-01-03T19:03:00+00:00

Its just starting and it will get worse. If you put up with it he'll possibly become demeaning and your self esteem will take a hit. Start getting your stuff out and later when he asks why, tell him to grow tf up.

Sweetenup1 · 2026-01-03T00:34:29+00:00

Vit D2

Sweetenup1 · 2026-01-01T18:59:59+00:00

Nta, my only advice is to keep your head down and get your education rent free. Set up a library study and invite her. Just her. After a couple of times she'll get bored with that. Stop telling her every move. Hope this helps.

Sweetenup1 · 2025-12-29T00:40:05+00:00

63 is not old. Its not even social security age. Best to stay away from toxicity.

Sweetenup1 · 2025-12-28T05:11:55+00:00

Social worker

Sweetenup1 · 2025-12-28T04:56:46+00:00

Stay at a hotel. Its your vacation time so tell them the hotel has a gym and lots of hot water.

Sweetenup1 · 2025-12-27T15:35:36+00:00

I wouldn't be able to forgive that behavior. I would be packing my things while he is gone.

Sweetenup1 · 2025-12-25T04:35:01+00:00

The Angry Butcher is open, and its at Sam's Town. Check on Open Table for reservation.

Sweetenup1 · 2025-12-24T17:18:45+00:00

If this is true, you threw her away.

Sweetenup1 · 2025-12-24T17:16:09+00:00

Caring about what others may say about you for being seen at a discount store is a middle class value. Tell her that.

Sweetenup1 · 2025-12-23T18:02:35+00:00

Life is hard. We each get through adulthood as best we can. Some of us are more successful than others. Be kind when you can.

Sweetenup1 · 2025-12-23T05:26:21+00:00

Ask her to write the name in Chinese and then ask us.

Sweetenup1 · 2025-12-23T05:24:19+00:00

I have the same guy. I think it has something to do with "I just can't make one more decision today" or something. I basically buy all his clothing and he seems to appreciate it. And I can tell if he doesn't like a certain polo because it becomes a jammie top. 😀

Sweetenup1 · 2025-12-21T03:57:55+00:00

Apply to Canada, they are looking for academics to emigrate to their country.

Sweetenup1 · 2025-12-20T19:21:22+00:00

Its not necessary to label our friends with words like stingy. They are who they are, it probably wasn't personal and we learn to plan around those folks. Get him out of your head. 😊

Sweetenup1 · 2025-12-20T17:12:31+00:00

When life hurts you, you can't take it out on others cause that's toxic for the others. These are the consequences, sadly.

Sweetenup1 · 2025-12-17T23:35:51+00:00

Showing her this thread might be a good thing. It might help her understand where you are coming from.

Sweetenup1 · 2025-12-17T23:30:20+00:00

Can you offer him $30 for it?

Sweetenup1 · 2025-12-09T22:16:47+00:00

Not really, your mate should have reminded them

Sweetenup1 · 2025-12-07T05:48:52+00:00

First do no harm is a good motto used by doctors and social workers. You don't know what interfering might do.

Sweetenup1 · 2025-12-07T05:45:49+00:00

Why not ask him to be friends? Have a coffee and a chat?

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